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is it "all right" or "alright"? (link)
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Alright is more of an OKay, alright I'll do it.
as in All right is more like, the students did all right on their tests.
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A few days ago, my boyfriend (of over 9 happy months) asked if I love him. I told him I don't know, mostly because I'm 17 and know that I am naive about relationships (he said this was a "smart" answer for a teenage girl). When I asked him how he would have answered if I had asked him first, he said that he wouldn't have answered because he'd be afraid of scaring me away. Does this mean he does love me but didn't want to come on too strong, thinking I might not feel the same? Are there other ways to interpret his answer? (link)
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He loves you!
If he didn't love you he wouldn't be scared to say it and have it scare you away since you have not said it either.
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Well ive been dating this guy for about two months now and on 04/12/09 he told me he loved me and i said it back because i really do love this guy so the next day he said remember when i told you i love you and i said he said why you say it back and i said because i love you real talk and then he said i didnt mean to say it then bt it jus slipped put i jus wanna knw does this mean he loves me 4real or not (link)
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boys boys boys. do they love you or don't they?
If he said it once, he means it. He is scared to admit it, therefore he said he did not mean it. And he is realizing he really does love you, which is a scarry thing for a guy. Wait a couple weeks, see if he says it again. If you love him, tell him. If you really love him it doesn't matter if he tells you he loves you back. It will feel good to say it and that he knows it.
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well i have a lil problem im kinda in the middle of an sffair ,
and i dnt no how to prepair for when wife finds out.....
if eny futher questions please email me at
andreairianda20@yahoo.com
thanks (link)
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I suggest not waiting until she finds out.
either end it with the other girl.
or grow a dick, be a man and tell your wife.
Sad. A grown married man can't take the truth.
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I have this best-friend from 6th grade and during the summer we only talked on myspace. Then he started ignoring me and when school started I talked to him and asked him why he ignored me and he said things change people change. I was really upset. I know I should just drop it and forget about him, But he was my best-friend. I've tried to forget about him, but when I finally start he talks to me! I get so mad at him when he talks ot me I just ignore him. I've tried to be his friend tons of times and when I don't want to be his friend because I'm finally done thinking about him ha talks to me! I don't know what to do! I don't know whether he wants to be my friend or not! HELP! (link)
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I don't have any personal expeience with friends like this. But my best friend for 6 years has this other friend that is like that.
They are on and off again friends. My best friend was going through a really rough time in her life, and the other friend walked out. What I am trying to say is, he won't always be there.
A friend is a 24/7 thing, not a when i want to be nice I will thing.
If you are willing for him to be your friend some days and then not talking to you others, then go ahead. But think of this, when you are having a rough day, who do you want to be there? your best friend, and a best friend you can always count on.
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Okkkk 18/f.
So, me and my best friend (Jonni) were talking about how she was getting some action and how I wasn't... since I haven't been in a relationship for about a year...
And I said "Damn, I need to get laid!" I was sort of kidding and sort of not kidding-- and I am a virgin.
So she and one of my best guy friends (Adam) have been doing some sexual things together... and I know his best friend, lets call him Frank.. and Adam told Jonni that Frank wanted to get laid.
SO, Jonni talked to Adam about getting me and Frank together... and when I got home today, I had a text message from him and we texted for awhile and we decided all four of us were going to hang out Friday night..
And there's a 75% chance that I might be losing my virginity... and I'm terrified because I don't want it to hurt, even though I know it's going to.
So, I have condoms, I'm on birth control... no problems... I'm still pretty scaredd... so any advicee?
Please & Thank You!! (link)
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my only advice is. dont do it because you want to get laid.
You aren't even in a relationship with this guy.
wait until you really love someone and want to be with them. Don't have sex just to get laid, a year from now you will regret losing your virginity to just some guy. I was with the guy I lost my virginity to for one year, and I still regret it because it wasn't a healthy relationship and I should have gotten out before we even had sex.
So think about who you are doing it with before you do it.
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Hello,
I'm a 26-year-old male. I'm 5'5" and weigh 300 pounds. I live at home with my parents and I have no job. My daily activities consist primarily of eating, sleeping and smoking cigars. My hygiene is terrible. I shower maybe twice a week, brush my teeth once a month, don't shave and my wardrobe consists of a t-shirt with food stains, a pair of mesh shorts and sneakers with holes in them.
I wasn't always this way. While I was never Mr. confident, I was able to participate in a variety of activities growing up. As a kid, I took swimming lessons, trumpet lessons and played several hours of basketball a day. In high school, I acted in eighteen theater productions and was a member of the football and bowling teams. I was a good student and upon graduating, I enrolled at the University of Maryland at College Park.
I wasn't overly excited about continuing my education at college, however. I didn't apply to any schools until my father really got on me about it, screaming at the top of his lungs. I guess I wanted to take a year off to consider my options. I also wanted to try my hand at being a professional actor. Though it's a tough business to break into, I know people that did and I was quite good at it. It had become my passion. Looking back, I suppose I should have gotten a part-time job, tried my hand at acting and if need be, go to college later.
Instead, I went to college right away. Despite being part of some high school activities, I am rather shy (ironic, given my ability to perform on stage) and I never really made too many friends. I had some trouble with the roommates I was assigned as well and returned home following my first semester 55 pounds heavier.
I lost the weight when I developed a crush on this girl. The weight loss was unintentional. I just got so nervous thinking about her, I couldn't eat. I allowed this crush to go on too long without making my feelings known. Rather than get to know her better, my mind started imagining what she'd be like (all things I'd like of course!) and so my crush deepened. I was drawn to her confidence, something I lacked. I was so lonely and lost, perhaps I was looking to her to save me.
Needing to pick a major, I chose Marketing. I didn't really know much about it. It's just that the business school was well-respected and I was also steered toward it by my parents as well. The truth is, I didn't know what I wanted to do or be. I was supposed to figure it out those first two years and I never did.
In 2003 I suffered a mental breakdown. Over time, I had become increasingly bitter and angry. I began hating people. Then one day, feeling very angry and lonely, I snapped. I proceeded to fall apart in a very bad way. I began smoking cigarettes and cigars. I stopped going to class, stopped studying. The friends I had abandoned me. And so, it got to a point where I never left my apartment. I ordered food to be delivered three to four times a day, all junk, including a pint of Ben & Jerry's just about every night. I sat on the couch and smoked a pack and a half a day, leaving the butts on the ground outside on the balcony. It got to a point where there were so many cigarette butts on the floor, they doubled as carpeting.
I also developed several phobias, including a germ phobia. I couldn't open doors with my hand. Whenever someone sneezed, I'd hold my breath until I could leave the area. As a kid, I was always a bit obsessive-compulsive (e.g., having to name everything object in the room before I could watch TV) but this breakdown made it all worse.
I was living to die basically. I am not a religious person and so I didn't have religion to hang on to. I began asking why. Why am I here? What is the point? I figured that whatever I do doesn't matter because in the end I will die. Even if I impact someone else's life along the way, in the end, they will die. So, is life simply about packing in as much fun as you can before your time is up? What if you're like me and you no longer enjoy doing things? I wished I was dead. I knew I couldn't take my own life and so I focused on how sad I was that I had been born in the first place.
I beat up a 13-year-old kid who was successfully ripping into me with an onslaught of digs and insults. I was so determined not be bullied, not to take shit from anyone that I lost control. On several occasions, I lashed out at one of my teachers because we didn't see eye to eye.
There was some thought that perhaps my inability to avoid being overcome with this uncontrollable rage might be a result of two concussions that I suffered, one in high school and one in college. It could also explain why my OCD and mild depressive moods that I had as a kid got worse.
(As a kid, I ran away from home a lot and also begged my dad to kill me)
Moving on...
Returning home with a college degree after seven years of going at it, I couldn't land a job. I had a marketing degree but it turns out I didn't really like marketing and my major GPA was terrible anyway. I tried getting a job as a reinsurance accountant because I interned as one and its what my dad does but the lack of an accounting degree proved problematic. Though it's not supposed to factor into their decision, I would not be surprised if my weight also kept me from being hired.
So, here's the thing:
1) I don't know what I can do for a living
2) I don't enjoy very many activities
3) I'm not really interested in the American dream lifestyle
4) I can't afford to see a mental health professional
5) I'm unable to go to crowded places (i.e., the mall, the movies)
6) I'm too afraid to work with strangers
7) I have no friends
8) I'm slowly killing myself with tobacco, over eating and lack of activity
9) I can't let go of the past and stop regretting all of my mistakes
10) I have no work history to put on a resume
11) I've overwhelmed with guilt and feelings of worthlessness
12) I lack something I want, something I can use as motivation
I figure my time is running out. I'll either die from cancer or a heart attack. I certainly allowed myself to have many cavities and receding gums. This may be my last chance.
I need suggestions. I need ideas for what I can do as a start. How do I make a fresh start? Heh, can I give myself amnesia so all the problems go away?
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This might not be the best advice, but here is what I would do. My parents raised me to believe in myself, not care what others think, they always told me "you can be whoever you want to be, you will do great things in life and you will cahnge the world" When I am going through a rough time or have a problem, my dad always tells me "fix it, you can" and he is right. You know what the problems are, it might not seem easy now, but the little steps count. Start taking a shower, it's 5 minutes of your day. Brush your teeth, 2 minutes of your day. I have experienced peoeple with smoking, and to me it is all in the head. Set your mind to it, realize it's not an addiction and you can stop. As you stated, you aren't interested in the American Dream Lifestyle, Maybe you should get your feet on the ground first, and then move. I have visited Germany and Brasil, and as for me, I prefere the american lifestyle, but maybe its not for you, see what else it out there. It seems like you like acting, presue it, don't let your lack of self confidense stop you. Start applying for simple jobs, it doesn't have to be much, it will get you going, give you the opportunity to meet people and you can work your way up from there. You lack something you want, get it. Make your motivation be you. You can do it!
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I'm going to cut my hair soon, but I have no idea how I should cut it.
http://i40.tinypic.com/m8zb61.jpg
That's what I look like.
Any suggestions? I'm open to anything.
16/f (link)
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http://i33.piczo.com/view/4/b/t/k/d/r/z/5/f/u/y/x/img/i312725921_39005_5.jpg
I think a hairstyle similar to this would be cute, leave it a little longer maybe.
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