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I'm 16 years old and a junior in high school. I like giving advice so feel free to ask me any questions. Everybody has been through different situations and I could try and help you by what I've gone through. Ask away :)
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Thank you very much for your kind answer. :)

thank you so much

wow that would have been sucky :/ glad u got threw it tho! thanks! XD

Thanks!

Thanks soo much! This really helped. I'm gonna talk to him next time I see him

Thank you at least i'm not alone(:

Thank you for your advice. I don't know what to do about the compelling feeling thats drawing me to Kevin though. If I never knew Kevin, I would be more happy with Qua'Nell. But Kevin has attributes about his personality that isn't like any other guy I know and I am very attracted to that. With Qua'Nell,.. I like him because he's sweet and I'm comfortable with him and we can talk about anything and we laugh together; because of the way our friendship was before the romantic relationship. But when I think about my relationship with him I feel like something is lacking. Kevin is intellectual and intriguing and he has had an anxiety condition, like myself, which he has gotten over by now; but he understands what its like from first-hand experience. He likes music I like, and he has more refined interests and appreciation for things with depth as opposed to the more superficial. He is wise, and knowledgable, and knows what its like to feel different, as I do, and I feel like there is a meaningful connection between us. I feel like it's something I have to resolve because I won't be able to fully love anyone else until I have gotten to actually spend time with Kevin; that way I will know what it was like and no longer have to be stuck in a "what if" type state. My heart can't relax until I know for sure that we will work out or not. Aaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ...lol

Thankyou. I will do that

thank you so much for what you wrote. I will find a friend that I think I can trust and try that first, then maybe once I have actually said all of this out loud to somebody my own age I can go to an adult.

thanks he is answering me now and we might be bf and gf thank you he said we might today.

thanks. that was great advice!

thx

thanks

thank you! ur comment made me feel better<3

i guess.

yeah thats what i was thinking too, thanks so much i really appreciate it! <3

thank you!

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thanks!!

Thank you! I hope it works out too...it's hard to figure out fully how I feel

You are right.I'll just let her be,and as for him,I'll just keep it as friends.Thanks for the advice!

Thank you!!! =]

thanks! that was a great answer. ya, it's pretty lame how you think you can trust someone, but you end up not being able to =/ oh well. thanks for the adivce!

thanks!

thanks i actually did start talk to him and he is nice we just dont have big long conversations usually hey and a smile

Sounds cute! Thanks a bunch! =]

Thanks so much. (:

thanks :)

thank you:)

wow. you're good at this advice thing(= thanks a million!

thanks! he and i are going to go see a movie tonight =]

Thanks :)

thank you!!!

thats very true. thanks!!

THANKSSSS :) & H3 K33PS ASKiNG M3 iF i'M MAD AT HiM :( BUT Y0U H3LP3D A L0TTT ! :)

you rock. thanks

thanks lotsss

Thanks. I do try to talk to him a lot. And word is that he does have a gf. So I guess a friend stage will be fine ^_^

Thanks

thanks :)

Thanks! I pretty much did this, and he didn't care :D He was a bit annoyed at the guy, but he wasn't that annoyed because I don't have feelings for this other guy. The worst he did was say "I'll come next time so he doesn't touch you" win - win :D

oook thanks! n shes almost as stubborn as me lol

Thanks! Good advice!

thanksss

thank you :]

The taunting doesn't bother me...not anymore anyway. I'm a really confident person. It just used to bother me because I knew that I was right, but so many people said I was wrong you know? Makes you wonder who the fools are. But not anymore xD! All good here, I plan on trying it out. So thanks for taking the time to help me out! I really appreciate it!

Yeah, you are right, because even for those who believe in reincarnation and past lives, those lives would still be completely separate from this one, because you wouldn't remember them. We are in a bubble so to speak, but I feel so inclined to break that bubble. Life just seems so grand, but to me death seems equally grand because of what it may hold. I think that's also why people are afraid of things. I have a theory that all fears are linked to death because we don't know what lies in death. Say you fear heights, its because you fear falling and what would happen if you fell and died. But anyways I'm getting carried away here. It's a good think I'm 15 and still have 85 more years to find answers to these questions. Thank you for your help!

thanks for the input

thanks

thanks a lot=]

Thanks for the help

i already knew all that i just need help

thanks

Thanks for the advice :) Those are some good ideas

Thank you so much! you are so kind, i will never forget your advice! Yes, "tons of guys out there" now i feel that life is wonderful!!

Thank you. Any ideas for how to go for it? I'm clueless because again I want to start out by being friends first, but asking a 20+ year old man to go to the movies or to help me study sounds a little sudden.

thank you =]

we're really good friends but im still to afraid to straight out tell him i wouldn't be able to do that..what do i do?

yea i talked to him and he admitted it and said he really wasnt into it yet so we broke up and all last night he blowed my phone up from 12 at night til 6 in the morning apologizing and ask for me back

thankyou so much

thank you

thanks!! :}

thank you, actually he brought it up just yesterday how we should go check out another place out soon :)

THANKS. =]

well it is like after he leaves want me and him did\talk doesnt seem so magically i cause u can say

Okay. Ill tell her about it. Thankss SO much.

k thanx! :)

THANK you so much; your the best' & i [really] do mean that thank you again <3

thanks!

thanks:)

Thanks

WOW THANKS SO MUCH THAT WAS A HUGE HELP!!! ALOT OF THOSE THiNGS i DiDNT THiNK OF.

Thanks =] great help =]]]]

thanks

thanks!!!!

thnx..just ive tried everything and he jus annit going of my mind x x but thanks youve helped loads x

I will try your advice. It seems like a good idea and I hope it works!

thank you

thanks so much. i guess i left out that one of the kids ive known for long i kinda have a thing for him. but thats okay you really helped.

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good answer

k thanks.

Thank you for your answer. I will try and be patient. I usually am. She is just so rude to everyone. Causes lots of tension. Thanks for you time, I appreciate it.

uhhhhhhhhhh wat, i cant understand wat you put down.

ok!tnx. Ü

thanks :)

thanks but dont u think it would be a great relationship...he could come to my house all he wants and we could bond alot...

She isn't too flirty from what I have heard, so I'm not too worried anymore. Thankyou so much!

thanks you really help me

Thanks, that really helped. I'm just going to stop talking to him during the break, &see what happens after.

Lol. Yeah, I think that might be it. He does kinda act like hes a lot younger than he is sometimes, and sometimes he's really sweet. Well, thanks!

haha! yeah I get what you're saying..but I don't eat lunch with him I just have lunch with him..as in we have the same lunch..he sits like 2 tables away from me

Thank you!

thanks!! it was good advice haha but i should have told u im only 13! but thankss!!!! =]]

ok thx!!

thx you have some really good and helpful ideas i will prob. buy him chocolate's much appreciated

ok

thank you =)

thank you

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