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Late night crying!


Question Posted Tuesday May 16 2006, 10:54 am

Life sucks! Serioulsy sucks! There is not one good thing in my life right now! I have lost two of my best friends these past two weeks and it's all because they are extreme liars and and loosing another best friend right now..it's in motion! :'(
Then all of my friends are fighting with eachother and I am torn in the middle! I don't know what to do!!
Then my family are like omg!! I hate to be at home! My sister just moved in with her boyfriend and so them and my parents are always talking about "couple-stuff" and Couple trips and couple couple couple!! AHH! I can't take it anymore! I'm the fith wheel!!They are always like, "Oh yeah, you are coming to..But can't you stay home with the dog. This is more of a couple/grown up thing. (IT WAS THE CINEMA FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!)
I'm teeling you, I don't like being at home, I'm like fighting with all of my friends! And those I'm not fighting with are like having so many problems right now they don't have time to hang out =/
I'm the fith wheel, I don't like being at home, I'm loosing my best friends, my other friends don't have time for me, I'm failing in school! I don't know where to go or do!! I am totaly lost!!

Is there No hope in the world?!?!?

:'(
thanks for taking your time to read this...


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JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 7:00 am:
first calm down everyone goes through a lilttle agavation in their life thats only to make things better dont stress sit back and everthing will work itself out

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Devina answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 7:38 pm:
There is a hope... don't be sad... everything will work out just fine...

Things are going to get better, don't worry about it.. There are bad times, and there are good times... I've had that time too before, and trust me, it will all be good.

But first, try to think of happy thoughts. Because actually, there must be some good things happening around you. (Even though they're so small that you can't notice...) But when you think that everything's bad, then even a good thing will be a bad thing... Just think of good stuffs, and you'll feel much better. Try to sleep longer, it will help alot! ^_^

I hope I've helped... I really want to help you...
WIsh you all the best luck.
Don't worry, it will all be fine...

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CavieOwnsU2 answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 3:55 pm:
There is hope. Once you've hit rock bottom, you can only go up, right? Trust me, things will improve sooner or later. And anywayz, it's just life right? That sounds insensitive or silly or something but everybody lives and they die. Everyone encounters problems on the way and there is hope and help. What I would try to do is either invovle yourself thoroughly in your afterschool activity. If you don't have one, pick one up! You will be away from home more, busy, and will make new friends. Also, try setting weekly/daily/monthly goals for yourself. Once you start accomplishing them, you will feel better about yourself and realize your life is about YOU.

Hope things improve soon!

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DefinedEyes answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 3:44 pm:
Aww I am so sorry things arent going well with you..
Okay, first of all, I can point out some good things in life for you! Well Your living! Be happy that your alive and healthy, God loves you. But yeah, I'm sorry your friends are fighting and that you are in the middle, that sucks, I think you should explain to them that ou dont want to get involved in it, tell them it would be the best thing you can do. About your sister and her boyfriend, yeah it can be really annoying to hear her and your parents constantly talking about couple stuff, it feels like they are leaving you out right? thats horrible.
I really think you should tell your parents how you are feeling, and how you think that they arent including you in things anymore, and tell them exactly how you are feeling inside.

Your friends will eventually sort their differences out, or maybe in the end they will end up being no longer friends, but it all will calm down soon.

Okay and their is hope sweetie.
Pray for Hope, pray for faith.
Just pray. (if you are religoius)
but you need to have hope that things will get better, and faith that you know they will get better, even though you dont really know whats going to happen. If you dont have hope that things will get better, it will make you feel miserable, so always try to have a postive attitude that things are going to get better.

Anymore questions, send me another message.

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