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Hi. i'M ASHLEiGH.

i HAVE A W0NDERFUL B0YFRiEND 0F 0VER 0NE YEAR. ♥

i L0VE HiM T0 DEATH! ♥

HE'S 7 YEARS 0LDER THAN ME TH0UGH.

HE JUST TURNED 21.

S0 YES, i AM 14. N0, I'M N0T JAiL BAiT.

i'M H0MESCH00LED, iTS ACTUALLY PRETTY C00L.

i HAVE 0VER 20 PiERCiNGS.

i WAS RECENTLY DiAGN0SED WiTH DYSLEXiA. WHiCH JUST MEANS i READ STUFF BACKW0RDS.

i AM BiP0LAR, AND ADHD, S0 i'M SCREWED.

i'M A Y0UTUBE FREAK.

YES, iN MY PiCTURE i HAVE MAKE-UP 0N MY CHEST.

i DYE MY HAiR A L0T.

ACTUALLY T00 MUCH..

iN THE PAST FEW M0NTHS i HAVE F0UND 0UT i HAVE LiTTLE T0 N0 ST0MACH ACiD, AND i CAN N0T EAT S0LiD F00D ANYM0RE. WHiCH CAME FR0M BEiNG ANAREXiC/BELiMiC.

S0 i'M PRETTY MUCH 0N AN ALL LiQUiD DiET F0R THE NEXT TW0 YEARS.

i D0N'T GiVE THE BEST ADViCE iN THE W0RLD, AND i ADMiT iT, S0ME 0F iT SUCKS, BUT AT LEAST i TRYED.

FEEDBACK iS ALWAYS APPRECiATED T0 HELP ME iMPR0VE. :D

i'M N0T G0iNG T0 GiVE A SUCK UP ANSWER JUST T0 GET A G00D RATiNG, SURE i CARE AB0UT MY RATiNG, BUT GETTiNG 0UT G00D ADViCE iS M0RE iMP0RTANT.








[ADDED: JAN 9, 06. I'VE BEEN SICK WITH STREP FOR OVER 3 WEEKS, AND GOT HOSPITALIZED LAST WENDSDAY. I HAVE NO IDEA WHEN I'M GONNA BE ABLE TO GET ONLINE AGAIN, CAUSE MY LAPTOP IS DYING FAST. SO PRAY THAT I GET WELL SOON.]


{JAN 23, 06. HEY. I JUST GOT OUT OF THE HOSPITAL MONDAY. I HAD A LOT OF PROBLEMS AND STUFF. ANYWAYS, I'M BETTER NOW. SO I'M BACK!}

advice

if someone stole your picture off of a website and made a fake myspace of it .. is there any way possible for them to get in trouble with the cops or something about identity theft or some type of law. or do you just let it go?

ugh...i hate stupid motherfuckers who do that. its so irritating. thats why the best thing to d is just "tag" your pictures.

anyways, i checked into it a while back. you apparently can't file an identity theft report since they didnt say they were you, they just were claiming a pic of you was them. but, one thing you can do is contact myspace and file a stolen picture claim, and they will take care of it.

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well when you curl your hair like crimp it or whatever with the gel and stuff, how do you make it so that your hair always has that wet look if you know what i mean.. thanks =]

get some mousse.
the kind that is for scrunching hair. :]

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hi well i was reading your Q&As and i see you have a lot of piercings ha well can you name all of them?

haha yeah.
1* tongue
2* lip (i have a bar through my lip)
3* eyebrow
4 & 5* i have to holes in each lobe
6* right cartaledge
7* industrial
8* left helix
9 & 10* i have both my wrists done (surface)
11* belly botton
12 & 13* both sides of my hips
14* stomach
15* right tranverse
16* lip web
17* tongue web
18* nape (back of neck)
19* right tragus
20* right obital
21* side corset (which counts as 20 someting.
22* i actually have the back of my legs done. its 36 total rings for the legs. everyone always wants to see a picture. so here it is;;
http://i10.tinypic.com/3zh5n9f.jpg

oh, and i also have a back corset piercing, its my newest one.

so the total is way over 40 something.

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My girlfriend asked me if I named my penis. I thought she was kidding but she was serious. I told her "no"' and she sugested "George". I thought it is so stupid.

What I am wondering is do most girls think guys name their penis? And do you have any good ideas for a name rather then George?

haha. excuse me while i laugh a moment...

okay, better. no, you are not the only guy who does it.

me and my boyfriend joke about it a lot. hes actually changed the name of his a couple of times.
-magnum
-tiny [even though it aint all that tiny]
-tim
-tiny tim
-maxumnus
-maxum
-max
and thats all. sorry. i didnt really help that much. but its actually pretty normal, just a lot of guys don't admit it.

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ok im 13and i rly likee this guy that is 21 and i rly want to have sex w/him,but i don't know how to make a move on him b/c of the fact he is21

Hey. I kinda know where you are coming from since my boyfriend is 21 and I'm 14. Just make sure you really love him and he likes you more than just sex.
Anyways, the easiest things to do is just unzip his zipper..or yours. Whichever.
Or just like kiss his neck and whisper in his ear what you want to do to him or what you want him to do to you.
Just simple things, grab his hand and put it "down there"
Those are the easiest things.
I don't usually make the first move, but when I do thats usually what I do.

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Hey everyone =]
So here`s the deal. There`s this adorable hair style i have no idea how to do. Here`s an example of it ;; http://i10.tinypic.com/2zipx5e.jpg

I do that to my hair a lot.
Clip up the top layer, and the straighten you bottom layer super straight.
Then take down the top layer and straighten it.
Then take and wave the top layer in random places.

A lot of people don't know what a waver is. So here is where you can buy one at-
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=4933851
PS. its only like 14 bucks

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on a girl, which side looks better for a cartlidge pearcing?

That person under me is a dumbass.
That only goes for guys and its on the earlobe piercings, not cartiledge.

Anyways, I have my right side done. Most girls do. There really isn't a right or wronge. Its all personal preference. I had an industrial in my left ear so I had no other choice but right. But really, most girls get right done. Although both sides look great.

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does anyone know where i can
get hair bows? like the ones
you clip in your hair? i tried
claire`s and they didn`t have
any... this is my friend carla;
and i want some like the one she
has in her hair. websites/stores
would be really helpful. :]
http://myspace-271.vo.llnwd.net/01059/17/24/1059674271_l.png

thanks.

I saw that at Hot Topic the other day.
Try, www.hottopic.com

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I changed my gauges gradually, going up a step each time so i dont tear or anything...i was just wondering if it was bad that i'm only waiting about a week to change the gauges to the next level. i just changed from a 12 to a 10 gauge. also, i've heard of "blowouts" with gauging your ears...and i may be wrong but when i changed my gauges a little bit of skin or tissue or whatever was pushed by the 10 gauge....is that concidered a blowout? it doesnt seem to be a problem right NOW...but then again i just did it. i cleaned both ears with bactine right after.

if you have any other tips, please feel free to tell me...i really want to gauge my ears the right way and i could use help from people who acually KNOW what they're doing.

aim: blow up bad guys

thanks!

Hi. I've managed to gauge my ears to 00. It only took 30 weeks. Ha. I guess you could say I know what I'm talking about, I mean I do have over 20 piercings. Here goes;

No, what you had was NOT considered a blowout. A blowout is when a huge chunk of skin comes off. And its very irritating and painful.

The easiest thing to do is wait one or two weeks after gauging to go to a size bigger. That way your ear has time to heal and can get used to something being that size.

Don't skip gauges. Its dangerous. Don't go 10 then 4. Go 10, 8, 6, 4 and so on.

Make sure you clean your ears at least twice a day with peroxide. That way they can't get infected and will stay clean.

Believe it or not, jewlery is very important. Make sure you use a good type of jewerly such as stainless steal or sterling silver. None of that fake crap.

You probably already know your gauges, but just in case you don't, you should like at this chart; http://www.osirisbody.com/sizing.htm

I hope I helped and if you have any other questions, just ask me. I'll answer.

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does the herbal essences Dangerously Straight work? i tried sunsilk and it doesn't make my hair straight and i'm not allowed to use a straightner or blowdryer. my hair is light brown and kinda poofy and frizzy after my hair dries from when i get out of the shower. when its completly dry, its poofy, frizzy, and kinda wavy in some places and kinda straight in other places. so can someone please tell me if the herbal essences stuff works right for my hair? thanks soo much! :)

Hi. My hair is the same way. So I bought it the day it came out. No, it does not work. But one thing I have found to work is, SunSilk Anti-Poof. I know you said SunSilk didn't work, but thats cause you bought the ame that "straightens" it. But the Anti-Poof, makes your hair look healthier, and straighter. Also, if you buy a conditioner and condition your hair everytime you wash it, it will be less dry and frizzy.

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Me & my boyfriend just had sex, we are very serious so this wasnt the first time... but for some reason my labia minors.. the samller lips are i guess swollen? they are sore and ones big and its unconfortable to walk... has anyone ever had this? or no what to do?

Im really scared cuz i saw something on tv about a woman whos labia was like tearing off and its just playing in my mind somethings gonna happen like that!! please hlep and lessen my worries.

Hey. I don't know what the person before is thinking, but that is in no way true. Its not a STD or any other crazy thing.

I had the same problem for about a week after I lost my virginity. Also, a lot of my friends say they have to. So its normal.

All it is, is you had it a little to rough for your first time. That and you were most likely tight, and your boyfriend had a big dick.

But honestly, you shouldn't worry about it, because me and a lot of other girls had the problem. No need to worry. It will get better in a couple of weeks.

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how high up is a girls hymen? like i have fingered myself and i was wondering like how far up you can possible go without breaking your hymen and how can i tell if mine is broken?

The person that said your hymen was high up and no guy could break it was wronge. You hymen is right at the opening of your vagina. If you take a hand mirror and look down there you should be able to see if it is broken or not. The most common ways of the hymen breaking is when I girl looses her viginity. But bike riding and using tampons can break it also. I hope I helped!

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ok so i turned 16 in august and my boyfriend is about to turn 18 in december...so will that make us...like illegal?

Hi.
Since the legal age of consent is 16, then no you two are not illegal.
If you were under 16 and he was over 16 then yes, you would be illegal.
Take me for example:
My boyfriend is 21 and I am 14.
Since I'm under 16 and he is way over 18, we are illegal.
Although it is not illegal as long as you don't have sex.
But just make sure you are comfortable with him and all, everything is okay.
But no, you are not illegal.
=]

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in your profile, it says your boyfriend is 7 years older than you,and he just turned 21, so that would make you 14?

Yes. I turned 14 on July 4th and my boyfriend turned 21 last Tuesday...August 8th.

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How old were you when you got your first kiss?

I was 11. =] But now I'm getting married to that guy! So, thats pretty cool. I'm glad he was myy first kiss. =]

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i'm 13, i don't plan on losing my virginity ANYTIME SOON, i'm going to keep it until i'm married. Most of my friends aren't virgins [ages; 13-16] and they don't regret it, but i know in the future they will . but can you guys just give me an amazing reason on why being a virgin is a precious thing and that giving up your body to some guy that just wants to get in and out makes you seem like a hoe. i really need good reasons so that when the other 1/4 of my friends are going to have a sex i can give them great reasons on why not to [other than STD's and all stuff i need other advice]

EDiT:;/ Thank you very much =] I have AIM, my screen name is ashey iis tite I'm on a lot. My email is mother_trucker_8592@yahoo.com I also have yahoo messenger. Thanks again! =] And I look forward to hearing from you!
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Hello. I want to start off by saying, I lost my virginity when I was 12 to a 19 year old. But, now we plan on getting married. I think its really good that you want to stay a virgin until you are married, it shows you have good morals and values. So, here are some really good reasons;;

-It shows you have morals and respect for your body.
-It tells other guys that you actually want a meaningful relationship, not just a guy to have sex with.
-If you wait until marriage, it will make your wedding night more memoriable.
-You are sure not to have sex with someone and mean it but the other person doesn't and just wanted some ass.
-How would your parents feel if they found out?
-There is always a change you could get pregnant or get a STD.

Thats all I can think of, sorry its not a lot. I know I'm not a virgin and I lost it at a young age, but I don't regret it and I knew that the guy loved me and wanted more than sex out of me. Now, I know that I will be spending the rest of my life with him, and I'm really glad that I made the choice to do what I did.

Have a good week! =]
Oh, and don't let anyone tell you that being a virgin is lame and ect. Its not, it means you have self respect and a lot of other things! Stick to what you believe in now. =]

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what are some cute styles of backpacks? pink is perferrable (sp?)! website would be nicee :) thanks

I love L.L Bean! They last forever (there is a lifetime warrenty) And you can get your name or initals put on them. You can get them for $45 at llbean.com

I saw some at PB Teen the other day. So, you could go to PBteen.com and check them out.

Both of them, you can get in pink. So, Good Luck! =]

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OK, this isn't a "random weirdo" question, it just doesn't really fall under any other category. Any way, on with the question:
Is it normal, for a girl, to shave around the crotch? I don't mean shaving all of it, obviously. Just enough so that hair doesn't stick out when I wear a bathing suit?

Yes, that is very normal. Lots of girls do it. =]

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I have a lot of hair that grows on my neck, and it's really embarassing. I usually wax it, but it takes a long time and is pretty painful. I know I shouldn't shave it, so that's not an option. Is there any quick and possibly painless way to remove it where it wont grow back very fast?

Thank in advance

My twin sister has the same problem, she had it removed with a laser. It was 2 years ago, and it still hasn't grown back! So, you should check into laser hair removale. (sp)

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i just got my lip peicred, and i wanted it peirced with a stud, but the peircer said he doesn't peirce lips with studs.my friend got her lip pierced with a stud though.after it completely heals, can i take it out and put a monroe or labret stud in it?will it do anything to my gums or teeth if i do do that?

thanks!

Hello. I have over 20 piercings, including the lip. You could have gotten it done with a stud, I did. But its also the piercers' personal preference on what to do. To answer your question, yes, you can put a labret or monroe in it, just wait about 3 or 4 months. Yes, it will do stuff to your gums and teeth.

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