my name is Nat .. ppl call me Noodalie =) um. and i can help you w. some problems your having =)havnt been through everything but i have experienced it through muah friends. im sure i can help in anything. most of my friends come to me anyways. =)
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I don't know what's wrong with me. All my life I NEVER shed any of hair on my head. Hardly any hairs were left in my combs and brushes. Now all the sudden my hair has been falling out. Not just pieces of damaged hair, I'm talking the ROOT and everything. there was tons of hairs on my school uniform today and all my friends had to pick them off. If I run my fingers thru my hair there's a whole bunch of full hairs in my hand. This is not normal, what could be wrong? (there's no change in my diet) (link)
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umm i think it might just mean you are not eating enough protein. the same thing happened to my friend. try kepping to a strict diet eating foods high in protein. mostly try and eat meats. if it is still happening try going to a hair stylist and see what is the matter.
~natt~
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for around 2 years now i have had this white stuff in my knickers.. what is it and what dus it mean??
My mum started her period when she was sixteen ad im 13 so i neva thought i meant i was gonna started my period soon (link)
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its just discharge. you shouled be starting ....idk another year or so is my guess. you might not get it when your 16. eveyone is different
~natt~
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Well i put some blonde streaks in my hair and ive got like one side which is quite gingery and the other is really blonde! lol i dont know what to do i cant go out like this it looks such a mess please help xxxx lush me xx (link)
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if you dont like the blonde streaks you could make the other side look more like the blonder one. or you could find a hair color that was the same as your origonal and just dye your hair back to normal. hope i helped
~natt~
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16/f--I don't have BAD acne, but I have little red bumps on my face (I wash my face twice a day, but I just somehow still get little pimples). As I said, its not that bad and its nothing makeup can't fix. I've been using two different kinds of face makeup (liquid stuff and powder stuff), but I just ran out. I don't want to use the same stuff, but I'm not sure what to use. I'm not that experienced with types of makeup and what they do. Whats the difference between concealer, foundation, compact, and any other face makeup, and what exactly do they do?
Thank you. (link)
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well i use proactive and it has REALLY helped with little pimples and big ones too. also it can be a little pricey too! but if you dont mind spending that money proactive has tons of face products that can deal with any problems. they also have face makeup that wont clog your ores and can help fight acne. i suggest you try it. visit their website at www.proactive.com
~natt~
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I am a mother of four and none of my children will eat vegetables or fruit. The oldest is 13 and the youngest 7. I fed them vegetables and fruit in baby food as yound children, but they just don't like it now. I was the same as a child and so I didn't push them. However, while they're not unhealthy, I'd like them to start eating at least a bit more healthily, what with all this stuff going around about overweight kids and cholestrol, etc etc etc. So, my question is: does anyone have any recipies or ideas to make fruit and vegetables tasty and fun?
Also, my thirteen-year-old just got braces and can't eat anything hard for a few days, so I was wondering if it would be safe for to eat baby food? I know it has nothing added to it but I was just wondering if it was OK for a 13 year old to eat that and only that (obviously with drinks, and different varieties of the food) for three or four days?
Also, my friend has suggested using baby food or vegetable pureè as pasta sauces. Do you think this would work?
Thanks,
-Mum-To-Four (link)
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well first off. make your rules strict.making them eat vegetables and fruits is not torturing them. take away the junk food and tell them if they dont eat their fruits or vegeis that the junk is off limits. baby food is perfectly fine. if a baby can eat it then so can a 13 yearold. hope i helped
just remember to be strict. tell them your only doing it for their own good.
~natt~
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i skipped all of my workout classes for the past month cause i've been sick. yesterday i came back, worked out SO hard, now my muscles are so sore that i could hardly get out of the bed. i want to know what is the best thing to do (esp. for my legs, they hurt so bad)...
a) rest for the next couple days and do nothing until they feel better
b) keep working the muscles, continue running and conditioning today
c) stretch them?... or what, i dunno.
only answer if you know what youre talking about. thanks (link)
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take some pain releiver(sp) and dont use those muscules. the worst thing you could do is strain them. just rest for a while. over time your mustles will be back to normal doing your regular workout. good luck
~natt~
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well tomrrow night im going to this concert thing and im really not sure what to wear. I have a white tank top with flames on the bottom of it but what can I do to cover it up like a jacket? (link)
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umm u could try a blazer. the ones at hollister are really cute. and i think there on sale now too. try it out
~natt~
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Hello im caroline! I'm 14 years of age and i have really bad acne! I keep picking it and it just wont go away its so ugly and annoying how do i get rid of it! All the boys say i have a fanny rash on my face :S or spot the dog how do i make it go away! please help!!
Caroline 14 (link)
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i use proactive and it works well. its a little expensive though. check it out and www.proactive.com
~natt~
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I was just wondering..... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 4 months now and i know that may not seem like a long time but i really and truely love him. And it may sound weird but i feel like god is telling me that he is the one i am supposed to spend my life with. Can he be the one? Is it true that i can find someone in my junior year of high school? (link)
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you may always find someone you love but its a littleearly. if you guyys are together fur a much longer period of time you could think that. for now just take it slow.
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Is coffee fattening? Like just black coffee, nothing added? (link)
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no it just has a lot of caffine. (im sure u already new that)
~natt~
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Let me start out by saying that my sister is a nightmare. A big fat nightmare who makes your life turn into serious Hell. She is a thirteen year old snob who gets in everyones business, demands things from my parents who take it even though they don't like it. She has been damaging my life the most by trying to beat the crap out of me in front of her friends when I was severly sick, she didn't beat me up, but she kept trying to, and it made me upset, and I cried because it my body was aching. She has tried to smart mouth me in front of her friends, when my mom tells her not to do something, when shes not around, she will do it anyways, and when I try to stop her, she get up in my face, and says, "What are you gonna do about it?" Now, when things like this happens, I call my mom, and she'll just say, "stop it" even though thats probably about the hundreth time shes done it. She also lies, very bad. My parents know, but not as much, she tries spying on my phone conversations with my boyfriend, she is also known to read my other sisters diary to her friends on the phone, and laugh about it with them. She also told all of her friends something SO personal, I am not going to say, but it was so personal about my older sister. My parents do nothing about this. No matter how many times I try to ask them nicely, or I just slam it in their faces, they go talk to her, and she plays the innocent one. I told my mom tonight that she has made my life a living Hell, and all she said was, "well, she said the same thing about you" That made me so angry, because she looked at me like she believed her over me or she didn't know who to believe, HELLO! I am the innocent one here, everyone always says mean things about her, so they know shes the one whose rude! She is also known to hurt me in front of people, she'll grab underwear with blood in it, and will announce to everyone that its mine! When its really hers! I have dealt with this for a long time, and today, I just couldn't take it, I screamed in my room so loud, and tore all of the posters off of my wall, and scratched my face. I have gone crazy! When I heard somebody pick up the phone while me and my boyfriend were talking, I ran to my mom and yelled, "GET HER OFF THE PHONE NOW I HATE HER SO MUCH SOMEBODY JUST KILL HER!" And then, I went rambling on to my boyfriend how much I just want to kill her, and now I keep day dreaming about ways that I can kill her. I also kept saying, "shes a slut, a whore, a b*tch, a little sh*t, and an a*shole." I know shes a slut, but I will not get into detail about that. But I am asking somebody to please not tell me I need anger management, I know that this behavior is not abnormal, what person would not go crazy after dealing with a lying sister and parents who won't do anything about it? My behavior is scaring me, I've never hated somebody this much, I usually just like everybody, but everytime I think about wanting to kill her and it makes me feel good I get scared! I can't really talk to my parents, I've screamed it in their ears, and I've told them nicely, they don't listen to me.
Also, do not even think about having me talk to my sister, she is greedy, and selfish, all she cares about is herself, seriously, if its not her way, theres no way, shes a spoiled brat. So I guess what I'm asking is does anybody think I might be taking this too far? I know that I'm not, but does anyone think different? I know that this shouldn't get to me, but I have to live with her! I need ways to take my anger and sadness out, because all of my posters are ripped off of my wall. Also, my dad is getting me a therapist, so I can at least have somebody to talk to, but the whole time I'm probably going to ramble on about how much I hate her and wish she was dead, I have truly never felt this deeply of hate. My silly boyfriend wants me to fight her, but I'm not going to. But I hate her enough to. So, could anyone say something about this, like advice because I am in a huge puddle of misery. I just wish somebody would just think, "Maybe Sarah [me] has feelings too" when she makes fun of me, I wish she'd think, "Maybe since Sarah has depression, I shouldn't call her names because she feel pain too" And it makes me cry at night wondering how I'll ever get out of this Hell hole, somebody please give me comfort or anything that could help me. I've told my parents about my misery, so don't think that I havn't told anyone about this. I will rate. (link)
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you have a right to be angry. anyone could understand that. if you cant talk to your parents or sister maybe you could talk to your other sisters about it. if they would help. second. if your sister is about to hurt you.....dont hesitate to call the police. you have every right to. the therapist would be helpful too. if he/she sees a problem with your family then he/she could do soemthing about it. im fresh out of ideas. i hope everything works out!
~natt~
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heyy
There is this one friend and she is being really mad at me because she thinks I ignore her but I try to talk to her but she wont listen how should I talk to her
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call her up and see if she will talk or right a note to her. should work. if not then you shouldnt even bother.
~natt~
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i hate guys right now and thinking of going lesbian. What do you think of that? PS: Dont kill your self b/c ur sooooooo coooool!
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okkkkkk......? umm thats fine i guess. and i was never going to kill myself!
~natt~
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Kind of a dumb question but...
How do you make pancakes with a mix? Like what do you add? I lost the box and I can't remember...
Also, where can I find info about the history of pancakes? I've already googled it and asked jeeves but i can't find anything. (It's for a project)
Tres merci! (link)
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ya add milk
~natt~
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Hey,
I have horrible frizzy, thick hair and i like it best when its straight. I.ve tried a range of products (straightening serums, shampoos, conditioners, sprays..) but nothing seems to work at all. i have one of those 'wet to straight' straighteners (£80) and if you use it when its wet it frazzles your hair and i think it ruins it (its says it locks in moisture but im not too sure it does). I've tried Sunsilk straight and sleek, Frizz ease, shockwaves extreme straightener..etc..and im going to try that Hot Straight from the advert that stars Beyonce. My bathroom is filling up with half used hair products and i want to find one that works.
Also i dont even know how to apply all of these products so they could be exactly what im looking for but i just do it wrong.
I want smooth, sleek and straight hair where it seems every hair strand is individual and soft . I want it to be dead straightand shiny so if i had it in bunched and took it out it would bounce back into straightness
If you know anything that will make this happen or ave any advice please help me..:-)
LuV
Rachel (link)
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it might be a little more then you want to spend but i think you can get a perm for straight hair
~natt~
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i hate liars and my boyfrined lies constantly.. not so much to me.. but sometimes to me.. i cant always tell if hes telling the truth.. i guess sometimes his lies are for my benefit? we also really like eachother.. what should i do (link)
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i think you ask him when he answers a question and ask if hes really telling the truth. i can understand that he would lie to try not to hurt you but you want a bf that is honest with you. try talking to him. good luck
~natt~
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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help! (link)
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ha wow i fell the same way about one of my other friends. just answer this for me
1. do you flirt? somethimes thats the key to a guyy liking you. if you are just all uptight about being with a guyy and are more comfortable with your friends he'll think your shy. just be more outgoing and all. im the EXACT way. good luck!
~natt~
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is there a way to delete a aim screen name because i have so many that i cant make any new ones (link)
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go to the menu that has all of your screen names on and pick one...dont click is....just put your mouse on it so its highlighted blue. and push the delete button. say yes to the thing that pops up..sry if they are confusing!.
~natt~
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the guy i like broke up with his girlfriend about a month ago because he liked me, but then he started going out with another girl. they just broke up. he knows i like him and he told his friend that i'm cool and hott but he needs to get to know me more. and i'm not sure what to do because i talk to him like everyday. any suggestions? is this a lost cause? (link)
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invite him somewhere out or something. to the movies or ice skating. sit down and talk or just have a good time together. he'll most likely see a different side of you that he'll like!
~natt~
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im bulimic and anerexic. i dont eat. then when i do i puke. my best friend knows and wants me to stop. i want to but im not ready. what should i do? (link)
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you need to stop. you no you can die from not eating. and your frined is doing the right thing by trying to get you help. ok im not going to try to lexture you but if i do im sry. ok here it goes
when your bulimic ANd anerexic that maens your going overboard. when you try to be skinny that way people will think your over skinny. people dont want to look at someone whos bones are sticky out right out of there skin. if you want to be skinny do it in a healthy way. eat right and exersise. thats what i do. i limit myslef to one or two bad things a day. for lunch i have a salad. and for breakfast i have a banana. it works. also try doing crunches. they really work. i do 100-200 a day. but for now just eat untill you know that you should exersise. you can always be too skinny. just try it and tell me how your doing later. just stop before it goes too far. i hope i gave you something to think about.
~natt~
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