My teacher at school really gets on my nerves. For one thing he always asks me why I'm late to class when there always the same kids that are late before me, so why doesn't he harass them. Also, my boyfriend walked me to class and I gave him a hug. As you can guess he was all over me on that to. I see people doing a lot worse than that at my school. If anyone can tell me how to get this guy off my ass it will be much appreciated. for any advice I'll rate. Please hep me!!!
LadyGoodman answered Thursday May 4 2006, 7:50 pm: Wait, I'm a little confused. If there are people who are late to class BEFORE you, as in they get there before you do, how would you even know whether he gives them shit? You weren't there to see it, is what you implied. If I misread that, then you should have written it a bit more clearly.
He harrasses you because it's really not that hard to be on time to class. Maybe I'm a square, but why don't you just make it easier for the both of you and come to class on time? I know that's not what you want to hear, and you'll probably give me a 1, boo hoo. But it's kind of stupid to bitch and moan about someone pulling your chain when you could so easily fix it yourself. You're just too stubborn to admit you could help change this because you want control over that teacher. Trust me, that teacher has been through more than you could ever imagine at your age (or mine) and is smarter than you think. Why don't you just give the poor guy the benefit of the doubt, stop being a snotty nosed little brat, and go to class on time? Maybe he'd be able to respect you and your little boy toy's huggy time a bit more if you showed him a bit of respect back. :) [ LadyGoodman's advice column | Ask LadyGoodman A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Thursday May 4 2006, 7:41 pm: You want to know how to get a teacher to stop bugging you?
Stop being late to class for one thing. Sure, maybe he doesn't bug the other students who are late, but that's no reason to be upset and to continue being late. You are suppose to worry about you, not the other students who are late. Theres no reason why you should be late constantly. Just worry about yourself and get to class on time.
Give your boyfriend a hug where you teacher can't see you or just don't hug at all. I understand that you may really love your boyfriend, but hugs can wait for after and before school. Education has to be more important than a boyfriend through out school even if you don't like school, but what kid does anyway?
The reason you hate your teacher is because he calls you on actions that he is suppose to and you get caught. Which is a pretty immature way to get mad at a teacher. I don't mean to come down on you so hard, but you have to realize that you have to earn respect from your teacher by getting in your work, doing what they ask, and being on time to their class. When you don't show up on time, they just think that you aren't taking their class very seriously. Your teacher doesn't hate you, he just feels like you aren't having very much respect for his class.
iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Thursday May 4 2006, 7:22 pm: People do this all the time. They're late and then they get mad because the teacher doesn't get mad at everyone else who's late. Most teachers have so many kids that at times its overwelming, you don't remember names, whos case you've got onto etc. But if you really hate it that much, I suggest you stop being late. And yes, if a teacher sees you hugging your boyfriend (something thats cute, but not totally necessary), they'll get on your case because they're assuming thats why you're always late. I'm not saying to be mean or anything but honestly, don't be late and he'll get off your case.
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