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Does he love me
Well ive been dating this guy for about two months now and on 04/12/09 he told me he loved me and i said it back because i really do love this guy so the next day he said remember when i told you i love you and i said he said why you say it back and i said because i love you real talk and then he said i didnt mean to say it then bt it jus slipped put i jus wanna knw does this mean he loves me 4real or not
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If he said it once, he means it. He is scared to admit it, therefore he said he did not mean it. And he is realizing he really does love you, which is a scarry thing for a guy. Wait a couple weeks, see if he says it again. If you love him, tell him. If you really love him it doesn't matter if he tells you he loves you back. It will feel good to say it and that he knows it.
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I think he's just nervous, and wants to pretend like he doesn't mean it because suddenly he thinks things might change if you know he loves you. He might be nervous, and unsure if he means it. He's probably having after thoughts, but he probably still feels intensely for you. Likely, he does think he loves you. I don't know how old you are, but just keep in mind that "i love you" when you're a teen and "i love you" when you are an adult are both powerful statements, but mean different things. Also, it could have just been an affectionate "I love you," like what you might say to your best friend when you jokingly insult them, and they go "huuh!!! WELL!" and you say "haha I'm just kiiiding, Jamie, I love you." Just think about how he said it, but most likely, he's just having after thoughts.
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When something slips out like that it's called a Freudian slip. A freudian slip occurs when words come out that reflect what that person is feeling. For example, rather than "pass the salt" at dinnertime, someone may accidentally say "I hate you, mother!" According to this logic, yes, he does love you.
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