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I'm so confused. What's all of this mean?
There's this guy, Nick. We just recently began talking a couple weeks ago. We are both on the track team and before we started talking, he was like "Wow, she's [me] hot. If I were [my brothers name] and I lived in (name of hick town) I'd def hit that" [as in incest, cuz thats what hicks do] to another guy. but what he didn't realize was that the person standing like 5 ft from him was my mom, so now it's a big joke with our team. He got my sn and always IMs me now and we talk during practice a lot, too. he put me on his top 8 on myspace! lol. I guess his friend likes me, we went to the movies a couple days ago and all of his friends ask me about him. Nick will ask me questions like "have you ever had a bf? who was your last bf? was it serious? is your brother cool with you having bf's?" [my brother is a senior at our school and we're both younger, so that might be intimidating?] then he's like, "so what do you think of [his friend]?" So that made me think he was just asking me those questions for his friend. I told him I hated when people asked me about him becuase EVERYONE does. He dropped it, but last night he asked me "do you like him, even just a little bit? its none of my business but im curious." He's asked me a couple other times, too. Then he asked me to describe my dream guy. Then on the way to the meet the other day he sat with me on the bus and we gave each other massages and we pretty much just hung out at the meet when we could. He told me my accent on the way I say certain words is cute. But when I was sitting with him he was talking to the person in front of us about how he hung out with this girl, I know they were going out but they broke up and I'm not sure if they're going back out or not. I think they might be because his friend asked him right in front of me if they had sex and he's like, "no, dude it's not about the sex. isn't that right, [my name]?" I didn't say anything. They might be back together. I don't really want to ask because I'm afraid of the answer. And he'll always slip in some comments about other girls and how hot they are and like last night he talked about his ex, when he didn't even have to mention anything about his ex to tell the story, but he did. But he talks about his ex/whatever she is to him now, kinda a lot -- not to me, but when I'm around I hear him talking about her. What should I do? Get over it because they might be back together? Does he like me, or...?
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Well I think he likes you, but he really still cares about his ex/gf (whatever she is to him). It does seem like he is asking questions for his friend, but maybe he is asking them for himself too. I think he likes you, but he still really cares about this other girl he dated. And I also think that his friend really likes you too and is too shy to talk to you, so he sets this Nick guy up to doing it. Sadly sometimes guys innocently flirt. He might be doing this. I think he thinks you are cute and maybe kinda likes you, but the fact that he keeps asking you if you like his friend, and talks about this other girl constantly is a sign for you to back off. He is obviously involved with her in some way or another, or he wouldn't talk about her so much. If he got with you right now, when he still has feelings for this girl, then he probably would end up using you as a rebound girl, and who likes that?! Think of him as a friend and nothing more. You obviously like him, but you need to focus on the fact that he is not over this girl. That can spell heartache for you trying to pursue him. Time heals everything, so what he needs is time to get over her and figure out his life. Just be his friend. It's hard... I know, but is much better than being hurt by him. Best of luck and if you need anymore advice, note my inbox.
~Sherah
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like i said he likes you. those are all relatively classic tricks for a guy to find out how you feel. when i was trying to find out if my ex liked me before i asked her out i asked her if she would have a problem if i asked out a friend of hers. He could also be using the guise of asking for his friend to see how you feel about him, to know if he has a chance.
As for the ex, well its quite possible that they are friends, i am still friends with most of my exes.
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he likes you. if you want a more detailed answer you can shoot me a private question but i dont really have time rights now.
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