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What there to say about me? I'm 27 and a graduate of UCSD. Throughout my life most of my close friends have been girls so I have a unique perspective on relationships and sex. I know a lot about computers as well as random stuff in general. Feel free to ask me anything and I'll answer it to the best of my knowledge.
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my friend was in Europe. she went to places like france, london, italy, etc. she called me from her cell phone & the hotel phone a few times to ask about assignments. we talked for an hour er so, not a day, juss once in awhile. my phone bill should come today & i want to know what to expect. i was still in the US so i wasn't roaming er anything. she went to South America before & called me about hw & nothing showed up on the bill. i have cingular soo any ideas??

thanks!! (link)
most cingular plans have free long distance but it really depends on what plan you have.


How do you know when you are in love with someone? And how do you know if it is true love? (link)
my question for you is, why does it matter? ive always found words for feelings, especially love to be inadequete. i mean, you feel how you feel, does it really matter what its called?


my computer only downloads AIM Triton and I HATE it. I tried to download the regular AIM & it won't work. It says it's installing, but when it finishes, it doesn't appear anywhere. How can I download regular AIM? (link)
yes im not the only one who hates triton! i cant even uninstall it because it integrated itself into my AOL. try this link
http://www.aim.com/get_aim/win/other_win.adp?aolp=0


my uncle's german shepered bit me and i have a big bruise do i have a rabies? cause my uncle said he got complete rabies shots so i dont have to worry but my friends and my PE teacher said that i have to go to the doctor im confused
and my mom doesnt know that my uncle's dog bit me
by the way the dog bit me in 05/9/2006 and
i washed my wound after he bit me it didnt break my skin that much and no blood at all.


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if you are still alive, you dont have rabies. from what i remember it kills you within like 5 days, drives you bat shit crazy after 2.

but then again, im not a doctor and i dont know for sure. you should probably do some research on the internet at least.


hey does anyone know where i can get this layout??
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=75217113 (link)
looks default to me, but anytime you see a layout you like you can go to
http://www.doobix.com/myspace/generators/layout-snatcher/
to steal it.


There's this guy, Nick. We just recently began talking a couple weeks ago. We are both on the track team and before we started talking, he was like "Wow, she's [me] hot. If I were [my brothers name] and I lived in (name of hick town) I'd def hit that" [as in incest, cuz thats what hicks do] to another guy. but what he didn't realize was that the person standing like 5 ft from him was my mom, so now it's a big joke with our team. He got my sn and always IMs me now and we talk during practice a lot, too. he put me on his top 8 on myspace! lol. I guess his friend likes me, we went to the movies a couple days ago and all of his friends ask me about him. Nick will ask me questions like "have you ever had a bf? who was your last bf? was it serious? is your brother cool with you having bf's?" [my brother is a senior at our school and we're both younger, so that might be intimidating?] then he's like, "so what do you think of [his friend]?" So that made me think he was just asking me those questions for his friend. I told him I hated when people asked me about him becuase EVERYONE does. He dropped it, but last night he asked me "do you like him, even just a little bit? its none of my business but im curious." He's asked me a couple other times, too. Then he asked me to describe my dream guy. Then on the way to the meet the other day he sat with me on the bus and we gave each other massages and we pretty much just hung out at the meet when we could. He told me my accent on the way I say certain words is cute. But when I was sitting with him he was talking to the person in front of us about how he hung out with this girl, I know they were going out but they broke up and I'm not sure if they're going back out or not. I think they might be because his friend asked him right in front of me if they had sex and he's like, "no, dude it's not about the sex. isn't that right, [my name]?" I didn't say anything. They might be back together. I don't really want to ask because I'm afraid of the answer. And he'll always slip in some comments about other girls and how hot they are and like last night he talked about his ex, when he didn't even have to mention anything about his ex to tell the story, but he did. But he talks about his ex/whatever she is to him now, kinda a lot -- not to me, but when I'm around I hear him talking about her. What should I do? Get over it because they might be back together? Does he like me, or...? (link)
like i said he likes you. those are all relatively classic tricks for a guy to find out how you feel. when i was trying to find out if my ex liked me before i asked her out i asked her if she would have a problem if i asked out a friend of hers. He could also be using the guise of asking for his friend to see how you feel about him, to know if he has a chance.
As for the ex, well its quite possible that they are friends, i am still friends with most of my exes.


There's this guy, Nick. We just recently began talking a couple weeks ago. We are both on the track team and before we started talking, he was like "Wow, she's [me] hot. If I were [my brothers name] and I lived in (name of hick town) I'd def hit that" [as in incest, cuz thats what hicks do] to another guy. but what he didn't realize was that the person standing like 5 ft from him was my mom, so now it's a big joke with our team. He got my sn and always IMs me now and we talk during practice a lot, too. he put me on his top 8 on myspace! lol. I guess his friend likes me, we went to the movies a couple days ago and all of his friends ask me about him. Nick will ask me questions like "have you ever had a bf? who was your last bf? was it serious? is your brother cool with you having bf's?" [my brother is a senior at our school and we're both younger, so that might be intimidating?] then he's like, "so what do you think of [his friend]?" So that made me think he was just asking me those questions for his friend. I told him I hated when people asked me about him becuase EVERYONE does. He dropped it, but last night he asked me "do you like him, even just a little bit? its none of my business but im curious." He's asked me a couple other times, too. Then he asked me to describe my dream guy. Then on the way to the meet the other day he sat with me on the bus and we gave each other massages and we pretty much just hung out at the meet when we could. He told me my accent on the way I say certain words is cute. But when I was sitting with him he was talking to the person in front of us about how he hung out with this girl, I know they were going out but they broke up and I'm not sure if they're going back out or not. I think they might be because his friend asked him right in front of me if they had sex and he's like, "no, dude it's not about the sex. isn't that right, [my name]?" I didn't say anything. They might be back together. I don't really want to ask because I'm afraid of the answer. And he'll always slip in some comments about other girls and how hot they are and like last night he talked about his ex, when he didn't even have to mention anything about his ex to tell the story, but he did. But he talks about his ex/whatever she is to him now, kinda a lot -- not to me, but when I'm around I hear him talking about her. What should I do? Get over it because they might be back together? Does he like me, or...? (link)
he likes you. if you want a more detailed answer you can shoot me a private question but i dont really have time rights now.


ok i need some serious advice on how to make it so that i accually wake up when my alarm clock goes off because normally i just shut ot off and then go back to sleep... and i cant move it because there is no where else to plug it in. and ive tried moving it away from my bed but then when it goes off i just get up, bring it near my bed, and go back to sleep. i have no idea what to do... i cant go to sleep earlier because i cant fall asleep till 11, i dont get ttired till then....would some one help me please? (link)
they have special alarms for this, there is one that sprays you with water, one that explodes into 4 pieces and wont shut off until you put them back together, you can try to find one at your local target or walmart.


hello everyone. Im 14/f/cali and i have a friend that is very close to me with a problem. she told me that her left breast is a b cup and her right breast hasent grown. she wears a padded bra on that side but this makes her so sad and i want to help her . she has already been to the doctor. it still hasent grown (1 year after)have any of u heard of this or have it or HAD it? any advise will help! I will grade you high . thank you so much. (link)
almost all girls have boobs of different sizes. although its rare for the difference to be enough to make them different cup sizes. it isnt a medical problem, and they will most likely even out with age.


I'm wearing a lime green dress to prom and it has some silver at the bottom half. My date has a black tux and a white tux. Which do you think he should wear? (link)
black goes with everything. white tuxes, are kinda, ummmmm, well not stylish at all, especially not to a prom.


im 15/f and me and my best guy friend went to a party n both got a little drunk among other things. anyway we ended up having sex and since then i've found out im pregnant and i know its his and i told him about it. hes basically demanding i keep it but see i dont want to b/c its going to destroy my body, reputation,i know i wont be able to keep my gpa above a 4.0, and my mom will kill me. so should i just go behind his back or what?
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see this is why some friends and i came up with the slogan "just say no to sex with prolifers" its your body, your choice. you can do what you want. i suggest going to your local planned parenthood (if you need help finding it send me a private question with your zipcode and i can look it up). i dont suggest going behind his back, because unless hes an idiot hell figure it out ina few months (at most 9) so basically what you want to do is tell him youve listened to his input, but its your decision to make. if you live in a blue state then your reputation should stay more or less ok. but if you are woried you can always threaten to say he raped you, which you can quite probably make a case for since you were drunk.


Do you think it is ok to ask a guy if he likes you. I mean like like you? (link)
sure its ok, but is it a good idea? no not really. you are FAR better off telling you like him (that is if you do).


hey im 14 i have a question..ive been going through alot of problems lately and now everytime i get mad or kinda annoyed my heart starts to hurt...and then my fingers kinda hurt when that happens..i dont know what it is but im worried ..thx! (link)
to me it sounds purely psychological. but, and this is a big but, bigger than J-LO's i am not a doctor. there is a reasonable chance that htis is serious, like you have a weak heart, maybe a heart murmur. you should deffinitely see a doctor about this.


http://advicenators.com/qview.php?q=424859
that was my old question

i decided to give throw away my old computer but i dont know where to.. and also how do i take out the hard drive so no one can see my old documents? and its a windows 98 computer (link)
you really dont need much computer knowlege to take out the hardrive. just open up the computer, look for something that looks like this
http://www.mysuperpc.com/hard_drive_wd2500jd_front.jpg

unhook it and pull it out. you can destroy it however you want (i dont recommend fire) you can swipe a magnet over it a few times. if you deleted all your files first the date will be unrecoverable, and the hardrive will probably be broken beyond repair. just throw it out in the garbage and donate the rest of the computer to goodwill, they might have a hardrive lying around.


one of my bff has been getting on my nerves recently. she is a c-cup and im an a-cup. i could really care a less about boob size tho. but shes always bragging about how big her boobs are and how skinny she is. like if a girl gets hit in the chest area it hurts no matter what, but if in gym or something i get hit there she'll be like "what boobs." and she always brags about her "perfect" figure. personally i dont think she has the perfect figure or good looks but why does she brag so much? i told her a million times that lifes not about boobs and when me and her hang out the boys are all over me not her. (link)
when it comes to boobs anything more than a handfull is wasted. guys are all over you, thats why she feels the need to brag. doesnt sound like much a friend to me, but thats your call to make.


I said I would buy it, take care of it, and defend it from our cat! What else do I say (link)
if you want a hamste start out asking for a pony. honestly there isn't much you can do. try waiting a little while and then asking again


next year i am a senior in high school and i havent given that much thaught about which college i would like to go to.

what are some good colleges in Califronai (seeing that is where i live and dont want to move). I already know of, USC, UCLA, UCDAVIS, UCSAN DIEGO, UC BERKLEY, AND HARVARD.

I have recently found out about this one college in Malibu, called Pepperdine University. Does anyone know if it is a good college or if it is just one of those community type.

anyt other suggestions? i rate 5's (link)
i am at UCSD and its a great school. pepperdine is pretty prestigous (you have to know how to spell pestigious off the top of your head to get in lol). there is a private catholic school in san diego called USD, if you like small classes etc its a good school to go to. there is also mesa community college in san diego, that is actualy pretty good as far as community colleges go, and it has a good TAG program to get into a better university after 2 years.


15 Female~
My boyfriend touches my crotch ALL the time, he will feel me up for as long as he wants.He just likes to hear me moan because he always smirks and gives a small laugh. But if I even so much as accidentaly get too close to HIS crotch he says, "Whoah, look out there. You are getting a little close!" ~Do you think this is because he doesn't like to be touched there or because he doesn't think I'm ready to do something like that? Or something else..? (He is 18 and I am 15.) Kind of confused. -*Thanking you ahead of time for your help!!* (link)
well it could be he doesnt want you to feel pressure into doing anything you arent ready to do. maybe hes just a giver, some peopel enjoy giving more than they do receiving when it comes to this sort of thing. the only other possible explanation i can think of is that he has a problem with premature ejaculation.

i should also mention that in most states it is illegal for the two of you to be doing anything sexual together. i am not saying you should break up because of that, but it is something to keep in mind.


My boyfriend is older then me Im 15 he's 17. he tells me he loves me and I believe him. We've been together for 9 days. Im not a virgin and neither is he. I've decided to give up on having sex and so he says he'll never pressure me into doing it. But when were on the phone together he makes certain sexual comments to me about things he wants to do to me or how his penis miss's me. Is he just messin around and bein flirty or is this his way of pressure into sex? (link)
well my ex and agreed not to have sex because she wasn't ready. i still made the occasional joke. and so did she. hes probably just kidding around.
but. after nine days i find it hard to believe that he can be saying i love you honestly unless there is alot more history between you two than you mentioned.


How old do you have to be to work at blockbuster?
I looked on the website but couldn't find an answer. If it helps I live in San Diego, CA.
Thanks a bunch. (link)
i live in san diego too, iasked back when i wanted to get a job there and they said 18.




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