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in love with 1 lad but fallin 4 another
ive been goin out with this lad 4 nearly 3 years on and off n we split up bout 2 months ago and he got a new gf so i found some1 i liked i started havin sex with him n he asked me ut n i said yes but then my x asked finished with his gf n asked me bk out n i said yes so im goin out with both of them i love the 1 that ive been with for nearly 3 years but i think im fallin 4 the other aswell help me plz
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Well you dont want to keep leading both of them on.. Make a chart. Once one do you like spending time with more? which one can you act yourself around.? which one can you trust. Just follow your heart the one that you have the best time with be with.Sorry I cant be anymore help.. ♥
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i think you should fallow your heart.. i mean i honesty dont think a 3 year realtionship that you guys keep breakin up and getting back together is a good realtionship.. but you need to think which guy you like better? and how much more? yea it might be hard but you have to decide... i think you should go witht he guy you are falling for.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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go out with the one that was your boyfriend of 3 years. that is the only one that is probably true love.
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Well, i would stay with the one your "falling for" because you had sex with him. It's not a good relationship when you brake up on and off for 3 years! Even though you probably dont want to hear this, its time to move on hun, your old boyfriend either wants to be with you or doesnt. Its not good when you brake up and go back out with the same guy. Go for the new guy in my opinion. You better brake up with the old one or new one soon, whichever you pick because tbat would be cheating on them if you do go out with both. How old are you? You had sex with the new guy before he even asked you out???? And about the old bf, i think that your just confused with him, so go with the new one.. Good Luck. Hope I helped. Srry if you didnt like my answer....
~Brina~
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i would have to say, in my own oppinion, you should stay with the one you have veen with for nearly 3 years. there is a good relationship there, with trust, and doesnt 3 years tell you something? the other guy had sex with you BEFORE asking you out, say anything there? maybe the other guy is in it for what he is getting out of it, the 3year guy doesnt sound like that. and also with the 3year guy, he found another girl, then went back to you! that should say something, the other girl wasnt as good as you, and he wants you back! you also mentioned that this was an off and on relationship, but that again shows that he wants to be with you over any of the other girls that he "found" and "tried out" the other guy that you sorta like now, that will come and go your whole life, even after marrige, most likely, but you just have to stop and think "should i be with this guy who i dont know, and who i havent been in a good relationship with, or this guy who i have been with for years, through the good and the bad, and who has always come back to me? the guy who i and him have both worked to keep our long relationship going?"
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I say give the new one a chance. If the other one is only coming back to you because he's done with his latest girlfriend, then you should give the one who you are falling for a chance. Everyone deserves one! thanks- hope I helped. Sahara
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