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Sort of awkward situation!? HELP!?!
Okkkk 18/f.
So, me and my best friend (Jonni) were talking about how she was getting some action and how I wasn't... since I haven't been in a relationship for about a year...
And I said "Damn, I need to get laid!" I was sort of kidding and sort of not kidding-- and I am a virgin.
So she and one of my best guy friends (Adam) have been doing some sexual things together... and I know his best friend, lets call him Frank.. and Adam told Jonni that Frank wanted to get laid.
SO, Jonni talked to Adam about getting me and Frank together... and when I got home today, I had a text message from him and we texted for awhile and we decided all four of us were going to hang out Friday night..
And there's a 75% chance that I might be losing my virginity... and I'm terrified because I don't want it to hurt, even though I know it's going to.
So, I have condoms, I'm on birth control... no problems... I'm still pretty scaredd... so any advicee?
Please & Thank You!!
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LOL, yeah nothing happened, lmfao. you're comments are pretty hilarious. [:
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"going all the way" is a big step. Yes it may hurt. but eventually you love it. Ask him to go slow since your still a virgin and little nervous. If you really dont want to have sex with him I wouldn't. You may regret it later if your not 100 precent sure now.
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Here's the thing. It may or may not hurt. If you're with someone you care about, the hurt is worth it. If you're with some random guy, the hurt will be all that you remember.
I'm not going to stand here and say that you should wait until marriage. I will stand here and say that you should wait until you decide to have sex with a person that you care deeply about, whether they are "the one" or not.
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You're going to lose your virginity for the sake of losing it?
lolz
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i agree with the person that commented first.. wait
and im not beingbiased here... im avirgin like you too and i want my first tiem to be special.
and that what all my mates tell me.
Although the only thing m gonna say is if your reli up for this... it doesnt always hurt that much apaz =S which tbh i dont understand but whatever lol
oh and btws... please think about what your gonna do... and say n stuff.. like dont lead him on if you dont want sex.. trust me..
and if he tries to force you think about how your gonna say no... if your are ging to say no?
but yeh i really would try and get to know this guy first.. properly... so its special..
not jus because you want to be laid.
Good luck for whatever you do! xXx
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my only advice is. dont do it because you want to get laid.
You aren't even in a relationship with this guy.
wait until you really love someone and want to be with them. Don't have sex just to get laid, a year from now you will regret losing your virginity to just some guy. I was with the guy I lost my virginity to for one year, and I still regret it because it wasn't a healthy relationship and I should have gotten out before we even had sex.
So think about who you are doing it with before you do it.
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