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So i was hanging out with this guy whos my friend and we were sitting on the couch and i was on the edge. He picked up the guitar hero controller to get ready to play and i grabbed it from him trying to get it away and he laughed and said 'your not getting this away from me.' so i pulled harder and he grabbed my arm and said 'Hey wait your gonna fall! I can't let you fall cuase then i just won't be able to live with myself.' and he was still laughing but i mean thats still pretty flirty right? so then i was talkin to him that night and you see we both are kinda in relationships and my bf got mad at me. So my friend said 'he should trust you.' and i asked 'would you trust me?' and said 'i trust all my friends.' so i was like nyeh....what does that mean? i mean does that seem like he likes me or what? (link)
It doesn't seem like he likes you more than a friend. Its all a possibility but from what you said it doesn't sound like it. Because he trusts all his friends and would be upset if he hurt you doesn't mean he likes you like that. He sounds like a good friend though. He might be flirting but from the sounds of it, it doesn't seem like anything more than friends.


okay so im having an issue debating what to do. my bf who is older than me by 8 years has some serious issues with women. and we've only been together for 3 months and already hes not the same as the was in the beginning. and hes not giving me the treatment that i believe i deserve, or even the same great treatment i give him! not that he treats me bad but i know that when a man loves a woman (as he says he does), he shows her more attention and care and love than he shows me. now i know hes paranoid to show too much affection because of his past, but that's not really fair to me... and im trying to decide if hes distant because of his issues (which is what he told me) or because maybe hes just not that into me. i dont know which one it is because he randomly does the sweetest things and promises hes gonna try to be more affectionate and open up more, but then he closes back up and treats me whatever again. so at one point i think he really does love me at another i think maybe he just doesnt. What should i do? if hes not into me i could just end it. but it could be because of the other girl that messed him up a few years ago, so should i give him another chance and wait to see if he will eventually open up? he says its hard for him to but i see progress sometimes...idk? should i just let go? help? (link)
So he had problems in the past. At least he is trying sometimes. Honestly, if whatever happened to him, happened to you, I think you might act the same way. He is telling you the reason. Obviously, he still cares for you, or else he wouldn't be with you. If he does the sweetest things once in awhile. It shows he is trying. Its just mostly if you want to end it you can. Its if you want to go on with this. He still cares so that's good. Just talk to him about it and how he opens up more but then closes again. He's obviously into you, so don't worry about that. Good luck and hopefully everything works out.


So my bestfriend was dating this guy, who had it really bad for her, they had only been official for a little over 2 weeks, but they had been spending alot of time together & he really liked her. Well one day, she decides she likes her guy bestfriend,(her ex boyfriend who took her virginitys brother) her & her "bestfriend" wanted to keep it all under wraps so her ex wouldn't find out, so they decided they wouldnt go out, they would just do physical stuff without being together, & she only told me & another girl.

Well at first she was just going to cheat on her boyfriend, but then she decided to break up with him. She told him that it was because she was grounded for the rest of the summer & wouldn't be able to see him. He knew it was a lie & he kept texting me & begging me to tell him the real reason, & he swore on his fathers grave he wouldnt say anything. I finally just said "Okay, shes gotta thing for her bestfriend, but their not going to go out, she just felt bad about it & didn't want to hurt you." Well they ended up getting in a fight, & at first i kept denying it was me who told. When she finally figured it out, i admitted to it & we got into an arguement. I eventually apologized for telling him, but now shes going around & posting things on myspace about how she cant trust anyone & shes only got herself.

Is it just me or is she blowing this a little out of proportion? & did i do the right thing by telling him? (link)
Well in a way she is blowing it out of proportion and then she isn't. Then whole myspace thing was stupid though. The guy had a right to know about what happened, but it shouldn't have been you who had to tell him. It would've been better for her. I think she is just upset because she trusted you with that and feels she has no one to trust anymore. All you can do now is apologize. Which you already did so you have to let her come around again. Explain that you are really sorry and you thought he had a right to know, but you realized that it shouldn't have been you to tell him. In a way you did the right thing but in the process it was her secret and she should've told him, not you. She might be going a little over dramatic but still, you lost her trust. So you just have to gain it back. Good luck!


15/f
this is a VERY long story, but im gonna try to lay this out as short as possible and please, im desperate here, you have NO clue what i've been through these past few months, and i need all the help i can get..

last year i met a REALLY sensative guy. he was 16, about to be 17, and i was 14.. he was soooo shy, hes VERY insecure. when we first started dating, all he said to me was how i saved him and pulled him out of his misery because he has had no luck with relationships and was treated like shit by girls his whole life. hes not even that cute and popular, and i have a waaay higher social status in my grade/ school then he does in his grade.. but ive been known to have wierd taste and i can look beyond looks and things like that very easily. i think when we first started dating him i was just excited over the fact that he had a car and he was a junior and i was only a freshmen.. but i actually did end up falling in love with him. and he was COMPLETELY in love with me. we lost our virginities to eachother and ill tell you, im smart, and not at all a bit naiive.. i knew this kid loved me. & we did NOT have a sex based relationship whatsoever.. we became eachothers best friends. both of us lost all of our other friends because we were only with eachother 24-7. he called my mom 'mom' and i did the same with his mom.. we were incredibly close.. and sense he was older, i felt so comftorbal and secure with him, and i went to him with all my problems, and he would help me.. ive been suffering from depression for years and me and my mother never had a good relationship, and my father left me, and i was molested as a baby.. but when i was with him, he made me feel so comftorbal. we told eachother EVERYTHING. and i was postive he was there to stay. he promised me forever every single day. we dated for a year. i messed it up, biggest mistake of my entire life.. he started getting very annoying and up my ass. you know when youre in a bad mood and you just want to be left alone? well he would never leave me alone. he'd be like 'its okay babe i love you' bla bla. all mushy, when i just want to be mad!. i tried talking to him about this many times and all he could say was im sorry i just love you soooo much i cant help it.. all my friends called him whipped cream and everything.. it was BAD. but anyways, one night i was out with my friends the day before a cheer competition, and my ex was there.. and somewhere along the lines, we kissed.. my boyfriends friend was there and told him that if i didnt tell him, he was going to.. i knew he wasnt going to break up with me or anything.. so i told him.. but the thing is.. i think i was looking for a fight with him because our relationship was so boring. when i told him, it pissed me off how he was crying instead of being mad, yelling at me. so i started saying things to make him mad.. i said TERRIBLE things. like i was gonna keep cheating on him because he basically lets me, and how i know i take advantage of him because he trusts me so much but i shouldnt.. and he was like well maybe i have to break up with you then.. and he was like i really dont want to. and i was like fine just do it idont care! yelling at him and stuff.. and then he did. i was thinking we would get back together in a couple weeks.. so after we broke up, we still talked because we obv. still loved eachother and everything. we acted like we were going out, and we even 'hooked up' a few times.. but when he asked me back out, i kept saying no, i wasnt ready.. because the relationship was SOOO akward after we broke up.. he was acting so different. and i knew why. it was because i broke his heart. and i did, bad. so one day after we hooked up, my friend told me that her brother saw my 'boyfriend, x-boyfriend, whatever u wanna call him' at a store.. and he was saying how he was done with me and he was trying to get with this new girl 'leesh'.. i was FURIOUS. i called him up screaming at him asking for all my stuff back and it was over for good and everything. but really, i wanted an appology from him, not my stuff back. btw, i was very remorsful for cheating on him and saying what i said to him, i mustve appologized a million times.. but he didnt say anything, he justgave me all my stuff back and acted like it was nothing.. and then i kept trying to get him back, but he kept rejecting me. i was litterally down on my knees for this kid. until one day i found out he had a girlfriend. not just some girl.. the girl who dates ALL the boys that i date after me.. but thats a whole nother story.. anyways, i was devistated. i couldnt eat, i couldnt talk, i couldnt sleep, i couldnt go to school,, nothing. all i did was cry and cry and cry and cry. i tried talking to him seeing if we could be friends and stuff, but he hates me now. if i send him one text, he shuts his phone off. he goes all different ways in the halls so i dont have to see him in school, he wont even look my way. he saw me practically drown in my own tears and he didnt even care. i wrote him long long letters, i tried everything i could just to be able to talk to him when i need to, so i wouldnt be so hurt about the situation.. now, i have two weeks left of school and im failing 4 classes.. and im an honors student. i DONT fail. its not me. and im grounded because of it, so i cant even go out and try to forget it. its been sense thhe end of february... and still,all i can think about is killing myself.. people say they are heart broken.. but this gives heart broken a new definition. there is litterally a hole in my chest. and i keep getting maaaassive anxiety attacks in class, and i do go to counceling wich is sort of helpful but we mostly talk about my parents.. three days ago, she broke up with him. and he was very upset from what i heard.. he hasnt tried talking to me or anything but i dont know what to do, i want to talk to him but he'll just ignore me.. i love this kid and care about him with my life. today i thought i was going to DIE. it was the last day of school for the seniors. the last time ill EVER see him again. the last time ill ever get to look for him i the halls so i can walk by him.. that was the only time i ever got to see him, and today was my last day. and when i walked by him for the very last time of my life today, he didnt even look at me. it was so painful. he couldnt even have the heart to say bye to me considering im his first love and helll never see me again. i havent been able to stop crying sense i last saw him. i dont even know what to do with my life any more. someone PLEEEEEASE tell me what to do to get him back. ANNYTHING. I AM DESPERATE FOR HELP. we had such a good relationship till i cheated and we Never ever had one fight. but you dont even understand. this kid wouldnt even look at any other girls, deleted all the girls in his phone book, couldnt go an hour without texting me just saying he loved me, couldnt go a day withouth seeing me, brought me flowers randomly, did EVERYTHING for me. how can you love someone so much and go through everything we've been through together, and then just completely shut them out of your life? (link)
Well I know you love him. But its time to let go. Maybe eventually he'll let you back in. But he is doing the same thing you did to him. You need to accept the fact that he didn't want to break up with you at all. You wanted to break up with him. But you hurt him so bad. Think about it the other way around. If it was you...wouldn't that hurt. If it was me, I'd totally cut you out of my life. So just give him some time and he might come back to you. He won't if you keep bugging him. The most you can do is say your sorry. Then that's it. Good luck!


I am an 11-year-old girl. I really like a boy. I want him to go out with me, but i don't know how to make him! help! (link)
Your gonna have to give me more information than that but if you talk to him, that's good. You can't make a guy want to go out with you or like you. Talk to him and make friends then see if he likes you or not. Or would consider going out with you. Good luck.


so when i talk to this guy i like over text..the conversation usually ends before i want it too. cause i run out of things to say.

so what are some way's that i can keep the conversation going without him realizing that i'm trying?? (link)
Its not bad if he realizes your trying to put effort into the conversation. So don't worry about that. Just go with it. You can talk about your week, things you did, something funny that happened earlier. There are so many things to talk about so don't stress. Good luck!


16/f

I'm an extremely sensitive person, but I try to never show my feelings. I don't want to come off as a weak person, but inside I think I am. I get hurt by the smallest things that shouldn't bother me. Usually the things that I get hurt by has to do with my boyfriend. Like, he doesn't say I love you often or he doesn't say things that I need to hear, etc. And this does not help our relationship at all.

I hateee being this way! Does anyone have any tips to becoming emotionally stronger?

Thanks! (link)
I was the same way. I'm not as bad I was before. This could be your boyfriends cause, then just other things add on. If he treats you like this he isn't a good boyfriend. Try talking to him about your feelings. Tell him how you feel. I know this isn't about your boyfriend but in a way it is.

So the things I did to help me was just sit back and think for awhile and relax. I would try to get myself in control and I tried to make myself have a better image. I was mostly sensitive because I cared about what people think of me. I was afraid like, "what if this shirt is too tight" or something of the sort. Like wear clothes that make you feel comfortable and pretty. Ya know? So you won't care that much of what people say because you know you look nice.

So just work with yourself and understand that things you get upset with that are small. Forget about them. They don't matter so why bother with them? Try to find something else to think about when something goes wrong.

And to get your boyfriend to be more sensitive towards you, you need to talk to him. If he doesn't stop, he's not worth it.


this isnt really important at all, just something on my mind..
i've been dating this girl for 3-4 weeks now and we really like each other, a lot! we've liked each other for ages but i only asked her out 3-4 weeks ago. she only had 2 other bf's (she's my first gf) before and the two of them are my friends, but they have no problems with me dating her, because they dont like her anymore. so i've been talking to my gf and my friends seperately. my gf said that she didnt like the other two guys because they never showed her any affection or love or whatever, they just wanted to kiss and that was it. im supposedly really affectionate nd stuff so she said to me that she never felt this way about any other guy before, i feel the same 2 her. anyway i talked to my friends about dating her and both of them said 'i kissed her on our first week dating for like 2 minutes straight' i dont really care, but i dont think that she wants to kiss me yet for some reason. like, she lets me kiss her cheek and forehead and a quick kiss (about 5 secs) on the lips sometimes when were alone, but never a long proper one, you know what i meen? last time we kissed i tried to make it last longer and 'proper' (not just lips) but she sorta pulled away casually(she didn't look offended or anything), but she kissed me again (just lips) like 5 mins later, ha. she wants to make this relationship serious(me too), so could that have something to do with it? but were always hugging and holding hands and whispering 'i love you loads' (nearly every second) :p.so yeah if you understand what im trying to say about the kissing thing with my friend and then me could you please help? it'd be really appreciated :)
ps. i havnt asked her to kiss me yet we just kiss when we feel like its the right time, you know? but my friend ASKED her to kiss him(it was their first one) and she did, for like 2 mins ('proper') heh :p (when i say 'proper' i meen french kissing, at least i think its called that) xD (link)
Give her time. You don't want to rush her into something she doesn't want to do, right? Each relationship is different. Just because she did that with them so fast doesn't mean she is gonna do the same with you. She will eventually. Don't worry. Girls get nervous. If you really want to kiss her 'properly' then ask her how she feels about it and that if she doesn't want to do that yet let her know that you'll be ok with her decision. You sound like a really boyfriend. So I'm sure she will be fine and you will too. Good luck!


i will start from the very start but cut it short
i met this lad at a mates house and apparently he liked me but i started going out with his best mate. for the month or two that i was going out with his mate i called this guy my best friend and was able to tell him everthing.the only thing i couldnt tell him is that i really liked him not his mate.so i split up with my boyfriend but just before i split up with him my best friend(the guy i like) told me that he really wants to get back with his ex. a few days after i split with my boyfriend i let my feeling out about how i liked this guy and we are now going out with eachother. the problem is that i am still thinking about what he said about his ex and how he wants to get back with her. everyday he mentions her or says that he spoke to her and i just get really jealous. i love this guy to peices and would be heartbroken if we split up but how am i supposed to ask him about his ex without sounding like i dont trust him because i do trust him i am just afraid. any help would be appreciated and i am sorry if this is long or confusing but i really do need help thanks x (link)
He apparently wanted to go out with you since he went for you instead of his ex. If he didn't like you I doubt he would be with you right now. Don't worry about his ex, he's with you, he likes you. You can tell him you get a little jealous and he can reassure you that he wants you, not her anymore. I'm happy for you that you got the guy you wanted. :) Good luck and I hope everything goes well.


My crush Kyle I've liked him a little over a year; when I liked him I'd get so nervious, couldn't speak, sweaty....in Dec. he found out/ I told him he “I just wanna be friends.” then I felt so depressed felt nothing ,but hole in my chest...Last month are communtity service group had a yard sale..when he came in the building & I saw him...My heart jumped back into it's previous state (link)
Well we can't exactly read his mind so I can't answer if he likes you or not. I don't think your in love. It's a crush, you like him alot. You get this butterfly feeling in your stomach and your heart jumps when you hear or see him. So you just like him alot, not in love.


I have this best-friend from 6th grade and during the summer we only talked on myspace. Then he started ignoring me and when school started I talked to him and asked him why he ignored me and he said things change people change. I was really upset. I know I should just drop it and forget about him, But he was my best-friend. I've tried to forget about him, but when I finally start he talks to me! I get so mad at him when he talks ot me I just ignore him. I've tried to be his friend tons of times and when I don't want to be his friend because I'm finally done thinking about him ha talks to me! I don't know what to do! I don't know whether he wants to be my friend or not! HELP! (link)
If your tired of his off and on thing then I would just stop. Be his friend but not best friend. Like don't be rude but don't go and be his best friend because he obviously isn't putting any effort into this friendship. If you want to know if your his friend or not, ask him. Ask him why he's acting like this. If he doesn't want to be your friend. You don't need him as a friend. He's not the only person out there. So just go with your other friends. Good luck!


alright so ive been dating this guy adam* for about a year.. and i reallly like him still alot. we are both freshman but he goes to a different school. everything was going good until i met this kid named josh*. hes a junior and he goes to my school. he likes me and is really growing on me. he makes me extremely happy and has no flaws. we have soo much chemistry and we just click on everything. i would be miserable without adam* but i really want to try josh* out. i just dont know what to do. i mean josh* is leaving in 2 years for college and adam* goes to a different school so i never see him either. theres so many things i can go bck and forth with. but i like them both alot. and im stuck. i dont want to write an essay so ill just get to the point. in my situation, what would you choose? my boyfriend adam* or my "soul mate" where everything just seems right..? thanks so much. (link)
This is your call. You choose who you want to be with. If your thinking too much of Josh when your with Adam then it may be time to break it off. But you are really gonna think about it. Who do you feel happier with? Not just that but is Adam a good boyfriend and think about this, if it doesn't work out with Josh, will Adam still be there to take you back? Hopefully you know alot about Josh if you are going after him now. He might not turn out to be the guy your thinking he is. You just need time to sit back and think about this carefully. Ask some people what they think about Josh so it's just not you being all crazy and not seeing some things. I hope this works out for you. Good luck!


I'm 16 years old & I totally suck at befriending guys. All my friends are girls & i dont have one guy friend at all, its that bad. I go to a all-girls school but i do outside school things like church & going out with my girlfriends (sometimes my girlfriends bring guy friends along, but i never end up talking/being friends with the guys). Firstly, I'm too shy to strike up a conversation and secondly I'm quite an awkward person at times so I wouldn't know what to say if we did have a conversation. Also, is there anything else that's preventing me from befriending guys? Thankyou! (link)
I had that problem before except I don't go to an all girl school. That shouldn't stop you from talking to guys though. Lets see, when your friends bring along guys try talking to them or even ask your friend to introduce you to some guys that she knows. I'm shy too but trust me don't be afraid. You aren't shy with your friends right? Act as if you knew them forever. It works for me and now I have lots of guy friends. Some of them were from my friends talking to these other guys that they knew and I ended up talking to them and became friends. Even one came to be a boyfriend because of that. Just be like, "hey I'm _____" Then just talk like you would with your friends. Maybe not mentioning guys and stuff like that but you know, a normal conversation with anybody. You'll be fine when you talk to them so don't stress out or think too much about it when you are talking to them. Good luck!


My teacher rubbed her hand up my leg and I was wondering If that classified as rape or sexual harrasmwnt.We were alone cause I had detention and she sat beside me and did it.She is damn ugly and I told her to get her stinkin paws of a me.I tell my principle and see what'll happen next. (link)
Its not rape but it was sexual harassment. Tell your parents and principle, good luck!


my boyfriend always glinse at girls asses and it piss me off i confront him all the time.he doesnt stare or break his neck or anything but i feel like those eyes should be staring at me. (link)
Its gonna happen, with every guy. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore its just that guys are sick and he is absolutely gonna look at other girls. He has you and that's what he wants but all guys are gonna do that. You could talk to him calmly and tell him to at least try not to look at them so much. Just be glad he isn't staring, its just a glance.


16/f
me and my boyfriend had the most perfect relationship in the world. i mean EVERYTHING was just perfect. he lived next to me so i could always visit him. we could walk to the beach everyday and hang out there every night. our parents were frinds so we always got to see eachother. he was in 3 of my classes at school. we rode the same bus. etc. everything was just great. we have been going out for 6 months. but we had been best friends for 2 years. he told me everything and we were so close. i was hesitant to go out with him because he was a player and had alot of girls at the same time. but i trusted him because he always told me which girls he was with and he was very truthful to me while we were best friends. when we started going out we were so in love and nothing else seemed to matter. everything was amazing. we spent everyday together and texted whenever we couldnt be together. then i think maybe we fell out of the honeymoon stage and the real problems started coming. rumors that he was with other girls, him thinking i was trying to change for him, me being too clingy, him being an asshole. etc. we started fighting all the time. then he sed we needed a break. so we went on a break and ended up breaking up for good. i was so upset and he dodnt seem to care at all. he was being such an asshole to me. then he decided he wanted to make things work. but that he wasnt ready to date me again but he still loved me. so we still acted like we were dating and we werent getting with any other people. so everything was fine, then a few days later he said he couldnt take any of this anymore. it was so out of the blue because we were hanging out literally 5 minutes before he said that and everythig was fine. so we didnt talk for a few days, then he randomly called me a few days later and we acted like nothing had happened and we started talking again. let me just mention that he seems to have extreme moodswings. as in the week before we broke up he was saying that he loved me more than anything and was never going to let me go. well the past week he started short answering me and after i got mad that he didnt believe me about something now he wont talk to me at all. i told him that he treated me like shit and he just said oh. i dont know what i did but he started ignoring me. so after 2 days if not talking i confronted him about it today in a text convo because we couldnt see eachother. he was short answering me so i asked why and he said i duno. i asked wat he was mad about n he sed nuthin. i asked what was on his mind and he said something. so i asked what and he said stuff and he wouldnt tell me what. so i tried to talk to him but all he did was short answer me and say K and mhm. i was trying to get an answer out of him and why he wouldnt tell me what was going on but he wouldnt tell me. he jus said it was something to do with me but that i didnt do anything. i dont know if maybe he feels differently about me or something now. he also has started to not believe me about things people say. i dont know what has happened all of a sudden. he started not trusting me and acting like he doesnt love me at all, more like he doesnt know me. also he is ALWAYS flirting with this girl he used to have a thing with. but she says she is in love with her boyfriend. however, he lives in another state. i dont know what to do, all my friends are telling me to leave him because i am just miserable. he is always flirting with other girls, ignoring me and acting like he doesnt care or love me. but i know that he has problems and i want to stick by him through this, yet he is pushing me away. i love him so much and i just want our relationship to go back to how it was before. i know he is an asshole and i really dont like him right now but i still love him and will always and i want him back so bad. please help me i dont know what to do. (link)
I get what you mean. You miss the way he was, or you thought he was. This happened to me and it sucked so bad. But listen to your friends. They see it from the outside and it looks like crap from there. Your inside and your wanting to go back on how it use to be. If there was a chance you guys ever got back together it probably wouldn't be the same. You guys would probably still argue and fight. If it doesn't work out very good the first time, seconds aren't that much better. In some cases it does but in most, no. He's making you miserable. Sit back and think, do I really deserve this guy? Do I really deserve all of this crap he's putting me through? I doubt you do. There are so many better guys out there, trust me. You'll find one that will really care. This guy just isn't worth it. It might take some time to get over him but you will and you'll be fine. Those memories won't go away and you know that. But now just try to get over him. Go hang out with your friends and go meet some other guys. Try and forget about him. Good luck!


like i have these issues. sometimes i think im ugly sometimes i think im the prettiest girl in the world. ok this might be a weird question but please take me seriously :/
soo like when i go out, pretty much every guy DOES look at me and a lot of them turn around too. but they never wistle or honk at me. like only sometimes.
so like does basically every girl get looked by almost every guy but only the pretty ones are talked too and stuff? because guys never really talk to me unless they know me. but still they check me out and stuff? like the entire year above me in school were fighting about who will ask me to this dance. but is this normal? of course i was proud i guess but then again, doesnt every girl get looked at when theyre out, no matter if they actually look good or not??
like i really dont get it? and please answer my question and dont tell me i shouldnt bother about that kinda stuff because looks arent everything. i already know that :/ and like i mean i have the feeling that every girl thinks theyre pretty because theere friends say so. like most girls in my class think theyre gorgeous but i know this is mean but almost none of them are even near pretty? so like they have to get the impression from somewhere right? so im just wondering am i one of those 'ugly' girls who thinks theyre pretty because guys look at her even tho guys look at EVERYONE? i dont knoww :/ and im really sorry for this question but its really bothering me and i am NOT trying to be offensive :/ thanks :) xxx (link)
Most girls do get looked at. I'm not saying that you're not pretty or anything just most girls do get looked at because lots of guys want to see if they can go and talk to her and see if they can get a girlfriend or something. That's most of the time. Those girls who think they're gorgeous think of themselves to high. You don't want to go and brag about it, first of all because it seems stuck up and annoying. Nobody likes seeing that. Second, it lowers other peoples self esteem. Don't think low of yourself but don't think too high. But all girls do have something good about them, believe it or not, even though they're not the prettiest girl in the world. But yeah guys do look at almost every girl.


Ok. Im trying to burn my friend some songs... but I want the songs to have the meaning of "You should be with me." or "Im the one you need." I have feelings for him, and im putting a few random songs on the CD im making him with that kinda tone. He already knows what to expect, but I just want a few good songs where a girl is professing her love (or like) for a guy, that has a girlfriend or another love in his life.
ANY help would be GREATLY appreciated!
I rate high for good ideas!
-MEJ
Age 18 (link)
Here are some you might like. I don't know what kind of music you like though but hopefully this helps a little.

A Thousand Miles-Vanessa Carlton
Baby it's Fact-Hellogoodbye
Beating Hearts Baby-Head Automatica
Because of you-Ne-yo
Because you live-Jesse McCartney
Change your mind-All American Rejects
Crush-David Archuleta
Fall to Pieces-Avril Lavigne
Here without you-3 Doors Down
Hero-Enrique Iglesias
Hold my hand-New found glory
Invisable-Taylor Swift
Kiss me-New found glory
Love you lately-Daniel Powter
Next to you-Jordin Sparks
Someday we'll know-Mandy Moore
Teardrops on my guitar-Taylor Swift
The Perfect Scene-Mercy Mercedes
Things I'll never say-Avril Lavigne
Truly, Madly, Deeply-Cascada
Whats left of me-Nick Lachey
Girlfriend-Avril Lavigne
Why do I love you-Westlife


What are some songs that show that you care about someone a whole lot? Not in love, but that you really care. I'm trying to find one for my boyfriend. Thanks! (link)
Here are some you might like, I don't know what kind of music you like though. This is alot lol but hopefully I helped.

Hold my Hand-New Found Glory
The Perfect Scene-Mercy Mercedes
Her eyes say yes-Hit the Lights
My life would suck without you-Kelly Clarkson
Truly, Madly, Deeply-Cascada
Check Yes Juliet-We the Kings
Next to you-Jordin Sparks
Mary's Song-Taylor Swift
Contagious-Avril Lavigne
Daydream-Avril Lavigne
Hey Stephen-Taylor Swift
I will be-Avril Lavigne
Fearless-Taylor Swift
Love Story-Taylor Swift
Our Song-Taylor Swift
Forever-Chris Brown
It's gonna be love-Mandy Moore
Your Guardian Angel-Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
A Thousand Miles-Vanessa Carlton
Baby It's Fact-Hellogoodbye
Because of you-Ne-yo
Because you live-Jesse McCartney
Everytime we Touch-Cascada
Fall to Pieces-Avril Lavigne
Hero-Enrique Iglesias
I knew I loved you-Savage Garden
Kiss me-New found glory
Love you Lately-Daniel Powter
Things I'll never say-Avril Lavigne
You found me-Kelly Clarkson


can someone find a free mp3 download online of
"off the rails" by the notwist

thanks!
(link)
If its on youtube, go to youtube.com and copy the url at the top and paste it on here

http://www.zamzar.com/url/

then download it. That's what I use. I hope I helped!




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