VeNzUeLa answered Monday July 21 2008, 4:36 am: There really isn't an easy way to break it up to him, so just say it, straight forward. It is bad as it is, and he will be heart broken, if he really liked you, and there won't be much you can do.
Cux answered Monday July 21 2008, 12:38 am: As blunt as this may sound, say this:
"[Insert name here], I'm cheating on you."
If you're sorry, tell him ONCE. If you're not, then don't blindly apologize. If you want to stay with him, ask if he is willing to trust you, but you have to be prepared that he might leave you, which you only have yourself to blame for. If you don't want to stay with him, break it off. It wasn't fair of you to start cheating on him, and it wouldn't be fair to continue to date him while cheating on him and not wanting to date him at all.
Matt answered Monday July 21 2008, 12:33 am: Cheating, as in present tense?
Don't; just break up with him. You obviously don't give a shit about his feelings, so why bother staying in the relationship? [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
marilynmonroe answered Monday July 21 2008, 12:31 am: Yikes! Well don't hold it off, tell him as soon as possible. Explain your reasons for cheating, whatever they may be, and hopefully he'll understand. Good luck!
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