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Cocaine
Hi, im a 14 year old girl, and recently a group of people i used to hang out with have been doing cocaine. The only reason i ever hung around them was because I was dating one of the people who does cocaine the most. I was very deeply in love with him ( i know, im young, and im not trying to be like those silly 9 year old girls who claim they're in love with everyone. I was really in love with him and it was a serious relation ship) hes changed completely and does coke alot. I dont really care about the others. They are my friends..we..aquantences..and all, but I know none of them will ever listen. They love it tooo much. And even if he's with other people who are in love with him and care about him, im happy hes happy, but I still worry that if they cant put any control over him...how will i ever be able to help? Its turned into a vicious cycle or stealing hundreds of dollars of cocaine and getting into fights. None of them really talk to me anymore, but I feel restless like i should do somthing. You have the responsibility for the people you care for right? Cocaine is almost a fad now. And its getting kind of irritating. Part of me feels like this isnt my buisness. Im not doing cocaine, so why worry? But then agian, if one of them were to die. How would I feel not making an attempt?
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Talk to him/them about it, that way you at least make an attempt. If they won't listen, were they really worth your time anyway? People on drugs usually get very, very caught up in it, so I'm not sure you have the best chance of winning them over. It's definitely worth a try though..if you can turn someones life around that's a miracle. Good luck.
xoxo Marilyn
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I have been in your situation. And all I can say is that the best thing to do is too tell their parents. Sure they won't like you afterwards. But it's best that they don't like you than to have them dead. If you let this go far, someone could get hurt or they could die. If you don't want them to know, tell their parents what they are doing and that you would like to keep anonymous. But I strongly recommend letting an adult handle this. You are too young to handle this all by yourself.
Hoped I Helped & Good Luck
--LiTTLEGiRLBLUE
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