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I like this kid alot, we went out a while ago but things were different then. hes become alot more popular wit the girls and everything now, and hes really cocky too, i told him i still liked him and he said he might like me and i wouldnt be wasteing my time going for him. But he'll flirt on and off and says he doesnt like anyone. should i just give up on him or try and make him like me. (link)
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He sounds like an asshole. I wouldn't give him the time of day if he says he maybe likes you and then going and flirting and saying he doesn't like anyone. But, if you like him THAT much, try and make him like you.
-Brianna
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Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what? (link)
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Just kiss him first. He will be relieved that you made the first move since he is shy. He will then be more comfortable around you!
-Brianna
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anybody know where i sohuld go if i want to get a picture in my advice column i will rate. (link)
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Go to your profile settings.
-Brianna
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that jessica simpson and nick lachey are getting divorced, and thats why theyre not doing Newlyweds anymore? (link)
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No they aren't getting divorced. They've been married for two years now and have had a camera follow them for those two years. I think they just got sick of it!
-Brianna
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alright see me and my boyfriend broke up like Monday ..and this girl well it was his x girlfriend was talking to me and shit acting like she cared like aww i feel soo bad and then like 3 minutes later started goin out with him .. but see i tried to like.. be all calm about it and not get mad but when i read her profile or look at the away messages and just think how their together ..ahh i don't know i just like want to cry .. and i am usually the type that i wait like .. 2 days and then i want a new boyfriend but this time i think about liking other people and i just can't go out with anyone else because i want him .. and the fact that he says he's in love with her but he cheated on her with me last time they went out .. ( we made out ) and he is running back to her and she keeps taking him back and junk but i want him back soo bad and at night i usually cry myself to sleep cause of it.. =/
please help ..
i rate high..
xl brooke lx
( sorry about it being soo long ) (link)
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Talk to her and tell her how you feel about her telling you all that crap and then going out with him. Tell him that you really like him and all that stuff. If I was you, I'd tell her that he cheated on her. Good luck!
-Brianna
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Hey guys, I want to see if anyone else is having the same problem.
I've answered a good amount of questions recently, in the past week, and I've only been rated maybe twice. Is there something maybe wrong with my column or are people just not rating? Is this happening to anyone else?
I'll rate high ♥ Thanks! (link)
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Sounds like they are just not rating.
-Brianna
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can you be featured columnist if you don't have a picture or icon up? (link)
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Yea.
-Brianna
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Ok so i have scoliois. my curve is somewhere around 50 degrees. my back always hurts because of this..is there anything i can do to make my back not hurt as much..or often? thanks in advance! ill rate you! (link)
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I heard like doing ballet will lessen your scoliosis. Also, sit up straight. Sorry, thats all I know.
-Brianna
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My friend and I used to be really close and we told each other everything. Recently she changed her personality, her type of music, her interest in types of clothes. She also has began slagging people she doesn't even know. She says she hates people who judge and stereotype but she does it 24/7. She slags of all my mates, which hurts my feelings(yes I know that sounds gay.) She now has new friends "Skater mates" (sorry for stereotyping)which I don't mind but I don't slag them of if they piss me of like her. I feel really out of place when I'm with her and her new friends. Somethings I wonder if this drifting apart is due to me being a guy(16) anf her being a girl (14.) Maybe that one of my excuses. Any gental tips that I could say to her to make her stop slagging and to realise that her changes have effected me. That sounds shallow sorry! (link)
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Talk to her about how she is "slagging" on your friends and that you don't do it to hers. Also, tell her she is being hypocritical about the whole thing. All you really can do is talk to her about her changes and how she treats your friends! Sorry and good luck.
-Brianna
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i just got my hair cut like an hour ago its a little bit below my shoulders and its angled so the front is at my chin it used to be a litte bit under my breasts i used to be known for wearing my hair in a high pony tail or a low ponytail my new hair looks cute and all but now i know i cant fit is in a high ponytail and i tried getting it into a low one and it doesnt even work if i put my fingers on the side of my eyes all the stuff in front of that is out of the low ponytail does anyone have any ideas on how i could keep it in my ponytail without putting a load of hairspray or gel? PLEASE HELP!!! i will rate high (link)
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Nothing you really can do but put gel and hairspray in it. Otherwise you have to wait until it grows out a little, sorry!
-Brianna
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A week ago today, I accidently poked myself in the eye with mascara in the morning. Since then, the bit which I poked has been red and blood shot. My Mum said it was like a bruise and would probably go soon but it's been a week now and it seems to be getting worse. What is wrong with it? What should I do? (link)
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It could be infected, just try not to touch it and stuff. If it is still like that next week, go to a doctor!
-Brianna
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WILL RATE HIGH...i am lost...my best friend is going out with this guy that she knew liked and i told her it would be ok if she did go out with him (vice versa). he doesnt go to our school. i met him through my friend who knows him from outside activities. he liked her for a really long time, but she never liked him back, until now. this guy knew i liked him to but we both didnt know if would work out if we started dating. anyway, he asked my friend out and theyve been going out for a month now. i talk to him on the phone almost everyday and he confuses me.he's like leading me on, almost. he tells me he's gonna break up w/her for this and that reason, and i dont know how to respond. do i want them to stay together, and be a good friend, but i dont really know...i like him still...ive been out w/one guy since they've started going out and i broke up with him b/c i liked this guy...he says for me to wait for him...am i just wasting my time...waiting for something that will never be??? i really need help...WILL RATE HIGH. thnx!
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Well, it is really wasting your time talking to him on the phone and whatever. Chances are he won't break up with her. If he liked you, why would he go out with her in the first place. Also, if you do go out, think about this... he is telling you that he wants to break up with her for this and that, don't you think he will do and say the same stuff about you when he talks to another girl. Most likely he will! Also, if he did like you, he wouldn't want you to "wait" for him. What are you waiting for anyways, he would've dumped her for you by now!
GOod luck.
-Brianna
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I was talking to this girl from my class on the phone today and I realized that she is pretty cool and I want to be friends with her. The thing is that she is not very popular and I'm afraid that if I start hanging out with her, my other friends won't want to hang with me and might diss me. Am I being shallow or stupid? And what should I do? (link)
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Yea, you are being a little shallow. Maybe they will be assholes to you, but that is just because they don't know her. They are your friends though, they shouldn't get mad at you for stuff like that. Be friends with whoever you want.
-Brianna
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ok i like this guy ALOT and were going out but my friend also likes him and shes not talking to me because im going out with him but she also told me over and over again go out with him he really likes you and i kept telling her no no because of you and he told her before we were going out that he didnt like her he liked me so now im going out with him and i dont know wbout my friend...
i need help! (link)
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She was trying to use reverse psychology on you (sp)! Just remind her that she told you all that. She is jealous, but she will get over it.
-Brianna
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i crack my neck and my friend thinks that it will make my neck all messed up when im older...is that true? i dont wanna be messed up when im old!!! lol
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You have a higher chance of getting athritis. It also makes the bone a little out of line and looser (my mom told me, shes a nurse lol).
-Brianna
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Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13? (link)
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Did you ever hear the phrase 'Love knows no age'? Lol, yes it is possible. I thought I was in love, but wait until he does something to hurt you, then you won't be in love! Lol
-Brianna
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ok me and my x went out for over a year.. and i was in love but we broke up because of my parents and because after we broke up the first time it didnt feel right. well now i cant get over him he likes one of my close friends and she likes him and their guna go out probably today or tomarrow im guessing and it hurts so bad i cry all the time over him he touches all these others girls and i get so jealous. his best friends try and help me they say i deserve better which not trying to be rude i definitly do, and i kind of went far with this kid up 2 3rd base but like he promised not to tell anyone what if his new gf asks him how far he went he would tell her wouldnt he? and well his bff's stand in front of me whjen im staring at him nd im hanging out with more guys so im definitly trying but then it all comes to the night when i always use tot alk to him everyday now i miss his phone calls before they seemed to get annoying and he promised wed be friends but he says im being rude becuse i cry too much how is that being rude because i care? so we might not even be friends anymore and it hurts so bad..i just wnat too know what are some good ways to get over him? and what about the friend thing..or any advice PLEASE!! i serioulsy hate my life now because of him becuse hes gone, but heres the weird thing i DONT want to go back out with him i loved him, but he was a bad bf he got mad at me for stupid reasons so were definitly not going back out but i still love him..how can i stop?
THANKS! sry about the length (link)
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In my opinion, your friend shouldn't go out with him. You guys were going out for a long time. It's normal to be jealous, so don't worry. It will take time, there is no way to stop loving someone fast. Well, you can always think of the negative things between you guys. That could make you hate him! Good luck and sorry!
-Brianna
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ok..i really screwed up, i know. heres my story. my BEST friend was going out with this guy for like 4 months, then they broke up for no particular reason, just that it wasnt really working out. but i became sort of friends with him while they were together. all my other friends said during the time they were together that the way he looked at me was as if he liked me and all that. i took no notice because i didnt want my to hurt my friend. once they broke up... and about 2 months later he called me and asked me if he could come over. i said yes. we rented some movies and watched them. then we started fooling around and one thing led to another and we were all over each other and making out! we didnt have sex though. he left and i felt enormous amounts of guilt because i promised myself and my best friend that nothing would ever happen between me and him. i didnt want to tell her but i figured she had a right to know. i asked other people about what to do and almost all of them said that i should tell her. so 4 days later i did. she didnt take it so well. she hasnt talked to me since. she has sent me messages of abuse, turned my other friends against me, wont talk to me about it. i say to her that i will talk when shes ready to talk- she says shes not ready yet..then sends me messages saying that i am avoiding her- i am just giving her the space she needs or wants rather. all i am asking is what should the next step that i take be?? should i confront her to her face and tell her that we are talking about this now whether you like it or not...or just leave it!!?? Please help me! i am really stuck. (link)
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I think you should give it more time and let her cool down, then talk to her whether she likes it or not. She already knows, so why can't she just talk about it? Good luck.
-Brianna
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is it normal that when you put your hand on your stomach you feel a heartbeat-like thing? it like pumps and feels like there is a heart beating in your stomach? everytime i touch my stomach it is like that, as if it has its own pulse or something. (link)
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Yea, it's just a vein.
-Brianna
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ok... so i have been playing defense (soccer) for awhile... almost a year or even two... but i have been playing soccer since i was in 3rd grade and im a sophmore in highschool now... i have played every position before mostly mid... but i have a game sunday and my friend's friend came to one of our practices and told my friend that i have a nice kick, like shot on net... and my friend told me i should forget D and play mid but the thing is my couch wants me to stay back... i don't know what to do... should ask my couch or should i stay on D... i rate pretty high
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Go with the one that you like better. I think your coach would know more about your abilities than your friend's friend would.
-Brianna
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