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Hey everyone, my name is Kevin. I'm just another guy trying to live this race called life.

Danielle:we've known each other for a while now. She's an awesome friend and advice giver. so check out her column at Jealousyxo.


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do you have to be a certain age to buy them?
i live in VA

No. I live in VA also and there is no certain age that you have to be to buy them.

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Starting next week, I'll only have four weeks let of school. This girl I like, "B", is a senior, and also a good friend. She knows I like her.

Anyhows, I need some ideas for how to make these last four weeks of high school for B memorable. Not only for her, but also for my other senior friends, and my friend who's in the same grade as me, but he's moving. Mostly for B. :)

Thanks,

-Fyce

PS: I rate high!

I'm in my last year in high school. Like you, I want to make it memorable. I'm not sure if you are able to do this but I am running for prom king. So if you could do that everyone would definitely remember you. If you don't like that then you could through a big party for all of your friends to come. Or if you don't like parties you could just have a simple gathering for your friends.

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18/f
K guys here's my question. WHAT DO YOU WANT?!? And how is a girl supposed to be able to tell if you like her? What types of things do you do to show that you are romantically interested in her as opposed to if you are just friendly. What do you do to flirt with girls that you like? And final question what to you look for in a girl for a real relationship?

I want a girl who (this also answers your last question)
-isn't afraid to be herself
-is fun to hang out with
-has a since of humor
-easy to talk to
-keeps herself up

If I like a girl I will treat her better than the rest of the girls. I'll pay more attention to her, be nicer to her, etc.

If I'm romantically into her I will
-smile at her more
-stare at her every once in a while
-get her something for her birthday and/or special holidays
-talk to her more
-tell her that I like her

If I'm just being friendly I'll
-say hey to her
-wave at her when I see her

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ok so there is this girl and we used to be bestfriends and we grew apart and i didnt want to be her friend anymore and not becaise shes mean but just because it wasnt fun anymore anyway so i was trying to just seperate myself from her and so i moved lunch tables didnt invite her over but she moved to my lunch shes been inviting me over a lot and i just dont no what to do i refuse to tell her that we grew apart so dont put thatttt hope you can help

The only way she will know is through communication. If you don't want to tell her in person you can write her a note, email her, IM her, mail it to her, etc. But its not right for you to just try to push her out of your life without even letting her know whats going on.

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i like this guy and we're friends, but i dont know if he likes me. i dont really want to tell him how i feel because im still a little confused about it. so does playing hard to get work? that way i pretend he doesnt mean anything to me and maybe i can see if he misses me, or notices that we dont see eachother. what else can i do???

No I don't think you should play hard to get. Playing hard to get doesn't work on me. But every guy is different. Some like the thrill of chasing after a girl and others take that as a sign that they need to move on. I think if you want him to know you like him then you should tell him through your actions. Flirt with him and treat him a little better than what you have been doing before.

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what do you do with ya tounge when like reallly kissing ?cause i have madeout without tounge but then my "friend" stuck his tounge in my mouth and whatever idc but i just felt stupid because i didnt know what to do with mine..soo can someone help me before the weekend?? thanks so muchh..

Step 1: Start kissing like normal.
Step 2: Get a little more passionate with the kiss.
Step 3: Gently place your tongue in his mouth.
Step 4: Move your tongue around where it is touching his.
Step 5: Enjoy it and don't think to much.

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My friend is running for 2008 class President and we need some poster ideas like right now so um please help and i'll rate high

we need something cute like one of those priceless commercials but not actually like that haha sorry its confusing..

Thanks a bunch

I'm running for prom king. So I'm sort of going through the same thing. This is what I'm doing.
-put posters of myself with catchy slogans
-put posters of my school mascot
-put lots of catchy decorations on the poster
-hand out flyers
-laminate your posters

The MOST IMPORTANT thing is to have a dependable team.
example
my sister-does all of the decorations
my ex-gf- make shirts that says "Vote for Kev" and other slogans on them
my friends-get the word out that I make the best prom king
And their are a lot of other positions that you need to make sure are taken care of. If you have a good team then that makes your chances of winning much higher.

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see, every month, I get a new guy telling me he loves me, wants me, and needs me. But it's never the guy I want. I seem to be very attractive to lots of guys, but never to the ones I find attractive. So I've been told about books like "CATCH HIM AND KEEP HIM" "THE RULES" "GET THE GUY" "WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES" and so on, books on how to get THE guy. And I'm considering buying one, so my question is, has anyone ever bought a book like this? was it good/easy to understand? did it give you specifik tips on what to do? did they work if you tried them? Just anything you can tell me about it and what book it was. Thaaank yooouu! ♥

No matter how many books you buy you can't make anyone like you.

If you like the guy then show him and tell him you like him. Treat him a little better than the rest of the guys. If he likes you then he will probably do the same. But if he doesn't then unfortunately you just have to move on.

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ok... yea.. i have this friend that i like alot and he knows that i do adn i was told that he said that he dont like anyone at the moment but when ever we go out to lunch and stuff cuz z group of friends and me go out to lunch from school, he like sits next to me and it seems like he flirts with me and stuff.... adn i like him alot but i dont know if he likes me and i want to go out with him.. so what should i do??? by the way im 16 adn female

He might like you or he may like teasing you. If he really likes you he will treat you better than the rest of the girls. If he already does that, then I think he likes you.

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Im a 16 year old boy who doesn't want sex....at all i have a girlfriend and i guess she expects me to be perverted maybe because her other boy friends were. Im a virgin shes not.She be offering me oral sex but i don't want it.then she calls me gay and all these other homo names.

I was raised on not being able to see people kiss at all if i said sex i was slapped,and i never seen a womans vagina ((Porn)) until i was 15 and I gagged when i seen it.Is this normal? am I gay?

It's a little unusual but your not gay.

If you were gay you would get more pleasure from guys than you would with girls.

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what are some good ideas?

My mom wants jewlrey, perfume, lotion, and/or body wash. So yours might like the same.

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My teacher at school really gets on my nerves. For one thing he always asks me why I'm late to class when there always the same kids that are late before me, so why doesn't he harass them. Also, my boyfriend walked me to class and I gave him a hug. As you can guess he was all over me on that to. I see people doing a lot worse than that at my school. If anyone can tell me how to get this guy off my ass it will be much appreciated. for any advice I'll rate. Please hep me!!!

If you want him to stop what hes doing then you should stop giving him a reason to.
Examples:
-don't be late to class
-don't hug your boyfriend infront of him

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how do i get my crush to stop crossing my mind every other second, litterally. its distracting me from my social, and school life. i know things wouldnt work out and bla blah but i just need to know HOW TO GET HIM OFF MY MIND??! its taking over my life. thanks.

Occupy your time with whatever you like to do.

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Hey. I need serious help.

ok lately I've noticed that I been eating only when I feel bored and not when I'm really hungry. I'm really scared because I've also gained weight, not alot only 2-3 lbs( im not fat),and I just want to know how can I stop this habit before it gets out of control and I turn overweight or something?

Please help me I rate fives and recommend.

thank you

Occupy your time.
-hang out with friends
-play games
-talk on the phone
-play sports
-go on the computer
-watch television
-read

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hello i am new to this system so help me i am having problems with my girlfriend we have been together for 2years and 1month and im her first b.f, it all started when her best friend manipulated me into having sex with her after i cheated on my gf i swore and made a promise saying nothing will ever happen like that again, and its been the truth now all she wants is to argue she bafrely talks to me right now she asked for a break for no reason and she likes to hang out with her friends more even though she has been the best thing in my life and still is i want anyones opinion i really need help to figure her out!!!

I've kind of been in your situation.
First you should try talking to her.

If that doesn't work then I think you two should have a break. A break doesn't mean you are breaking up, it just means that youll are giving each other some time to figure out things. Sometimes when you are to close to someone that can be a burden on the relationship.

That's what me and my girlfriend are doing and I think its helping. Because we are coming to understand and comprehend more where we stand with each other.

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i have some anger issues and i cant help but take it out on the guy i like and i think this is why hes not asking me out..do u have any adivce on how to control it?


ps 14/f

Take it out on something not someone.
-write your feelings down in a notebook
-get a stressball
-read a book
-tak a jug or walk
-conversate with a friend
Whatever you do don't try to hold it in. Its just going to come out later.

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I have a grade 6 talent show coming up, and tryouts are tomorrow, i don't know what I should do! I stink at dancing and all my cd's have the voice on them, so i can't sing. What should I do?

Recite or act out a poem.

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Lately me & my boyfriend have been having alot of fights. I dont want to break up with him because I love him heaps & I dont want to lose him. But he has been acting like he doesnt care & everything. Just want someone to help me get through this before I do something wrong. What should I do?

The best thing to do is to talk to him. Tell him everything you feel.

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you know that song.."ive got sunshine on a cloudy day" and then its all MY GIRL my girl my girl.

WHO SINGS THIS?
:]

The Temptations.

This is their official website.
http://www.thetemptations.com/

This is a website for the lyrics.
http://www.lyrics007.com/The%20Temptations%20Lyrics/My%20Girl%20Lyrics.html

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My Bestest-bestest-bestest friend since she was born. I'm a couple of months older so it's cool to have her as my bestest-bestest-bestest friend. She sometimes makes me feel bad. I weigh more but i'm taller and older and smarter, not to be mean or anything. But I think she lies to me, because every single time i have a crush or BF that she knows she says that they usta lik her, she also thinks that Im a girl-girl-goody-good-2-shoes!

P.S. Is my friend lieing , or even is she a good friend at all!

Help Me Please!

She might be telling the truth. You should just ask the guy that you like if it is true or not.

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