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this isnt really important at all, just something on my mind..
i've been dating this girl for 3-4 weeks now and we really like each other, a lot! we've liked each other for ages but i only asked her out 3-4 weeks ago. she only had 2 other bf's (she's my first gf) before and the two of them are my friends, but they have no problems with me dating her, because they dont like her anymore. so i've been talking to my gf and my friends seperately. my gf said that she didnt like the other two guys because they never showed her any affection or love or whatever, they just wanted to kiss and that was it. im supposedly really affectionate nd stuff so she said to me that she never felt this way about any other guy before, i feel the same 2 her. anyway i talked to my friends about dating her and both of them said 'i kissed her on our first week dating for like 2 minutes straight' i dont really care, but i dont think that she wants to kiss me yet for some reason. like, she lets me kiss her cheek and forehead and a quick kiss (about 5 secs) on the lips sometimes when were alone, but never a long proper one, you know what i meen? last time we kissed i tried to make it last longer and 'proper' (not just lips) but she sorta pulled away casually(she didn't look offended or anything), but she kissed me again (just lips) like 5 mins later, ha. she wants to make this relationship serious(me too), so could that have something to do with it? but were always hugging and holding hands and whispering 'i love you loads' (nearly every second) :p.so yeah if you understand what im trying to say about the kissing thing with my friend and then me could you please help? it'd be really appreciated :)
ps. i havnt asked her to kiss me yet we just kiss when we feel like its the right time, you know? but my friend ASKED her to kiss him(it was their first one) and she did, for like 2 mins ('proper') heh :p (when i say 'proper' i meen french kissing, at least i think its called that) xD
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Give her time. You don't want to rush her into something she doesn't want to do, right? Each relationship is different. Just because she did that with them so fast doesn't mean she is gonna do the same with you. She will eventually. Don't worry. Girls get nervous. If you really want to kiss her 'properly' then ask her how she feels about it and that if she doesn't want to do that yet let her know that you'll be ok with her decision. You sound like a really boyfriend. So I'm sure she will be fine and you will too. Good luck!
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Well, I think the way your girlfriend is being towards you regarding the kissing--or lack there of, is absolutely normal. This is a new relationship. Keep that in mind. Although she may have done different things with your friends at different time--that doesn't mean that is what is best for the two of you. Every relationship is different, and you can't compare the two. It is often that when we really like someone, we become shy--even when we normally wouldn't be. That may the case with your girlfriend. She probably wants to take things a little more slowly with you because she cares and wants it to work out for the best. Be patient with her, and let thigs come naturally. In time everything will fall into place and you'll 'properly' kiss all you want! :)
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