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his ex
i will start from the very start but cut it short
i met this lad at a mates house and apparently he liked me but i started going out with his best mate. for the month or two that i was going out with his mate i called this guy my best friend and was able to tell him everthing.the only thing i couldnt tell him is that i really liked him not his mate.so i split up with my boyfriend but just before i split up with him my best friend(the guy i like) told me that he really wants to get back with his ex. a few days after i split with my boyfriend i let my feeling out about how i liked this guy and we are now going out with eachother. the problem is that i am still thinking about what he said about his ex and how he wants to get back with her. everyday he mentions her or says that he spoke to her and i just get really jealous. i love this guy to peices and would be heartbroken if we split up but how am i supposed to ask him about his ex without sounding like i dont trust him because i do trust him i am just afraid. any help would be appreciated and i am sorry if this is long or confusing but i really do need help thanks x
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He apparently wanted to go out with you since he went for you instead of his ex. If he didn't like you I doubt he would be with you right now. Don't worry about his ex, he's with you, he likes you. You can tell him you get a little jealous and he can reassure you that he wants you, not her anymore. I'm happy for you that you got the guy you wanted. :) Good luck and I hope everything goes well.
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awh I think its great that you ended up with the guy you liked orginally,
what you need to do is relax though,he likes YOU he chose to be with you over the ex when you told him how you felt,keep reminding yourself that and dont be parionied dont be pre meditating things and worrying if hes going to leave you and just enjoy being with him.
if he wanted to be with his ex he probably would be already rather then putting you through the pain of saying you liked him then agreeing to go out leading you on and just splitting up with you for the ex that would be horrible and he seems to care about you alot seeing as you tell each other everything and you were great friends before being together.
i honestly think you have nothing to worry about,
but if you are that afraid explain to your boyfriend that he means the world to you and that you trust him completely but you cant help thinking that hes going to leave you for your ex all you really need is reassurance from him that hes not going to leave you and thatd be the response youd get straight away from him im sure. =]
if your really to afraid to ask him yourself get a friend to maybe quiz him about the ex,like get them to say "i thought you really wanted to get back with (insert ex's name here)" and see what his response is.
if he says something like how he does and blah blah well then hes an absolute coward for not coming out and saying that before getting with you because by not telling you would hurt you more,then as hard as it is youl just have to move on,because you deserve better.
hopefully this wont be the case and im sure it wont be either =]
good luck! I hope I helped in any way
<3
Jess
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