Last Summer I hooked up with a guy down the shore and we've kept in touch. He's going down the shore with his friend and I'm coming down with my best friend in August. One problem, I have a boyfriend now. I don't want to hookup with the guy because I'm happy with my bf (And I wouldn't even consider cheating on him) The issue concerns my best friend who likes the guys friend, Chris. She has been really lonely the whole year since she hasn't hooked up with anyone but him and I know she really wants to see him. My friend said "Well, we'll just tell them we can't do anything. They'll find other girls" But I feel so bad for my friend, I want her to be with Chris (And I don't have a problem telling the guy that I can't do anything) but she refuses to let that happen. The way I see it, I have several options. Tell the guys we can't do anything & part our ways, let my friend and Chris do whatever they want and just stay friends with the guy, pray that my best friend gets a boyfriend so she can't do anything anyhow or maybe me and my boyfriend would have broken up before then (We're only 14, you never know what could happen) Or maybe theres something else I could do? I'll rate
hev7777777 answered Tuesday May 16 2006, 12:44 pm: Well, you should maybe have your boyfriend come along, if that is possible anyways, and then, the guy that you hoooked up with the last time will see that you have a boyfriend, and he should back off!
Or, you can tell your boyfriend that you think that you two two should have a few days to be free and do almost whatever because you saw it on Oprah and they said that it shows how much you really care for each other [ hev7777777's advice column | Ask hev7777777 A Question ]
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