ok i like this guy ALOT and were going out but my friend also likes him and shes not talking to me because im going out with him but she also told me over and over again go out with him he really likes you and i kept telling her no no because of you and he told her before we were going out that he didnt like her he liked me so now im going out with him and i dont know wbout my friend...
xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Saturday April 23 2005, 12:29 pm: well .. if she told you to go out with him then she has no right to be mad .. and i don't think you should ruin the relationship because of her being mad i mean eventually she won't be mad no more.. you should like .. find someone cute and nice that like's her and they can get together ... i hope i helped<3
LidDLemiSzJkiDd answered Friday April 22 2005, 4:54 pm: She needs to get over herself. She's jealous because he likes you and not her. You aren`t doing anything wrong in this situation. She told you to go out with him right? Shouldn`t she be happy for you? [ LidDLemiSzJkiDd's advice column | Ask LidDLemiSzJkiDd A Question ]
cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Friday April 22 2005, 4:35 pm: heyy .. just tell her that she said it was okay and that you werent going to but she said it was okay and that you really thoght it was and that ts her own fault and its not your problem and if this is going to ruin your friendship then thats sad
oxKateKaylaxo answered Friday April 22 2005, 2:20 pm: I think your friend isn't a true friend. If she really was, then she wouldn't care if you were going out the the guy she likes. I mean she told you that you should go out with him and so you are... There is nothing wrong with that. You should remind her that she was the one who told you should go out with him. She has no reason to be mad at u. I hope i helped!
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o0xbrianna answered Friday April 22 2005, 2:02 pm: She was trying to use reverse psychology on you (sp)! Just remind her that she told you all that. She is jealous, but she will get over it.
poopiepantsgirly answered Friday April 22 2005, 8:34 am: Just tell your friend that she needs to get over it. She will have her moment in life to but its just not now. You just dont worry about it besides she is the one who was telling you to go with him in the first place. [ poopiepantsgirly's advice column | Ask poopiepantsgirly A Question ]
karenR answered Friday April 22 2005, 8:14 am: Your friend will just have to get over it. He likes you and not her. There is nothing you or her can do about that. So, if you like the guy stop worrying about it. She'll find her own guy soon and forget all about it. Besides, she told you to go out with him. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ZoeyBrooks answered Friday April 22 2005, 2:05 am: Well , If your friend was r-e-a-l-l-y upset she wouldn't be your friend she would act different with you so just go out with him and see what happens.
-Good Luck!
sadf16 answered Friday April 22 2005, 2:05 am: I think you need to have a heart-to-heart talk with your friend. Ask her if it's really ok. with her. If she says yes then go on but if she says somewhat like a no then tell her that you like him alot and you don't want to lose her as a friend. Talking to her would really help and would lessen your guilt. [ sadf16's advice column | Ask sadf16 A Question ]
iWALKintoWALLS answered Friday April 22 2005, 1:07 am: this is exactly what is happening to me, but its my friend thats going out with him, not me. just remmeber this, that friends are forever, but guys come and go. talk to your friend about how your feeling and tell her that you dont want her to feel this way, and ask her to put herself in your situation, would she want to break up with him if she were going out with im right now? i think not...if it doesnt work out to good...keep trying to talk to her...if over a week she's still p.o.ed at you...tell your guy you need to take a break, tell him the truth...and see how it goes...wish you luck! hope i helped...
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