like i have these issues. sometimes i think im ugly sometimes i think im the prettiest girl in the world. ok this might be a weird question but please take me seriously :/
soo like when i go out, pretty much every guy DOES look at me and a lot of them turn around too. but they never wistle or honk at me. like only sometimes.
so like does basically every girl get looked by almost every guy but only the pretty ones are talked too and stuff? because guys never really talk to me unless they know me. but still they check me out and stuff? like the entire year above me in school were fighting about who will ask me to this dance. but is this normal? of course i was proud i guess but then again, doesnt every girl get looked at when theyre out, no matter if they actually look good or not??
like i really dont get it? and please answer my question and dont tell me i shouldnt bother about that kinda stuff because looks arent everything. i already know that :/ and like i mean i have the feeling that every girl thinks theyre pretty because theere friends say so. like most girls in my class think theyre gorgeous but i know this is mean but almost none of them are even near pretty? so like they have to get the impression from somewhere right? so im just wondering am i one of those 'ugly' girls who thinks theyre pretty because guys look at her even tho guys look at EVERYONE? i dont knoww :/ and im really sorry for this question but its really bothering me and i am NOT trying to be offensive :/ thanks :) xxx
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? kiran answered Thursday April 9 2009, 7:13 pm: Most girls do get looked at. I'm not saying that you're not pretty or anything just most girls do get looked at because lots of guys want to see if they can go and talk to her and see if they can get a girlfriend or something. That's most of the time. Those girls who think they're gorgeous think of themselves to high. You don't want to go and brag about it, first of all because it seems stuck up and annoying. Nobody likes seeing that. Second, it lowers other peoples self esteem. Don't think low of yourself but don't think too high. But all girls do have something good about them, believe it or not, even though they're not the prettiest girl in the world. But yeah guys do look at almost every girl. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
cuteblondegirl94 answered Thursday April 9 2009, 4:03 pm: I've been wondering the same before,but I've come to a very simple conclusion.
First:those girls have their minds in the clouds.
Second:guys check out every girl because they are looking for a potential girlfriend.
And if a guy already is with a girl,he might cheat on her in near future.I don't know for sure,but let me just say I think most of the guys are idiots.Don't think low of yourself-no matter what other people say or think about you,you need to be comfortable in your own body.And besides,you're not one of those ugly girls.Remember-just be yourself!It's not always what others have on their minds when it comes to us.I've had this issue for years but now that I've concluded that unless I accept myself with all the flaws,I can't expect others to cherish me.
Most of the girls you meet will be like that.So stay strong!lol [ cuteblondegirl94's advice column | Ask cuteblondegirl94 A Question ]
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