Member Since: February 18, 2009
Answers: 2
Last Update: May 21, 2009
Visitors: 494
|
| |
|
Me and my "boyfriend" had sex for the first time. He's a big jock and I was really excited that someone was actually interested in me. So when he came over to my house he wanted to have sex and I for some reason agreed to do it with him. Anyway, my period was 4 days late and I was freaking out and my bestfriend told me to take some pregnancy tests. All three of them that I took were positive. I told my "boyfriend" about it and he just laughed and broke up with me. I want to keep the baby, but I don't want to me known as a slut for the rest of my school life because I made one mistake. I don't know what to do. i still have to tell my parents too and they think I've never even have had a boyfriend before. I just need some advise, and please don't say, "your way to young to be having sex" because I already understand this. Thank you! (link)
|
Im not going to tell you that you are too young to have sex, because I for one, don't believe that. I had sex when I was 15, and being as in todays year 2009, It has changed and people are having sex at young ages. Whatever you do, don't get an abortion. My two best friends have ended up pregnant, one of them decided to keep it, later on having a misscariage, and the other decided to get an abortion and after that she went suicidal and almost ended up in a mental hospital. They were both 16 at the time. If you are worried about being known as a slut, you need to realize though some people will think of you like that, but it doesn't mater what others think. You need to make grown up decisions from now on and not care because now its about you and your baby. If you are worried about your parents, most parents will be dissapointed at first, but will be more than willing to help.
Good luck.
|
|
There's this new foreign-exchange student in my Spanish class. He's from Argentina (haha ironic, I know) and is living here with his cousin for three months. When he first came, all the girls flipped out because he's really cute, and the guys talked to him, too. However, now that everyone's used to him, not many kids talk to him. My teacher asked me to strike up some conversations with him because she know I'd be friendly. I also want to be friends with him. I've talked to him almost everyday that he's been here, but it's hard to do. I want to speak to him in Spanish so I can get better, but I don't know what to say! When I talk to him in English though, I feel bad because it's so much harder for him to talk to me in English, and he doesn't know some of the slang. What questions can I ask him without having him feel like I'm prying into his life? (link)
|
I think I am the perfect person to anwser, as for I am on an exchange right now.
We love people talking to us, asking whatever questions they want, we are used to it. I can not believe some of the questions some people have asked me. I like it when people come and talk to me in english, because its my language. But I like it even more when they speak to me in Portuguese because its the language of the country I am in, and I should speak that language. As for what to talk about, teach him the slang, we long knowing the slang of the other countries. Ask him what he does back in Argentina, what he would like to do in your state, what his hobbies are, what he things of your country and school. Talk to him like a human being and not some strange foreigner. Just because he doesn't speak the same language doesn't mean he if different, they like the same things.
Hope I helped.
|
|