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she's changed
My friend and I used to be really close and we told each other everything. Recently she changed her personality, her type of music, her interest in types of clothes. She also has began slagging people she doesn't even know. She says she hates people who judge and stereotype but she does it 24/7. She slags of all my mates, which hurts my feelings(yes I know that sounds gay.) She now has new friends "Skater mates" (sorry for stereotyping)which I don't mind but I don't slag them of if they piss me of like her. I feel really out of place when I'm with her and her new friends. Somethings I wonder if this drifting apart is due to me being a guy(16) anf her being a girl (14.) Maybe that one of my excuses. Any gental tips that I could say to her to make her stop slagging and to realise that her changes have effected me. That sounds shallow sorry!
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no. you dont sound shallow. it sounds like she's just trying to find herself. if you know her well enough, you know she's probably not doing the right thing. but just keep trying to talk to her and try not to feel out of place with her new friends you were freinds with her first! but you guys are growing, and that means new friends, im sorry your going through this...i hope you get yoru friend back...or find a new good friend...hope i helped!
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Wow..how many slags can you put in that paragraph? Jeez..I dont even know what that means but w/e. I dont think it has anything with you being a guy, I think she just wants to feel more independent, she wants to be set apart from "everyone else", or she just wasnt having fun with her old wayz and friends. You should try talking to her and tell her that you don't appreciate her judging your friends and that you don't do that to her friends. Maybe then she will try to understand how you feel.
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hey!i think you should let her do her thing, maybe she s just someone ya never knew.And if that seems wy 2 harrd to do because you've known her for a long time, then call her and tell her to come over so you guys can talk about it, and say"hey do you wanna be my friend r not" and if she dosent try as hard as ya ca to let go. leting go it hard, but hey.... love always,
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Talk to her about how she is "slagging" on your friends and that you don't do it to hers. Also, tell her she is being hypocritical about the whole thing. All you really can do is talk to her about her changes and how she treats your friends! Sorry and good luck.
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