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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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i have tried to pleasure myself before and play with my vagina but it never feels right and i always think im doing it wrong. how do girls pleasure themselfs?

im not really scared, i just dont know how to do everything .

-like how are you suppose to give a hand job to a guy?

-what do they do when they finger you?

-when you make out, do you use tounge alott, or just a little at a time? and do only one of yall use your tounges, or do both of yall?

-everyone says you suck to give hickeys, but ive tried adn it didnt work. what are good ways to give a hickey?

sorry these are weird questions, but i need to know!

You are not wrong. Lots of girls finger themselves. I have a few friends who think its wierd that you would want to but whatever. Just do what feels right.
When they finger you, its supposed to make you moan and feel good, like you would finger yourself.
When you makeout, you use you toungue a lot. I would suggest having a tic tac before your kiss.
Yes, you do suck to give hickeys. The sucking brings the blood up to the surface, causing it to turn red.

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there is this guy who rides my bus and he is sooo cute and sooooooo nice. he is a sophmore and i am a freshman and one of his friends who is also my friend says that he thinks i am hot and i like him so how can i possibly get him to ask me out because i really like him!!!!!

Well if you like someone else, you should ask him. The worst that would happen is for him to say no. Even then, you'd know you gave it your best shot. Just try it.

Hope I helped!

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my brother and i were in car accident recently and i was driving and totaled my brand new escalade. my brother told the police and our parents that he was the one driving so i wouldnt get in trouble since i had only had my licnese for a few months and he has had his for about 6 years. i feel horrible about the whole thing. should i tell my parents the truth or just let it be?

My advice would be to tell the truth. They'll be a lot harder on you if they figure out you lied about the whole thing. Just suck it up and do it. They'll understand.
Hope I helped!

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so i was wondering. i masturbate every once in a while. i'm a grl by the way. and i notice that i really get turned on by female porn pictures. does that mean i'm bisexual? or is this normal?

I think its normal. You're just curious that's all. There's nothing wrong with being bisexual either. If you start to develop feelings toward the same sex, you may be bisexual. Looking at gay pron doesn't automatically make you bi. Curiousity killed the cat lol. If you have any more questions, my myspace is on my site. Feel free to ask me anything you want, I'll be glad to help.


Hope I helped hun!

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how do you make out i know this might sound weird but i would like step by step instructions so that i will be thought as a good kisser.

Well you just have to do what you feel. There are no real instructions to making out so just wing it.

Hope i helped!

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alrite so i want this jacket really badly

http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10101&catalogId=10851&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12103&categoryId=12172&productId=2&langId=-1

but my mom said we just dont have the money this year. she said i could get a job to earn money for it. i can babysit my neighbors but if i ask i dont want to be like "i need a new jacket so can i babysit ur kids" cuz then they would feel they had to go out like EVERY weekend. i need help SOON

Maybe go out and find a job. Look in the Want ads. Or ask your mom if you helped around the house if she would pay you. Hope you get the jacket!

Hope I helped!

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Last year, I was quite popular. I made everyone laugh, I talked to anyone and everyone, and I always had people around me. I was totally confident with my life.

Then, this year, all the sudden, I lost my group of close friends because they all got into drugs and drinking. Since I no longer have my close friends, I'm the one walking up to people desperatley trying to start a conversation. I'm the one feeling alone. I don't walk with people anymore, I'm picked last for partners in class, and I'm always feeling left out.

How do I get back to my old life?

There's going to be someone whose looking for a good friend like you out there. All you gotta do is find them.

Hope I helped!

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F13 My Friend(1) and I are Best friends, have been for 5 years. and 2 years ago We made a new friend(2), she was great! Always there for you, on time, fun and spontainous. But now she's always late and flakes on us ALL the time. but we are all very close and we dont want to lose her as a friend. Oh and there is 1 more problem, she did this camp thing over the summer and wont shut up about it, We (1 and I) have heard the stories 10000000 times. and her "friends" from camp ignore her at school, and we think she cares about them more than us. We want to tell her to shut up but she's very dramatic and would think that we didnt want her as a friend, and we dont know what to do, Help please.

Talking to her about it helps. If she doesn't respond in a nice way, maybe she's not a real good friend.

Hope I helped hun!

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ok... well i left my video game (kingdom hearts) at a friend's house for a few months. My friend didn't play it but his little brother did. Well, his little brother left it out all of the time, and it got the heck scratched out of it. I haven't played it for a really long time, and now i want to. BUT, i cant because i cannot start a new game, because the in the very beginning scene... * that u cannot skip through *.... int he very beginning it like freezes... and its really making me mad... is there anyway to fix this??? please answer soon thanks...




chase

Make the guy pay for another one.

hope i helped♥

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Alrite so I'm 15/f.
Theres this boy that really likes me and I sort of like him. He has the pretiest blue eyes ever and everyone is saying that I should give him a chance.

Then thers this other boy (of cours). He's cute and does says/does sweet stuff to me IN PERSON. Only one of my best friends knows about him though. Who should I go with, boy1 or boy2?

Try before you buy sweetie. lol♥

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I need help choosing which magazine I want to order.
I'm 14/f and I want some kind of magazine that has these features:

Quizzes

Tips on Make-up and fashion

has those mini posters of celebritys

letters from fans about embarresing moments and those kind of things

inside stories of celebritys

pictures of celebritys


I was kinda thinking about J-14... but maybe another magazine... I dont know, can somebody help me and name a few good magazines that are approriate for 14 year olds? thanks!
Oh and I want them to be fun too! not just boring, like only having pictures of celebritys. something that tells me "WOW!" thanks :]

Try these mags
J-14

People

Allure
Hope I helped!♥

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15/f freshman

Okay so ihave a larger chest than most girls my age. (i'm a 32 C)Its not that i hate my boobs or that they make me feel insecure though.It just bothers me when people say something about them or stare... My problem is that everyone stares at them! Just today i was in studyhall and an upper classmen asked me how old i was. I told him that he was 15 and he looked super shocked! Then he told my friend tommy that i had huge boobs! Even my boyfriend has said something about them before! Its not as if i try to show them off or anything like that. I honestly don't see why they're so great!


So my question is...... how do i get people(guys) to stop staring at my chest?

(and dont say tutrlenecks or something dumb like that!)

Thanx in advanced!

I would just embrace it but if it makes you feel really uncomfortable, give them a dirty lok to really set them off.

Hope I helped hun!

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My boyfriend was with a girl for 6 months. Now weve been together for almost two months, but the other day he called me his exs name. What do I do?

I'd say its a slipup but if it keeps happening, he may not be completely over his ex.

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I don't even know where to start... I'm a high school senior and I'm so damn busy with schoolwork. We're doing this film for our class project and deadline's already next week. The problem is, we're not even finished shooting all the scenes! I've been putting so much time and effort into this film(I got terribly sick last week and I lost 6-8 pounds from the time we started filming which was 3 weeks ago) but my actors don't seem to realize that we don't have all the time in the world, like, they're just lazing around sometimes and stuff...
I'm also an editor of the school paper and we're also rushing to finish the lay-outs because the deadline to the printer is also next week!
That's not all. I have to do my Investigatory project and I also have two research papers to finish! Actually I still don't have a topic for the other one and my English teacher hasn't given us our topic yet so for sure I'm gonna be cramming like crazy....

Sometimes I just feel restless...I can't concentrate in class becasue my mind is constantly focused on other things ALL the time... I've been losing weight and I don't want that to continue because other people have been telling me that I'm so skinny(I now only weigh 95lbs and my normal weight is around 100lbs.).
I also have DARK eyebags and I have a lot of pimples now...Plus, my cough just won't go away...
What can I do to reduce the stress?

Well sound like your super busy! Take some time for yourself for a change. Or you can go into your college professors and explain what is going on and they may not give you such a load of homework. Remember to take time to RELAX and the stress will level itself out. Good luck!

Hope I helped!!!

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i like this guy adn today he was kind of being rude to me like saying, you look like a monkey ( we were doing something about monkeys in class) and you smell like a monkey. and you are retarded. i was really hurt because i like him and i don't like it when he says that. does this mean that he finds me annoying or something? what should i say if he says it again?

If he was trying to flirt with you, he's lame for saying that. Forget about him. If he does it again, he's not interested.

Hope I helped!

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what should i do with my dead ipod? are there any places i can send it in for money or a rebate on a new one? its a pink 2nd generation mini. thanks!

well you should have a warranty on it, depending on how long it was. If you really want to get rid of it, i'm sure you can send it in somewhere like a target.

Hope I helped!

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..okay I'm 5'5 and 109 pounds.. I think I'm fat.. and I feel guilty after everything I eat.. I was wondering..does anyone know how to lose weight? In the stomach area.. or to get rid of that little pudge?

Ummmmmm..... You are not fat!!! You've probably heard this but only becuz its true. If you reallly want to lose the fat, try doing a few sets of crunches, pushups and situps. Try walking and/or running too. And remember to take a break once in a while too. Your body will thank you.

Hope I helped!

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sorry in advance that its a litlle long
ok so...my "ex boyfreind" and i had dated for a little more than a year. and then one night. i was just kind of thinking out loud and i said something about sometimes i think about being single. not like thinking about breaking up with him...but just thinking. but he said that if i really meant it when i told him that i love him then theres no chance that i would want to be single. but so blah blah. we yelled at eachother for a while. and then i decided wel...i need to figure some things out. so we "arent dating" right now. but i told him that there is a chance we will go back out in a while. but the problem is. a. i dont know when that is and i dont know if it will be soon. and b. he is like going crazy. like its killing him that we arent dating.
so i dont know what to do. because i feel bad making him wait, but i cant go back out with him right now because it doesnt seem fair, and i just dont really know if/when i want to date him again.

OK first of all, you can explain that you were just thinking. I'm sure a lot of girls wonder about being single while they are with their boyfriends. Just give it time to simmer over and if he loves you, he'll understand.

Hope I helped!

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I've just moved to a new school
i met this guy who i am now best friends with.
he asked me out but i turned him down, coz i don't like him in that way.
he understands completely, and we are still best friends.
I recently went to the movies with him, and he didn't tell me that there were two other guys there.
One of the guys i know, and i get along pretty well with him.
But the other guy i knew was in my science class, and I don't know him at all, apart from his name.
When we all gather around a desk to do an experiment or something, he always stands opposite me and looks at me and smiles.
I completely and utterly am in love with him!
So anyway, after the movie was over, we all went to the arcade.
I was just sitting on the bench while the other two guys played on the games, but this guy i like came and sat next to me.
We didn't say anything for awhile, but then he said, "Oh I think I'm in your science class." and I said "Yeah you are".
From then on we basically didn't stop talking!
We left the arcade and walked around the mall, and we were still talking.
Then it was time for me to go home.
My parents agreed to meet me at the front of the movies, but then the guy i like said that he would walk me home.
I looked at him and went "what?" and the other two guys looked at him and started laughing their heads off, and he looked a bit embarassed (awwww! haha) but we all agreed that i should stick to the plan that me and my parents agreed on at the start.
So we went up to to the movies, and my parents came and got me.

The next day, Monday, I saw him in science.
I smiled at him and he smiled back.
We started talking again, and he started talking about this girl he went to the mall with the other day, a girl called *sarah* (not me) and he was also talking about this other girl called *bianca* (also not me haha) and, well, i started to get a bit jealous. (thats not their real names by the way)
But it's just the way he looks at me, it's like he wants to know me, and I want to know him.
I just don't know how I can ask him for his email, or something like that, without seeming too desperate.
I have his friend's email???
please help!

My advice would be to just ask him. The worst that can happen would be for him to say flat out no. Its worth a shot. Get to know him and maybe something can develop from there.

Hope I helped!

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ok so
im suppose to be getting my period soon
and i have a party to go to on friday
and my friend has a hot tub
and im not one of those people who like tampons
i just never wear them
and when i try to put them in they hurt
either im doing ti wrong but i dont think thats it
or do i have like a problem?
or is it just that my "down there" isnt used to it at all
help?!

Well you have to get used to it. You can' get used to it in like a few days, it takes maybe a few weeks. You'll do it when you really want to.

Hope I helped hun!

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