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uhh guys..
alright so ive been dating this guy adam* for about a year.. and i reallly like him still alot. we are both freshman but he goes to a different school. everything was going good until i met this kid named josh*. hes a junior and he goes to my school. he likes me and is really growing on me. he makes me extremely happy and has no flaws. we have soo much chemistry and we just click on everything. i would be miserable without adam* but i really want to try josh* out. i just dont know what to do. i mean josh* is leaving in 2 years for college and adam* goes to a different school so i never see him either. theres so many things i can go bck and forth with. but i like them both alot. and im stuck. i dont want to write an essay so ill just get to the point. in my situation, what would you choose? my boyfriend adam* or my "soul mate" where everything just seems right..? thanks so much.
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Well really this depends on how you really feel. it is really hard o date someone that goes to a different school. But it all depends on how close you guys are. but not being able to see eachother a lot isnt a healthy relationship either. =/ But if you like Josh dont worry that he is a junior, most likely you guys wont make it 2 years and if you do then you will work it out and everything will be fine. So if you want ot be with josh tell Adam that you love him but you hate not being able to see him and maybe when you both can drive maybe you could try it again. And try josh out but if you truly love adam then stay with him this is really your decision here and no one can tell you what to do. hope i helped =]
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This is your call. You choose who you want to be with. If your thinking too much of Josh when your with Adam then it may be time to break it off. But you are really gonna think about it. Who do you feel happier with? Not just that but is Adam a good boyfriend and think about this, if it doesn't work out with Josh, will Adam still be there to take you back? Hopefully you know alot about Josh if you are going after him now. He might not turn out to be the guy your thinking he is. You just need time to sit back and think about this carefully. Ask some people what they think about Josh so it's just not you being all crazy and not seeing some things. I hope this works out for you. Good luck!
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I think that you need to think about who makes you the happiest. Even though you don't see Adam a whole lot, are you happy being with him or is Josh on your mind? When you're spending time with Josh, is Adam on your mind? Adam might notice you're distracted, so watch out if you start thinking of Josh more. Break it off if you seem to be desiring Josh. What's good is that at least Adam won't have to see you two holding hands in the hallway if you do go with Josh. Try asking some of your friends... do they think that Josh is a good guy too? What about Adam... is he a good boyfriend, first off, and if he is, then you really just gotta go with who makes you the happiest, and who you think about the most. Hope this helps :)
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