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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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I just started Junior High, (Catholic school) and I know everyone. But the thing is, I can't stand all the homework they give us. Today was my second day, and they gave us homework in at least half of our subjects. It took me 3 hrs just to do it! And between cheerleading for 2 hrs after school, and the homework. i just can't take it! And I try to stay focused, because my main goal is the honor roll this year-but in most of my classes, i have to sit next or across from all the girls I HATE. They are such bitches. What should I do? Any tips? If anyone wants to screw around with their answer, it will be an automatic 1.

well theres no way you can really make your teachers cut down on the hw they give you, so its your job to make time for everything. If your grades suffer, you should drop out of cheerleading for a while...and to get hw done faster, try doing it with a friend each day after school/practice...she can do half and you do half...and copy each other.

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I really like this guy named Zach. Zach is my best friends older brother. I am in 9th grade and he is in 12th grade. I really like him. He always gives me hugs becuase like he thinks of me as his little freshman friend. I want to go out with Zach, but I don't know how to ask. I know people are reading this saying "Ask him out..." It is not that easy, if he says know I will be imbaressed and I doubt he will want to go out with a freshman. What are some ways I can let him know I like him, not just telling him tho, LOL!!

Thank youuu!

Kayla ♥ ♥ ♥

you could talk to a friend of yours that is also friends with him, and get them to drop him hints that you like him....but make sure if you check if he already has a girl...becaues he might have a girl in the same grade as him already and you dont want to get beef with her

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Hi I have had my nose ring pierced for about a month now and a little bump has just developed next to it. Any advice on what to do or what not to do? What happens if I popped it once the other day? My nose is not sore or anything its just like an annoying little bump.

yeah that happend to me once when i didnt bother to clean my nose for like two weeks...i took my nose stud out, rubbed it with the renu lotion thing(actually for contact lense)and then I kept pinching the bump and lil blood comes out, and then you clean it with rubbing alcohol and it gets better within a day and then you can put your ring back in

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hey all i have been thinking about getting my nose pierced, but i would first like to learn about it. just the basic stuff like if it hurts, is it hard to take care of, is it often irritating, is the piercing dangerous, about how much would it cost, and any other useful information you would like to share. thanks!

it doesnt hurt much, its not irritating..and an infection is not very common unless you touch it constantly.I got it done for about 60$ but I bet you can find a cheaper place than that....just make sure you dont get it caught when you wipe your face with a towel...that hurts

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Hi im 18 and my boyfriend and i have been goin out for 2 years. Yesterday on our date he started talking about havin sex. I think he was pretty sure on having sex but im not sure if im to young. Am i to young or can i have sex with him?

signed- confussed

Well each person is different depending on age, matureness, religion, morals...and all. If you think you're ready and have absolutely no doubt in your mind about your relationship...then I guess you can if you like. But if you think you're too young or are not ready/want to wait till after marriage, then there is NO reason at all for you to do this. I recommend waiting till after marriage, but thats just because of my upbringing/culture

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Hey everyone!!! K does anyone know any really great sites with things you can put in your AiM profiles && use as away messages? Please tell me any you know!

Thanks in advance!! ill rate!

coolquotes.com

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I know this is dumb but in doing a report on the 90's and i need some disney or nick tv shows that were in the 90's

sister sister, mickey mouse show, are you afraid of the dark, real monsters, rugrats, all that, clarissa explains it all

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I was thinking about joining Drama Club this year and I was wondering if any of you liked it?? I'm kind of shy and I’m hoping this will help me to become more outgoing. In Drama Club you don't have to act at all right?? You can just do "behind the scene" stuff right?? Well tell me what you think about Drama Club. Thanks alot. I rate 5's!
~sarah

yeah drama club is fun ...improve skits are a lil scary @ first but then you get use to it oh and everytime you're on stage..you're pretty much center of attention which is fun

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i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways?

get help from a therapist or counselor..talk to your parents about it

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Hey I was just wondering which would be better for health reasons: eyebrow, nose, bellybutton or lip piercing? thx

i think nose is best...its not too extreme and doesnt realy get in the way of anything(and you have the least chances of getting an infection)

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well today is this guys birthday... well weve not been dating or going out, but were like a couple... so i need to get a card... but what should i write on the inside?? please help!!

get him a card you would get for a close friend but then you can write something special inside such as "i'm really happy your in my life" lol something like that

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Okay, I'm getting braces in a couple of months, and I was wondering how they would feel. Can anyone tell me what they're like, and what to expect?

they're alright...but it really hurts when you get them tightened each month

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okay i want to get my belly button pierced. and i hear it hurts so bad! like really bad. and i was just wondering if thats like really true and if someone could like give me hints on to make it not hurt like breathing techniques or something to make it hurt less.

I've talked to alot of ppl who've gotten it done and they say the pain is not much worse than getting your ears pierced although if it get infected, it hurts alot.

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Hi, I was wondering what the buddhist bible was called... I've searched on Google but it doesn't come up... please help me I really want to read it!

There is no holy book in buddhist but the rules of buddhism are written in scriptures after his death. I beleive the scriptures of Tripitaka is the longest set of rules, and it's been put in over 100 volumes. There are a couple more scripture sets...and some of them just explain the 8 fold path deeply.

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Hey
I was wondering..today i ran the mile in 8:47 minutes today. Do u think that is goos, bad or average? just wonderin because our coach didnt tell us. thanks! xoxo

thats pretty good and its avergae i think. haha better than i could ever do and no im not overweight

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My sister is coming to visit me from out of town. She has 2 kids ages 1 and 3. I don't have kids of my own and am a single guy, which means I know nothing about having little kids around the house. Can someone maybe give me some tips on what I might need to do to childproof my house before they get here? I don't want my nephews getting hurt!

dont leave out small items anywhere...if you dont want the kids in a room, just close the door and most likely they wont be able to open it by themselves. keep medicines & other dangerous liquids/pills out of reach....*

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I am starting high school this year. My mom told me she was in FHA club when she was in school. What other kinds of clubs are there? Does anybody belong to one that would be fun for me to try? I am a girl.

I was in leo club, mesa, msa, writers club, key club, deca, goal , minority club...there are sooo many options...you'll prob hear about them in the announcements each week

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I am 15 my bf is 16. I know he doesn't have a lot of money and I was wondering, do you think it is OK if I offer to pay sometimes? I don't want to hurt his feelings or make him mad. Should I ask him about it?

yea sometimes when you go out...you can be like.."tonights my treat" you know? but dont be like.."yeah i think i should pay tonight" it just sounds weird. I think its cute if you guys act more like friends then a couple....it'll make your "bond" stronger

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My brother is getting married next month. He lives in Washington and we have to fly there for the wedding. I am scared to death to fly and I really don't even want to go if I have to. Should I say something to my parents? Should I just go and hope it doesn't crash? HELP!

think of it this way...the day you're suppose to die...nothing can stop it...not even if you stay in bed all day with all your doors locked...and planes don't crash often at all...its very unlikely for a plane to crash now a days. it's more likely for you to get into a car crash then a plane crash

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What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"?

a bestfriend is someone who you have that connection with on almost all topics i think....not meaning you agree on everything but you guys can talk about everything without bitching @ eachother....and you have a special spot for her in heart...she sticks out from the rest i guess

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