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idk who to chose
hey, I'm 14 my name is jackie.. and I need help..
I'm not sure who to like. On one hand there is this one guy (tony)who is 16, and I've known him for a few weeks. He's shy but his friends say he likes me and wants to take me to homecomming. He is really cute but sometimes he can be a little rude to everyone.. Also we hung out last weekend and we kidna flirted but didnt really pay attention to me
and on the other hand tony's friends little brother (14 years old) named ryan is so hott! he has the most amazing eyes and he is really sweet. he let me use his sweatshirt when i was cold, and he talked to me when noone else was. he said i should comeover his house again. he knows how to treat a girl.
I'm really confused on which to like? please help
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go for ryan. even though tony sounds nice, if hes rude, and thats horrible.
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Ryan of corse!he is your age and is sweet whats not to like and if you think he can treat a girl right then go for it!as for tony you said that he can be a little rude so i wouldn't...i hope my advice works for you~
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it seems like you have already picked though.
you did say ryan was really sweet and he paid attention to you unlike tony. since ryan knows how to treat a girl, go for him. you want someone to treat you nicely and pay attention to you.. not just flirt.
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Well, I can't exactly tell you who you're supposed to like, because I'm only telling you of MY opinion, as are the other advicenators. You have to decide that on your own.
Go hang out with both of them one-on-one some night before homecoming happens and then just have fun, get to know eachother, see how the ones treat you, adn reasses your feelings at the end of the night, and just think of who might've had more positive qualities and treated you better, cause that's the better date. But mainly go off feeling.
But you did ask for my opinion ( sort of ), so this Ryan kid seems like a very good and fun date for you. If he's attractive, sweet, and caring he sounds perfect!
But like I said, give each a chance and "listen to your heart" and just think of who you might have the stronger feelings for, and who you can picture yourself hanging out with more and having a great time.
I hope I helped.
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heyyyyyyyyyyyyy gurrrrrrrrrrrrl
this is lady d
this is a easy one ! pick the lil dude! i mean he's your age, he's hot, and he's really sweet not to mention romantic. did'nt you say the other guy was kind of meen and is shy! he also did not apy attention. this guy (the lil dude) even talked 2 you when nobody els would . those are hard 2 find gurl! you betta pick the lil dude!
thats wat lady d would do!
ps. comment ur lady d!
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Get to know them both and if it seems like tony is lwhat youve heard his like then you know to stay clear.
though ryan sounds like a sweet guy id get to know him better before deciding what to do.
good luck
kim
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I'd get to know both a little better first, but Ryan sounds like a good guy. Take it slow, so you can make a wise decision you will be happy with and not regret. Don't ever go by "his friends say he likes me" when you should hear from the guy himself how he feels and from his actions. If he is attentive and polite he likes you. If he is avoiding you or rude, forget him.
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RYAN. to be honest, it sounds like you like him more anyway jackie. He's the best choice for you, but the decision is obviously for you to make. Maybe you could become better friends with ryan and then your decsion might be easier? But remember, life would be pretty boring if we only did whats good for us. Best of luck xxxx
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i say ryan is the guy for you. hes cute, hes sweet, hes your age and you know he cares about you and will treat you right. tony doesnt sound bad either but just the fact that hes rude to other people makes me think that he might also be rude to you. maybe he wasnt paying attention to you because like you said hes shy and didn't know what to say. well if you and ryan dont work out you could go back to tony if you want. hope i helped!
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