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I'm 22 weeks & four days pregnant to be exact.
Before I got pregnant, I only weighed 94 pounds & I was around 5'2.
I'm now 116 pounds, I've gained a total of 22 pounds since I've been pregnant which isn't good. All my weight has gone straight to my butt, back & my hips.
Its really scaring me into thinking I'll be really big after I have the baby.
I need to know what I can do to lose some weight, My doctor also believes I need to go on a no card diet.
The average woman only gains 25 to 35 pounds through out the whole pregnancy, None of this is baby weight.
It's the weight I'm going to keep after the baby, If I don't lose it.
My baby weighs right at a pound right now, according to my appointment before last.
Any Ideas?
Thanks much.
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Hey dear, this website: sparkpeople.com is amazing. I promise you, it will help you lose weight. It's completely free, you enter your weight & height, and how much weight you want to lose, and it calculates how many calories you should eat per day, and what exercise you should fit in. It even gives you meal plans to follow, if you don't want to make your own. It's excellent, good luck!
xoxo Marilyn
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Hi, im a 14 year old girl, and recently a group of people i used to hang out with have been doing cocaine. The only reason i ever hung around them was because I was dating one of the people who does cocaine the most. I was very deeply in love with him ( i know, im young, and im not trying to be like those silly 9 year old girls who claim they're in love with everyone. I was really in love with him and it was a serious relation ship) hes changed completely and does coke alot. I dont really care about the others. They are my friends..we..aquantences..and all, but I know none of them will ever listen. They love it tooo much. And even if he's with other people who are in love with him and care about him, im happy hes happy, but I still worry that if they cant put any control over him...how will i ever be able to help? Its turned into a vicious cycle or stealing hundreds of dollars of cocaine and getting into fights. None of them really talk to me anymore, but I feel restless like i should do somthing. You have the responsibility for the people you care for right? Cocaine is almost a fad now. And its getting kind of irritating. Part of me feels like this isnt my buisness. Im not doing cocaine, so why worry? But then agian, if one of them were to die. How would I feel not making an attempt? (link)
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Talk to him/them about it, that way you at least make an attempt. If they won't listen, were they really worth your time anyway? People on drugs usually get very, very caught up in it, so I'm not sure you have the best chance of winning them over. It's definitely worth a try though..if you can turn someones life around that's a miracle. Good luck.
xoxo Marilyn
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Ok so like im not skinny at all but im not completly fat either. Ive tried exercising and all that stuff but nothing works. Ive thought about becoming anorexic because everytime i eat im afraid that im just gonna keep getting bigger and bigger. I need help what should I do (link)
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Oh, no no no, dear! Anorexia isn't the answer. If you are really serious about losing weight, this site, http://www.teens.sparkpeople.com/ is great! It helps you keep track of calories, tells you the reccomended calories for you to eat according to your height & weight, tracks fitness minutes, oh I could go on and on! Try it out, it works! I wish they had a site like that back in my time!
xoxo Marilyn
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got any advice for me on puberty?
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It happens fast, you'll probably start eating a lot more, have some skin problems, gain/lose weight, voice change(if you're a guy), grow in height, etc.
xoxo Marilyn
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okay my best friend has huge boobs. im only 13 but everyone loves her boobs like all the boys and stuff. i want to know if there is any excersises so my boobs can get a little bit bigger. i mean im not flat or anything but i just wish i could maybe most up a cup size or something so the boys will like my boobs too. (link)
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There are no exercises that target specific areas. Exercise actually reduces boob size. Like you said, you're only 13, believe me you have plenty of time to grow! I've never been that big either, but I did grow as I got older! Just give it some time, dear, good luck!
xoxo Marilyn
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fat tissues around my eyes is there a skin cream or is lazer surgery the only option? (link)
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There are plenty of creams! I would reccomend one, but I'm not sure of your exact condition. Go to your local grocery store, the eye creams are usually near shaving items/stuff like that. But also, holding cold spoons under your eyes helps a lot! :)
xoxo Marilyn
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How do I stop dwelling on embarrassing things that happened to me? (link)
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Realize that life carries on, and whether you do or not is up to you. But people get over things, and you'll be fine sooner or later. Everyone has had embarrassing things happen to them, it's just life taking it's course.
xoxo Marilyn
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ok well me and my boyfriend are going out for about 5 days now and i like him and all..its just i dont get to see him..like at all..i dont know if i should break up with him because i like him but then i dont its weird what should i do?
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Tell him how you're feeling! Say you'd like to spend more time together, hopefully he'll agree! If you guys do end up spending time together and you realize you actually don't like him, tell him & break up..it's better than leading him on. But if you actually do like him, he may be worth waiting on!
xoxo Marilyn
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How do i tell my boyfriend that i'm cheating on him?
Signed,
confused chicky
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Yikes! Well don't hold it off, tell him as soon as possible. Explain your reasons for cheating, whatever they may be, and hopefully he'll understand. Good luck!
xoxo Marilyn
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