I have this best-friend from 6th grade and during the summer we only talked on myspace. Then he started ignoring me and when school started I talked to him and asked him why he ignored me and he said things change people change. I was really upset. I know I should just drop it and forget about him, But he was my best-friend. I've tried to forget about him, but when I finally start he talks to me! I get so mad at him when he talks ot me I just ignore him. I've tried to be his friend tons of times and when I don't want to be his friend because I'm finally done thinking about him ha talks to me! I don't know what to do! I don't know whether he wants to be my friend or not! HELP!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? kiran answered Thursday April 16 2009, 7:05 pm: If your tired of his off and on thing then I would just stop. Be his friend but not best friend. Like don't be rude but don't go and be his best friend because he obviously isn't putting any effort into this friendship. If you want to know if your his friend or not, ask him. Ask him why he's acting like this. If he doesn't want to be your friend. You don't need him as a friend. He's not the only person out there. So just go with your other friends. Good luck! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
brasil2008 answered Thursday April 16 2009, 6:36 pm: I don't have any personal expeience with friends like this. But my best friend for 6 years has this other friend that is like that.
They are on and off again friends. My best friend was going through a really rough time in her life, and the other friend walked out. What I am trying to say is, he won't always be there.
A friend is a 24/7 thing, not a when i want to be nice I will thing.
If you are willing for him to be your friend some days and then not talking to you others, then go ahead. But think of this, when you are having a rough day, who do you want to be there? your best friend, and a best friend you can always count on. [ brasil2008's advice column | Ask brasil2008 A Question ]
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