about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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Ok so im gettign a frecnh manicur3e on Wensdya and I was wondering if they could still do it even tho my nails are short, like there is barely no white on the tips, THANKS

yes they can do it. my nails are short and they still did it for me.
*~Stephanie~*

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what would you do if you are only 14 and a girl wants to grab you there but you aint had puberty and it aint that big and youve been going out for almost 2 years what should i do just let her and get humiliated or just tell her to wait

if i where you i would try to hold out on that right now because if this is your first time 4 both of you then you would want her to remember it and enjoy it..just try doing other things like finguring her and eating out..
*~Stephanie~*

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i`m 16 & my boyfriend is in jail i love him more then anything in this world .. he says hes gonna change but i dont know if i should believe him what should i do

i think you should give him another chance.. gettin put to jail isnt the most easiest thing to happen to you. like my cusion went to jail and he came back and like now he is a whole new person and a lot more respectful and everything. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok i have this friend named sean and i like him more than a friend and i want to be with him all the time!
its not like a stupid crush like ive had befor when i like them because everyone else does...i like him because he respects me and everytime i talk to him i get butterflys in my stomach .
how can i get him to like me back ?

16/f

how about you try spending more time with him and getting closer to him and filrting a lot with him. just show him how you feel about him and see his reacation.. i mean you dont have to tell him because right now you dont even know if he likes you. hope this ehlps.
*~Stephanie~*

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i just got a hair cut. it is like the first one on the page only a little shorter,do you think this looks good? --[[first one]] --

http://www.salonweb.com/hstyles/long.htm

it is really cute.
*~Stephanie~*

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i am seriuosly way overWEIGHT i am like 350 and i am in the 8th grade...pple make fun of me....alot...what should i do????

From a BIGG SUE

i used to be made fun off too when i was younger... i always used to have low self esteam and never thought i was pretty or anything.. i mean i have lost A LOT of weiight but i still think i am fat and unpretty.. no one is perfect.. everyone has something that they dont like about them self. for you know if you dont like the way you look you can always change and it is better and easier to change when you are yonger because your body is still growin and changing... you dont have to do a lot of excerise i mean you can still eat whatever you want just dont eat it all that is what i did and i lost 20 pounds in a month.. but otherwise just ignore them and concentrate on your education that is what you are there for. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have a problem of course.

So i went on to MSN Messenger to chat with my girlfriend and then i Find her friend there and we start talking and so She askes if i want to know anything about her(because my girlfriend is all seritive) and she said she knew alot so i asked stuff i was unsure abou(wed only been going out for 3 months) like her gift favs and what movies she likes.and then i asked a stupid question of wheather she was a virgin or not (because shes all shallow acting and like dark so)and she awnser. then my GF found out and was all mad(i didnt like push for the awnsers if she had said she thinks its too privite cause i didnt then i wouldnt have asked more) so then shes all like "you are a jerk to ask that and invade my privicy" and im thinking "what?" so now weve broken up and im all depressed and stuff cause i dont want to be over and i think its stupid to fight over this now she wont even talk to me so i can apologize.I want to apologize even if we are through and she wants me dead i just want to know if anyone else thinks i invaded or asked something too personal and what i can to to at least make us not hating each other if we cant be friends again.

Solemnstar
PS shes on her period so it might be that

ok well if she on her period right now i advice you to let it go for a couple of days because i know when i am on mine i get mad really easliy and shit.. let the fire cool down between you and her i mean damn it was only a question.. i know if a guy asks me that i would answer it truthfully and not make such a big deal out.. but if it was my boyfriend askin me something like this i dont think that would be invadin my privace bc he is my boyfriend he SHOULD noe stuff like that about me.. about the stuff that she wants you died and all dont take that shit serious.. i mean i used to say that too all my ex boyfriend with i broke up with them or they broke up with me... but just let things calm down for like about 3-5 days then try apologizing to her. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok what do you do when you like this kid and your so called best friend sayd that she likes him also and then you fight over him and your best friend is starting to like all the same people you are and when you want to talk about them to her she complains an whines she likes them too and then he asked me out and i told her and shes didnt believe me an now shes all jelous i mean whats her problem all i know is she dont have a personality of her own and she thinks she better than me.... i nmean is that a friend what should i do????

i dont think your soo called friend is a really good friend. i mean my friends if i like a guy and she thinks he is hot and likes him then which ever the asks out wit always be happy for each other. try telling your friend that just beacuse you like a guy doesnt mean she has to like him too. you should talk things out with your friend and tell her how you feel. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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can people see who asks the question on advicenators? i mean like i'm asking this question, can anyone find out that it's me?

thanks

only level 2 and 3 mod. can.
*~Stephanie~*

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What would you consider a make-out? Tounge or no tounge? I think my friends and i think they are different things. Can you help me?

making out is with some amout of tongue. i personally like making out it is fun and i enmjoy it better then a regualr kiss because you do more touching in it...lol..
*~Stephanie~*

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I am going out with someone that is a year younger than me and no one has really said anything to me about it yet but i have a feeling they will...i cannot stand when people continuously say crap to me about it...is it really wrong that hes a year younger?

no a year isnt a big deal.. dont worry about what people say. forget them i mean ur one going out with the guy not them. it is your life not there you can do whatever you want. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey this guy i know said that he loved me, but i never saw him before and know nothing about him..and after he told me he loved me i asked him if he knew anything about me and he said my name and then he said isent that enough..he was acting really retarded..and now every time i talk to him hes like hey babe, what's up sexys...should i go out with him?!

i wouldnt fall for that if i where i mean first you should get to know him better then maybe go out with him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I just got my hair cut and i REALLY hate it,[[long story short im not a good "hair" expert and i didnt no the difference between angles and layers..]] Is there any Shampoo or ways to make it grow faster? [[im lucky this happend on summer vacation,and not in school!!]] Also,what is the avrage rate of hair growth with in 2 months? [[when school starts]] I have fine,soft,not-so thick hair if it even helps at all. Please Help!!

i dont know about the shampo and i tink in 2 months your hair will grow back because every 3 days your hair grow i forgot by how much but yea... what will make it grow back faster is to late your hair have some of its newtrons.. you mightt hink i am crazy but your hair makes its own food so what i am trying to say is dotn take a shower everyday or then it wont grow back as fast.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm 12 and a female and i really need a strapless bra but i'm only in an A.Where can I get a cheap,good strapless bra?
CD

you can get it at k-mart or i get mine from walmart.
*~Stephanie~*

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ive been goin out with this lad 4 nearly 3 years on and off n we split up bout 2 months ago and he got a new gf so i found some1 i liked i started havin sex with him n he asked me ut n i said yes but then my x asked finished with his gf n asked me bk out n i said yes so im goin out with both of them i love the 1 that ive been with for nearly 3 years but i think im fallin 4 the other aswell help me plz

i think you should fallow your heart.. i mean i honesty dont think a 3 year realtionship that you guys keep breakin up and getting back together is a good realtionship.. but you need to think which guy you like better? and how much more? yea it might be hard but you have to decide... i think you should go witht he guy you are falling for.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I don't know if any one remembers me, i asked the question if i should dumb my boyfriend because all my friends said he was wearidand an @$$. Well i didn't, thanks to all you, we kissed for the first time the other night at a party now everybody is convinced that i'm on crack or something. What sould i do? I've tryed talking to my friends and they keep going on and on about how stupid i am to be going out with him. please i really need help!

your friends should be by your side no matter what.. i mean my bestfriend hates my boyfriend leterly she wants to kill him but when his gone(long distance realtionship) she is always there to comfront me and tell me everything is going to be ok.. that is what friends are for you to help you with your life not make it worse for you. tell your friends that if they care about you that they should respet the fact that you are with this guy...talk to them and tell them how you feel. you migth want to add that your the one going out with this guy not them. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it normal to have hair around the nipples on your breasts? Is there any way to get rid of it?

yes it is normal.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am new here and i have been looking at peoples advice colum and I was wondering how do you get those backgrounds and music on your colum?I alredy have an advice colum:)

I rate 5`s for good help:)

ok well my background i got myself from places off the web but i got these4 two site that can help you out with you advice coulmn
http://diamondrains.com/


http://www.starlightmks.com/main.html

if you would like more just drop something in my inbox and i would be happy to help you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i got wallpaper from this site called www.screensavers.com i was wondering there is any possible way to delete wallpaper because the wallpaper i got from the site i don't want anymore so is there anyway to delete wallpaper off your computer? and if there is could you tell me the process or steps in order to get it off your computer thanks ~ sunshine1232

go i have downloaded those before this is what you do you go to start then my computer then add or remove programs and find the screen saver thing and delete it off your computer. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey..well on IM all of a sudden this guy told me he loved me but the only thing he knew about me was my name and i told him he didn't but he saying he does..but i don't believe him should i?

i wouldnt believe it if i were you i mean what if this guy isnt who he says he is.
*~Stephanie~*

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