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Question Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 9:44 pm

ok so i just had sex for the first time about a week ago and well...it was a little rough. i mean like the guys likes to go really hard. but anyways. my question is...is it normal for the vaignal area to be like...tender and sore after sex? becuase like it hurts down there...is something wrong?

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Madalyn772 answered Thursday November 16 2006, 4:28 pm:
It's completely normal for both the external and internal vaginal areas to be tender after sex, especially if you say it was a little rough. You just aren't used to it yet. There's nothing wrong. Ask the guy to be more careful and go slower next time, that should help. Also, you can use a lubricant to make it smoother.

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looloo12 answered Saturday October 28 2006, 8:19 pm:
there's probably nothing wrong. your 1st time having sex a thin layer inside your vagina tears and since lik u said it was "rough" your probably just sore from that.

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dienwithlovexx answered Saturday October 28 2006, 5:03 pm:
Because you have been a virgin forf so long your vagina area hasn't got used to this change.
It is normal for a virgin to experience this after having sexual intercorse
If your vagina is sore/off-coloured/itchy or smelly please contact your local GP or tell someone you can trust or who will help you
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AskBritt88 answered Sunday October 8 2006, 9:37 pm:
Of course yes because it was your first time...

Easy huh


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mwalnutss answered Thursday October 5 2006, 5:18 pm:
nah, thats normal.

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mariaxfusho answered Monday October 2 2006, 4:37 pm:
Noo there's nothing wrong. It's normal since it was your first time. It could still be sore after your second time too. But eventually it should get better. :]

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orphans answered Monday October 2 2006, 4:02 pm:
yep its completely normal to be tender and sore after your first time. but if it still hurts after a week, then you should go see a gyno or a doctor

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Exquisitechick answered Monday October 2 2006, 6:54 am:
It was your first time, of course it will be sore. Youre stretching youre hole and doing stuff you normally wouldnt do in that area. It'll go away in time, just dont have sex again until it does. If it doesnt go away soon, i would say for you to visit your doctor.

Good luck

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Elcee answered Monday October 2 2006, 5:18 am:
If a guy is rough he can cause abrasions, bruises and little cuts inside the vagina. As with all bruises etc., they do take a few days to heal. So the answer to your questions is yes. To help with the healing process try sitting in a warm bath filled with salty water - however, don't douche. It will start to ease within a couple of days, but refrain from intercourse until you are not sore any more. If you find that the soreness increases or you need to pee more and it hurts, see a doctor because you may have an infection like thrush or cystitis. In future, ask your guy to be a little gentler. If he cares for you he will oblige. All the best.

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