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I don't know if any one remembers me, i asked the question if i should dumb my boyfriend because all my friends said he was wearidand an @$$. Well i didn't, thanks to all you, we kissed for the first time the other night at a party now everybody is convinced that i'm on crack or something. What sould i do? I've tryed talking to my friends and they keep going on and on about how stupid i am to be going out with him. please i really need help!
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I remember ya! You really need to just ignore their remarks. I know it can be difficult to do.
They need someone to teach them not to judge others. I think that once they get to know him a little better they will change their opinions of him. If they don't then that's their problem. Don't let the way they think affect your relationship. Just don't discuss him with them. Tell them if they have nothing nice to say just don't bother. :)
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Forget what people have to say.. if you like him you shouldnt care what people say about you being with him.. ignore em.. try not to let it get to you.. ♥ Dez
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Why should your friends go on and on about the guy you're going out with? It is YOUR descision about who you want to see, and they shouldn't be bothering you about him. Why don't you just tell them to stop and if they don't, ignore them until they finally give in. But if they're just kidding, then don't take it personally. They already warned you, so you don't need to accept their advice about him if you already know you like him a lot. If he is a good person, stay with him.
Hope I helped,
~Alexa~
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Ask yourself some questions:
How do you feel about this boy?
How does he feel about you?
Do you feel comfortable with him?
Do you enjoy being with him?
Does your family like him?
Now, decide what of the above is important to >>>you<<<. Decide which is more important - your friend's liking your boyfriend, whoever he may be, or being with this guy.
If you decide on the guy, then you also need to decide on something else - do you want to be friends with people who are going to try to run your life for you, or do you want friends who are going to support you in your decisions? I'm not telling you to get rid of your friends, but you should tell them what it is you want.
There's a whole, whole lot more, but I can't keep my head wrapped around it long enough.
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The important thing here is that he makes you happy.
If your friends think he's a jerk, who cares! Though I've never been in the situation, I'd imagine it's probably rough having your friends not agree with your decision. Then again, if they really are your friends, they should be happy with any decision you make. The way I see it, they're either really protective of you and care about you (in this case you should have a talk with them maybe individually and tell them that he's a great guy and you are truly happy with him), or maybe they're just jealous that you even have a boyfriend! Just do what is right for you and what makes you happy. Like I said, if they were true friends, they would learn to dea with it. Keep him. To me, anyway, he sounds like great guy.
Hope I helped <33
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The way that i see it no matter who you date someone is gonna have a problem with it and always gonna have something to say. So dont listen to what everyone else is saying because if you did you would never truely be happy. If this guy makes you happy then no matter how many down falls you have stay with him. Everyone has rough times in relationships it only makes then stronger when you can stay together and work it through.. Hope I helped..Remember its your relationship you are the only one that can say if you want to be in it or not.♥ Rate me
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your friends should be by your side no matter what.. i mean my bestfriend hates my boyfriend leterly she wants to kill him but when his gone(long distance realtionship) she is always there to comfront me and tell me everything is going to be ok.. that is what friends are for you to help you with your life not make it worse for you. tell your friends that if they care about you that they should respet the fact that you are with this guy...talk to them and tell them how you feel. you migth want to add that your the one going out with this guy not them. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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Hey, I know what your going through because I just went through that about 5 months ago..... But see the thing is I listened to my friends and made a huge mistake because I had really liked this dude... But don't listen to your friends listen to your heart and you see something in him that your friends don't see..... They dont know him like you do.... But if you listen to them you may be making the wrong mistake..... And you will never get over it for real. But JUST GO WITH YOUR HEART
xoxo,jess
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