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too far perchance
I have a problem of course.
So i went on to MSN Messenger to chat with my girlfriend and then i Find her friend there and we start talking and so She askes if i want to know anything about her(because my girlfriend is all seritive) and she said she knew alot so i asked stuff i was unsure abou(wed only been going out for 3 months) like her gift favs and what movies she likes.and then i asked a stupid question of wheather she was a virgin or not (because shes all shallow acting and like dark so)and she awnser. then my GF found out and was all mad(i didnt like push for the awnsers if she had said she thinks its too privite cause i didnt then i wouldnt have asked more) so then shes all like "you are a jerk to ask that and invade my privicy" and im thinking "what?" so now weve broken up and im all depressed and stuff cause i dont want to be over and i think its stupid to fight over this now she wont even talk to me so i can apologize.I want to apologize even if we are through and she wants me dead i just want to know if anyone else thinks i invaded or asked something too personal and what i can to to at least make us not hating each other if we cant be friends again.
Solemnstar
PS shes on her period so it might be that
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I think it is something that in these times we live in you may have a right to know at some point. I do think you should have asked her about it though and not her friend. Talk to her somehow. Maybe even write her a long note explaining things to her and telling her how you feel about her. Hopefully, you can get it worked out. Bye the way, she won't be able to throw away the note without looking. Almost impossible for a girl to do! :)
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Jeez, melodramatic much? She's acting like a drama queen. She should know that obviously guys are going to be curious about that kind of thing.
If you ask me, it sounds like she's not ready for a relationship. Trust is a very important part of an relationship, and so she shouldn't be secretive about things. You shouldn't have to hide things from your boyfriend/girlfriend.
If I were you I'd forget about getting back together with her, but if you really feel you want to apologize, try writing her a note or buying her something. It's your choice.
Good luck.
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ok well if she on her period right now i advice you to let it go for a couple of days because i know when i am on mine i get mad really easliy and shit.. let the fire cool down between you and her i mean damn it was only a question.. i know if a guy asks me that i would answer it truthfully and not make such a big deal out.. but if it was my boyfriend askin me something like this i dont think that would be invadin my privace bc he is my boyfriend he SHOULD noe stuff like that about me.. about the stuff that she wants you died and all dont take that shit serious.. i mean i used to say that too all my ex boyfriend with i broke up with them or they broke up with me... but just let things calm down for like about 3-5 days then try apologizing to her. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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I think she IS being over sensative.. because I know if a guy asked me that I would think theyre just jokin around or somethin and I would tell them the truth I guess! But it would be cute if you apologized, if you like her you should go out with her, but she seems overly dramatic to me! I think you could do better !
--emily
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