about

hi, im marissa, and im HXC, and im a hippie, and im opinionated, and im fucking crazy. and i have gone through alot of shit in my life, so i have answers to some problems from personal expirence. im almost 16, but i want out of my house. im in a relationship, and its been going on for over a year. he means the world to me. i love my life, and i cherish it. but i do live on the edge, and i like to go fast. i know breaking laws is bad, but its like an addiction to me. i am the treasurer of my schools gay straight aliance, and i get alot of shit for it. but it dosent affect me. i havee alot of friends. and im with them 24'7. and i would not have it any other way. im always faced with tough decisions and fears... long story. but im a pretty interesting person.

advice

For as long as I can remember my family has been realy srued up.I think that every think that has happind is makeing me depressed, my sister cuts herself and now I almost think I want to cut myself to.I know nothing is going to get better only wores so there is nothin I con do.How can I deel with my family so that i don't end up cuting myself?

hi. your problme kinda hits home for me. but anyways. cutting is serious. think of other ways you can take anger out thats not cutting. maybe writing, running (running works for mee), stuff like that. and think about seeing a sycologist(SP?) and if you do start cutting you might wanna go into rehab. hope i helped

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My friend and i who is a girl are 14 and are singing in our schools talent show. but we dont know what song is good for us. heres somtin we'd like
~A girl singer that displays affections to guys w/ out sex or anything too innaporpriate
~teen pop music no rap or country please
does anybody have ideas of songs we could sing? they dont have to be duets just a song. thanks a lot

personaly i would do "my boo" by usher. lol its kinda rap though =[.
(I've Had) The Time Of My Life, from dirty dancing.
i got you babe by sunny and cher
summer nights from greese. lol
hope i helped.

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15, female

so yeah I like this boy... and I think I wanna be with him.

So heres the story.

I have been friends with him since 7th grade. We used to hang out with groups of people. Yeah so we used to be pretty good friends. So then our friend group broke up I wasnt friends with them anymore, so we never hung out again. Then there was a period where he was rude to me and
i didnt like him but blah blah thats in the past.

Anyways this year we have been talking again and have gotten closer. The problem was he had a girlfriend for the first half of the year, but he broke up with her (yay =D)they are still really close friends. She was really clingy like calling and commenting him all the time, I think she asked him out. Thats the opposite of me im not good at making the first move.

I really want to hang out with him and be with him, but I dont know how he will react to that since we have been friends for so long. It would be kinda weird. Also we have absolutely none of the same friends so it probablly wouldnt work to go in a group. So that makes it double hard


So how do I reconnect with him and hang out with him, and ultimatly be with him?

sorry its so long.. =]

hey. im kinda in the same kinda situation. heres what i think you should do. talk to him, try and gain a friend ship. ask him if hes going out with her. if not ask him if hes wants to go see a movie and dinner or something. see hows that goes, and if you feel like you want to be with him more make a move like at the end of the night. hope i helped =]
-mwalnuts

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okay well my friends leave me out of alot of things....tonight they are burning down bk and didnt invite me well they did but we are on the phone and they are having a convo w/out me i think that they should include me it makes me mad

awww. that sucks ceci. =] i love you. and yes you were invited.

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What age is a girls breasts done growing?

at the lastest 18 or end of teen hood. but it really matters on the girl and her family historyy

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Hi, a girl in another school likes me alot but I'm not sure. I like her as a friend but not romantically.

When she first told me I said I maybe in the future but recently I said I'd think about it.

I really dont want to hurt her but I dont love her back. Is there anyway I can say so gently without hurting her or damaging our friendship??

I am 15 years old and a male.

Thanks in advance :)

hey.
personaly im near the same age as you, a year younger. but i know how it feels to have a guy not like me that im good friends with. what he did was : i think were better off as friends, sorry, but do you wanna hang out this weekend. and after he had said that i was pissed, but i thought about it and the way he put it wasent that bad. if i were you i would try something like that. hope i helped.

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ok i went out with my best guy friend last year, joe is his name. he broke up with me after 2 days because he liked my best friend. (i know, what a homo) i forgave him eventually and now were back to being friends. well right now i like this guy cody. but lately ive been flirting with joe and hes been firting back. i dont wanna fall for him again because i dont want what happened last year to happen again. and i also like cody alot. i dont know what i should do!! help please!!

hey.
im in kinda the same situation, but my best friend has a gf but we flirt a ton. but anyways. personaly i thinks its fine if you flirt with joe, but i would ask cody out. watch how joe responds to it. and say you and cody go out and you want to be with joe. break up with cody and maybe try it with joe. hope i helped

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Well My problems in my name. The situation is complicated but basically im in a long distant relationship, and i keep cheating on him. I love him so much AND NO ONE SAY I DONT BECAUSE I DO. i dont know what to do about it cos i love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him but i keep cheating and its hurting him and me. What do i do

thats so sad. and i believe you, i have had a long distance relationship at my age, 14. cheating just happens. i know its not as important at my age. but anyways, if you love him then you can stop cheating. you should try and be apart from him for a little, like a break. see how you are, how you act. then try and go to him, like a long weekend, spend time with him. see what feels better. but most importantly follow your heart

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alright. im 13 .. maybe youll sya im too young for dating. but us teenagers think love is all me live for. but anyways. i have a boyfriend and i dated him maybe 10-11 times CRAZY I KNOW. but im dating him now and theres this other boy who likes me and want to go out with me. i said ill have to choose between them. the boy that likes me dumped me before because we never hung out anywhere else but around my neighboorhood. and im very confused onn what i should doo.

to help you with you advise ill tell you that the boy that likes me if cuter then my boyfriend but if i ever got in a argue ment or fight with the boy that likes me hell totally just say its over. (at least i think so) the boyfriend i have now if i get in a argument or fight i still get a hug at the end of the school day.

i cant stop thinking about the boy that likes me and the fun times we had around the neighboorhood.
please help me.. PLEASEEEE

hey, no, dating at 13 isent too young. i got my first bf at 9 =]. your young, live freely. personaly i would tell your bf that you need a break. then try out the other boy. if it dosent work, go back to your boyfriend. hope i helped.

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Alrite so I'm 15/f.
Theres this boy that really likes me and I sort of like him. He has the pretiest blue eyes ever and everyone is saying that I should give him a chance.

Then thers this other boy (of cours). He's cute and does says/does sweet stuff to me IN PERSON. Only one of my best friends knows about him though. Who should I go with, boy1 or boy2?

i would say go with the first one. then if it dosent work. try the second one. but its up to you. i mean your young you have time to try both.

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i want to start babysitting for money bc i need money haha but my parents said i need to take a class to learn how to do cpr and all that before i babysit. is this true?

its a good idea. Red Cross has a babysitting class. i took it, it dosent cost alot. i took it, and im a certified babysitter. and because im certified i get 10 bucks an hour. which is alot for baby sitting. a uncertified baby sitter gets only 4 to 6 bucks a hours. but its not nessacary. hope i helped.

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Hey i am 14/f 5'7" blonde, skinny live in oregon ... i have no idea what to do for halloween. i dont want to spend alot of money, i just want to look cute. any ideas??

hi =].
if you wanna be like cupid, heres a cute one
http://www.halloweenstreet.com/SexyCostumes/General/Cupid-Costume.htm

a fairy
http://www.newyorkcostumes.com/istar.asp?a=6&id=05100!6&csurl=%2Fistar%2Easp%3Fa%3D3%26dept%3D101%26class%3DTEEN%26sortby%3DINSTOCK%26numperpage%3D30%26pos%3D30%26

this is what im being, handy candy
http://www.newyorkcostumes.com/istar.asp?a=6&id=2456T!11&csurl=%2Fistar%2Easp%3Fa%3D3%26dept%3D101%26class%3DTEEN%26sortby%3DINSTOCK%26numperpage%3D30%26pos%3D30%26

there not extreme expensive. but theres just some ideas, those sites also have some other cute costumes. hope i helped

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Theres this kid named matt that I thougth I liked and he likes me A LOT! I led him on and now i feel horriable about it and I like this other kid named Justin SOOOOOO much more and Justin likes me too and now im stuck and i dont know how to get out of this. i know its not very nice and i really dont like myself for doing it but ugh i can't help who i like and dont like. :[

hey! =]
you should not be worrying about what matt thinks. talk to him, be like when i led you on, i liked you, my feelings have changed. dont worry about feeling bad you cant controll your feelings. and i say go out with justin =]. hope i helped

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hey, I'm 14 my name is jackie.. and I need help..

I'm not sure who to like. On one hand there is this one guy (tony)who is 16, and I've known him for a few weeks. He's shy but his friends say he likes me and wants to take me to homecomming. He is really cute but sometimes he can be a little rude to everyone.. Also we hung out last weekend and we kidna flirted but didnt really pay attention to me

and on the other hand tony's friends little brother (14 years old) named ryan is so hott! he has the most amazing eyes and he is really sweet. he let me use his sweatshirt when i was cold, and he talked to me when noone else was. he said i should comeover his house again. he knows how to treat a girl.

I'm really confused on which to like? please help

go for ryan. even though tony sounds nice, if hes rude, and thats horrible.

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One of my friends told me that when she was 18 she was in an 'intimate relationship' with a 15 yr old boy. They were both teenagers, and both in high school at the time. However I am wondering if it is still illegal because technically she was an adult at the time and he was still underage.
Also, I would like to know what exactly the law says about this kind of thing. I am a 21 yr old woman, would a relationship with a boy that young be illegal? I am in Ohio by the way if it makes any difference.
Thanks.

yes that would be illegal. its called statchatory rape (that is deff spelled wrong lol). but even if the younger person is fine with kissing/ having sex with a 18 year oold/or older, its still statchatory rape. and they can go to jail for that. well in some states they can. hope i helped.
-mwalnuts

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Well i have NO idea what i should be for Haloween & im going to a party. im 13/f if that helps. i want something really cute.
thanks =]

hey!
i think this is what im going be ::
http://www.halloweenstreet.com/SexyCostumes/General/Cupid-Costume.htm
cupid anyone? lol

or i might be this one ::
http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=21029&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=youngadults

im going send you a couple link that i think are cutee

http://www.newyorkcostumes.com/istar.asp?a=6&id=05100!6&csurl=%2Fistar%2Easp%3Fa%3D3%26dept%3D101%26class%3DTEEN%26sortby%3DINSTOCK%26numperpage%3D30%26pos%3D30%26

http://www.newyorkcostumes.com/istar.asp?a=6&id=2456T!11&csurl=%2Fistar%2Easp%3Fa%3D3%26dept%3D101%26class%3DTEEN%26sortby%3DINSTOCK%26numperpage%3D30%26pos%3D30%26

http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=18599&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=youngadults

http://www.buycostumes.com/ProductDetail.aspx?ProductID=21422&PCatID=adultcostumes&ccatid=youngadults



hope those gave you some ideas. lol hope i helped.
=] mwalnuts

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ok so i just had sex for the first time about a week ago and well...it was a little rough. i mean like the guys likes to go really hard. but anyways. my question is...is it normal for the vaignal area to be like...tender and sore after sex? becuase like it hurts down there...is something wrong?

nah, thats normal.

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Hello.
So im 14/f, and in the 9th grade.
So I have this boyfriend right, his name is Joey.
Then there's these 2 other guys, Ian and Tim that I like, a lot.

Well, Joey is like in LOVE with me, and it's pretty annoying at times.
Well Ian is just, I don't know, theres something about him that I absoutly love, and want and hes sooo hot..
And with Tim, hes just so funny, hes not that cute though.

Well I know with relationships, personality matters the most, but looks are a huge plus.
Now to the real problem...

I really like Ian, and i've been talking to him on the side. And like Joey hates Ian, and I have no idea what to do... Me and Joey argue all the time. And I have no idea what to do, so please help, if you were in my position who would you go out with ???

Please answer fast !!

Thanks in advance.
-Brittany


heres what i would do ::
tell joey you need a break.
then "try out" ian as a bf for a while.
but tell ian not to tell alot of people.
and if things dont work with ian go back to joey or try tim.
its just my opionion.
hope i helped.
-mwalnuts

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ok im 13 and im in middle school and there is this kid who is ubsesed with me and he has told me i want to have "IT" whith u!
im not redy for that im 13 yo soo what should i do? im scard he will bad mouth about me if i dont and if i do he will tell everyone and then ill be called a slut so what should i do? :(

ew. he sounds like an ass. just be like hell no. dont be worried if people start calling you a slut. people have called me sooo worse names like, pussy eater, whore, slutbag, fag, and like a million different names. dont worry about what they say about you. but ignore him.
hope i helped.
-mwalnuts

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Well, my friend told me that nail polish if you drank enough would kill you. Please don't lecture me or anything....but, recently I have been just really sad and mad at the world and I feel like my world is crashing down. I drank about a third of the bottle about 30 minutes ago. Nothing has happened so far. I don't know what to do. I was talking to my bf at the moment I made the decision and he kept telling me please, no, don't do it. But I didn't listen and I did it. He was mad at me when I told him I did, and he's never been this mad at me before. He won't talk to me now. If I live, what should I do now? I still feel like theres nothing to live for, and what is worth living for, him, everyone keeps me away from him. Or will I even live? And I'm dead serious on this question. This is not a joke, so please give me serious answers, and no lectures, I've heard it all before.

life is a gift. its not something you just throw away. i use to try and commit suicide. but what is commiting suicide going do? aviod problmes, no it makes your love ones go through problems. make you happy, idont know, but it will make others around you upset. will it make people respect you, no, they might think you a woss, that your scarded. i know your probably reading this, like make this bitch go away. im not trying to lecture you, im trying to save you. recently my friend's cusin commited suicide which has totally distroyed her. think about what your death will to do to your boyfriend, or your mom, or your best friend, your neighbors, think about how other people will feel. go see metical help. go get your body checked out... nail polish isent for drinking, that could really mess you up. think about life this way. life is a challenge. these things that make you want to commit suiside are just things you have to over come. life isent about taking a short cut to get out of here. its about living life to its fullest extent. not killing your self, unless you think your life is lived to the fullest extent, but i can tell you, your wrong if you think that. i hope if you do live that your boyfriend talks to you. i hope if you live that you become happy. i haope if you live you get help. i hope that your going be okay. i hope that im helping. cause suicide is just an easy way out. hope i helped.
-mwalnuts

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