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bff or not
ok so there is this girl and we used to be bestfriends and we grew apart and i didnt want to be her friend anymore and not becaise shes mean but just because it wasnt fun anymore anyway so i was trying to just seperate myself from her and so i moved lunch tables didnt invite her over but she moved to my lunch shes been inviting me over a lot and i just dont no what to do i refuse to tell her that we grew apart so dont put thatttt hope you can help
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The only way she will know is through communication. If you don't want to tell her in person you can write her a note, email her, IM her, mail it to her, etc. But its not right for you to just try to push her out of your life without even letting her know whats going on.
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It's kind of rude of you how you just pushed her away and just stoped talking to her. She doesn't even have an explanation on what's going on and you're being mean about it. If you don't want to sit with her or be her friend you need to tell her. If you're not going to then don't complain when she keeps asking you to sit with her. I know this isn't the answer you wanted to hear but I don't care. You need to stop being selfish and be nice because she doesn't deserve to be treated bad.
EDIT-Sorry that you can't really handle the truth. =)
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Ok if I were you, I wouldn't just try isolating yourself from her. A lot of friends can grow apart, but don't try to end the friendship completely just because you feel like it's growing apart.
Besides, when you seperate from someone and they are trying to put you back in their life, isn't that saying something right there? Maybe your friend is starting to notice the friendship is starting to grow apart too and she's trying to save it.
You can still have this girl as your friend while having other friends. Don't just suddenly not sit by her at lunch and ditch her. By doing that, you are leaving her with no explaination and she will eventually catch on that you are avoiding her. So whether you want to or not, you will have to tell her that you don't want to be her friend anymore if you are going to do this again.
-TheTeenGirl
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i'm guessing you juss don't wanna say "hey we shouldn't be friends anymore". i guess the best thing would be is to ignore her if you don't want to be honest. flat out ignore her. if she talks to her, you can either tell her why you don't want to talk to her (this might be better) er juss don't talk to her & see if she takes the hint. i guess you can call it the silent treatment & eventually she'll juss get mad at you & leave you alone. if you don't want her mad at you, you can basically juss say you don't want to be friends with her anymore.
-hope that helped!♥
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