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boyfriend/friend
sorry in advance that its a litlle long
ok so...my "ex boyfreind" and i had dated for a little more than a year. and then one night. i was just kind of thinking out loud and i said something about sometimes i think about being single. not like thinking about breaking up with him...but just thinking. but he said that if i really meant it when i told him that i love him then theres no chance that i would want to be single. but so blah blah. we yelled at eachother for a while. and then i decided wel...i need to figure some things out. so we "arent dating" right now. but i told him that there is a chance we will go back out in a while. but the problem is. a. i dont know when that is and i dont know if it will be soon. and b. he is like going crazy. like its killing him that we arent dating.
so i dont know what to do. because i feel bad making him wait, but i cant go back out with him right now because it doesnt seem fair, and i just dont really know if/when i want to date him again.
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oh and ps. he says that if i even hang out wiht a guy right now that he will break up with me forever....is that fair?
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OK first of all, you can explain that you were just thinking. I'm sure a lot of girls wonder about being single while they are with their boyfriends. Just give it time to simmer over and if he loves you, he'll understand.
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One thing you should realise. There should be no obligation in a relationship. You have thought about being single which normally means you may not be ready for a relationship at this stage in time. I think you need to ask yourself whats really important in your life. Your feelings or your so called boyfriend.
To go through the ps he is getting a major case of the green eyed monster. It is not fair to put you in that position. If thats how he feels then is he really worth it?? I say NO!!
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ok so you are confused about what you want. i can see where u r coming from. you need time to think of what u really want. yes being single is fun, but if you love this guy are willing to lose him? i can also see his side, he loves you and is waiting for you to decide what you want. he tells you it would be offically over if you hang out with other guys because he cares about you and gets jealous. i guess its kinda like sharing you. just ask your self would you want to date a guy you had to share with others?
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