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what you gonna do about crushes...
I've just moved to a new school
i met this guy who i am now best friends with.
he asked me out but i turned him down, coz i don't like him in that way.
he understands completely, and we are still best friends.
I recently went to the movies with him, and he didn't tell me that there were two other guys there.
One of the guys i know, and i get along pretty well with him.
But the other guy i knew was in my science class, and I don't know him at all, apart from his name.
When we all gather around a desk to do an experiment or something, he always stands opposite me and looks at me and smiles.
I completely and utterly am in love with him!
So anyway, after the movie was over, we all went to the arcade.
I was just sitting on the bench while the other two guys played on the games, but this guy i like came and sat next to me.
We didn't say anything for awhile, but then he said, "Oh I think I'm in your science class." and I said "Yeah you are".
From then on we basically didn't stop talking!
We left the arcade and walked around the mall, and we were still talking.
Then it was time for me to go home.
My parents agreed to meet me at the front of the movies, but then the guy i like said that he would walk me home.
I looked at him and went "what?" and the other two guys looked at him and started laughing their heads off, and he looked a bit embarassed (awwww! haha) but we all agreed that i should stick to the plan that me and my parents agreed on at the start.
So we went up to to the movies, and my parents came and got me.
The next day, Monday, I saw him in science.
I smiled at him and he smiled back.
We started talking again, and he started talking about this girl he went to the mall with the other day, a girl called *sarah* (not me) and he was also talking about this other girl called *bianca* (also not me haha) and, well, i started to get a bit jealous. (thats not their real names by the way)
But it's just the way he looks at me, it's like he wants to know me, and I want to know him.
I just don't know how I can ask him for his email, or something like that, without seeming too desperate.
I have his friend's email???
please help!
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My advice would be to just ask him. The worst that can happen would be for him to say flat out no. Its worth a shot. Get to know him and maybe something can develop from there.
Hope I helped!
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It seems to me like he likes you back. Him talking to you about other girls could mean anything. They could just be his friends who he was talking about, crushes [ hopefully not! i don't think they are ], or he's probably just trying to get you jealous ; which worked. Just start talking to him alot more and in the middle of the conversation, or as you two are leaving class, just be like,"Hey, do you got a screename or email or anything?" and ask him if you can have it. You won't sound desperate at all. And if you want to get even closer to him, next time you ever have an assigment or project in science where you can buddy up, ask him to be your partner! That way you guys can work together alot and get even closer. I hope I helped.
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in the middle of your conversation, be like, oh i didnt catch your email
something like that
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well it seems like he likes you and you like him like alot. but when he was talking about those other girls, to me he sounds like a player, or just a guy with alot of girl friends. but keep yourself open and available. kind of flirt with him sometimes and maybe it will make him want to ask you out. don't give up on him.. good luck and i hope i helped.
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Here are some methods you could try:
Ask if he wants to hang out again, tell him you had alot of fun the first time.
If he says yes, ask for his cell phone number so you can let him know what time/what you want to do!
OR.
You could be straight forward and say "Hey, can I call you sometime?" and go from there.
.. and you can always get his number/email adress from friends, but that might creep him out a bit O.O
Flirt a bunch with him though. If you have to have partners in science, ask him to be your partner!
Good Luck <3
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