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I'm Kaylee, I'm fourteen but many people say I act older then I really am. People say I'm high maintence, I have no clue why they would ever think that! =P I have some people in my life right now that mean a lot to me and I would do anything for them. I love to give advice so send your questions to my inbox. ♥
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one time me and this boy I liked were one on one
at my house on my trampoline.
He said " you used to like me didnt you?"
and Im like "yeah" [which was akward enough]
then he said " i used to like you "
2 seconds later , he says " just kidding"
whats the deal?
sounds like a total dick to me.
i think you should stay away from him!
hi I'm a freshman in highschool and my mom just told me that I need braces I don't want to have braces!. I already have acne and need glaces I'm gonna look like a total geek. I don't know what to do. Is there anyway how I can fix my teeth without using braces?. Is there any invisable one?. Any ideas. Please.
hunn, don't sweat it you can fix your problem without spending too much extra money. you can get invisible braces you just have to talk to your dentist about it. they are more expensive and you have to take them out when you eat, so if you dont want to take them off at school at lunch you might want to stick to regular braces. braces really arnt that bad and you can get a color that isnt so noticeable like light pink or just stick with silver.
as for the glasses.. glasses arnt that geeky these days. more people are getting them and if you get pretty ones they actually look good. you could get contacts i think they are worth it. you can get the ones that change your eye color they are really pretty like if you have brown hair you could get blue ones and if you have blondish hair get emerald green or light brown, it would look really pretty. =)
lastly the acne. ive been going through the acne part to so i know how you feel. you need to wash your face atleast 2 times a day. you should try pro activ, i havent had a chance to buy it yet but ive heard it really works.
if you have any more quesions feel free to ask!!
Well I was thinking about being a gothic girl for holloween. But since my mom doesn't like holloween she won't buy me a gothic costume. Any ideas what I could wear?. It has to be like things that I could get at home because I have no money thanks!
i was a gothic girl last year and i looked fabb. and i didnt even need to really buy anything! okay for the shirt, just a black shirt kinda baggy and it can be long sleeved or short, whatever. for pants just baggy black pants with chains. for shoes, black boots or black sneakers. jewelry - anything like a black choker or a necklace with a skull on it. for the makeup, thick dark black eyeliner and black lipstick. for the hair leave it down and you can get the black wash out hair dye for $3 at any halloween store. just go on www.hottopic.com to get ideas for clothes. you can contact my inbox for any more questions if you're undecided about something! (=
Is it normal for a girl to get dry blood in her period? Cause my friend did and she wants to know if it is okay.
yeah, its okay. it probably dried up because it was in her underwear for so long. nothing to worry about!
He's a junior, i'm a sophomore. Yeah, he's a nice guy...not anything like a jerk, alcohol, or smoker. We don't really talk to him that much, but we do talk and according to my friends he's shy.
I'm told to just go for it. I'm just too timid to do a direct approach. Going together as friends is what I've wanted to do. Even if i have a small crush on him.
It's not like i have no other plan, i've got a reservation with friends too.
hiii =]
forget about your friends for a second. you need to make a decision - either you want to go with HIM or you want to go with your FRIENDS. its your choice, not theirs. if you go with that guy you can still hang out with your friends no doubt about it. secondly, if you dont go with that guy you might regret it later. you need to conquer your fear at sometime so you might as well do it now. just walk over to him and smile and ask him if hes going to homecoming. if he says yes or maybe then ask if he wants to go with you. its not going to kill you trust me you will live.
you gotta go for it!
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Alright, i was wondering if it's normal for someone to go to homecoming alone? do alot of people do that? also what is the right attire for attending a homecoming dance? I'm a freshmen so this is my first one and I don't know a thing.. thanks alot
yeah its totally normal to go alone. actually i know a lot of people that do. as long as you hang out with your friends and stuff you will have a blast. going alone also has its positive sign - you can dance with ANYONE you want, with out whoever your going with getting pissed at you and ruining the night.
i almost forgot, about the kahki pants and a button up shirt, thats a little casual you might want to be a little more formal. ask what your friends are wearing to see how formal they are. if its a nice button up shirt maybe, but khaki pants, ehh im not sure.
My best friend is dating this boy who has been with 23 girls. They've been together for about 6 months. She didn't believe in having premarital sex before she met him. She gave it up to him a few weeks ago. He broke up with her a week later. He started talking to another girl. He begged my friend to keep having sex with him, although they weren't together anymore. She said no. He asked her back out a couple days ago. They started doing it again yesterday. Does it not sound like he's using her? He's this very munipulative type person. It's driving me crazy. Should I tell her how I feel?
shes definitely being used!!! you need to tell her. maybe she doesnt realize it now but point out everything that hes done and maybe she'll come to her senses
So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and a half. We have been through some tough times but have made it and are happy. We tend to fight over stupid things and he can be pretty immature at times. Well recently the subject of marriage came up again. We have talked about it and I said that someday if things worked out and we both were ready that it would be a good idea, because we both can see eachother being together. But out of the two of us, I am better at handling money and I am very clean. He can be sloppy and doesnt always spend his money wisely, so I could see how being married to someone like that oculd cause some major problems right away. Well he is joining the Marines and is trying to ask me to marry him this summer! And I don't feel ready but feel like he pressuring me too or else! So please help me figure out what to do. Cause I am so lost...
you should definitely NOT get married. 1 and a half years seems pretty long, but long enough for marriage - hell no! you need to understand that since he will be in the marines he wont have a lot of time for you. do you really want to spend more than half of your life WITHOUT your husband there?! if you have kids then it will mostly be just you taking care of them. i know you say you love him but you just said that your not ready for marriage. marriage is a huge decision its not just a one day descision. and he cant pressure you to say yes, if you dont want to get married yet and he cant accept that then hes not worth it. sweetie i dont want to lecture you but you will regret marrying him. you need a lot more time to get your thoughts all together and you dont have to tell him anything until youve come to a decision. you dont have to marry him, if you have a feeling its not going to work out because of his job, then you dont have to say yes. you have to listen to your heart... don't listen to what he says or what anyone else says. this is your own personal thing that you have to decide. just truly think about the concequences before you choose something. and if hes sloppy and doesnt spend money wisely now, chances are when your married its not going to get any better. actually its going to get worse. my cousin got married and she married a guy who was very lazy and had never had a job and they were both 30. she thought once they were married he would get it all together and get a nice job and be a hard working man. haha,wrongg. it just got worse and her husband got even more lazier and depended on my cousin to make all the money do all the shopping and buy an appartment without him lifting a finger. so if theres qualities in him now they wont get any better, im just going to warn you about that now. just do what you want to do. and from what you've wrote it seems like you really dont want to make that kind of a commitment. i say follow your heart and dont get married. you littarly have your whole life to get married and you want it to be special and you should feel 100% confident. give it atleast 5 months to decide what you want to do. i think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. he will probably comfort you but tell him you dont want to be pressured. sit him down explain your not ready and if he gets angry with you then walk out on him. you need a caring guy who understands you. i really hope you listen to your heart and make the right decision. ♥
EDIT : i'd just like to add on that your only 17 and your deff. not ready for marriage. hunny you need to wait atleast another 6 or 7 years!!!
How much every day should a boyfriend and girlfriend talk on the phone? We go to different schools but live 10 minutes away. We're 16.
Thank you. =)
theres not a certain amount a girlfriend and boyfriend have to talk on the phone. you could talk for hours or minutes it depends what you guys like. if its not taking time away from school and your social life, then what the heck talk for 3 hours if you want to. its YOUR choice. :)
15/f freshman
Okay so ihave a larger chest than most girls my age. (i'm a 32 C)Its not that i hate my boobs or that they make me feel insecure though.It just bothers me when people say something about them or stare... My problem is that everyone stares at them! Just today i was in studyhall and an upper classmen asked me how old i was. I told him that he was 15 and he looked super shocked! Then he told my friend tommy that i had huge boobs! Even my boyfriend has said something about them before! Its not as if i try to show them off or anything like that. I honestly don't see why they're so great!
So my question is...... how do i get people(guys) to stop staring at my chest?
(and dont say tutrlenecks or something dumb like that!)
Thanx in advanced!
you can't stop guys from looking and making comments. but next time they do just tell them to get out of your face or to shut the fuck up. guys are immature they cant help it!
hey, I'm 14 my name is jackie.. and I need help..
I'm not sure who to like. On one hand there is this one guy (tony)who is 16, and I've known him for a few weeks. He's shy but his friends say he likes me and wants to take me to homecomming. He is really cute but sometimes he can be a little rude to everyone.. Also we hung out last weekend and we kidna flirted but didnt really pay attention to me
and on the other hand tony's friends little brother (14 years old) named ryan is so hott! he has the most amazing eyes and he is really sweet. he let me use his sweatshirt when i was cold, and he talked to me when noone else was. he said i should comeover his house again. he knows how to treat a girl.
I'm really confused on which to like? please help
i say ryan is the guy for you. hes cute, hes sweet, hes your age and you know he cares about you and will treat you right. tony doesnt sound bad either but just the fact that hes rude to other people makes me think that he might also be rude to you. maybe he wasnt paying attention to you because like you said hes shy and didn't know what to say. well if you and ryan dont work out you could go back to tony if you want. hope i helped!
Hey! On friday teh 13th, some of my freinds are coming over for a scary movie night. The thing is, I don't know some good halloween movies. Does anyone know any good HALLOWEEN movies? I want movies that take place during halloween... but scary ones that don't take place then are good too! PG-13 would help!
the grudge
the hills have eyes
chucky
watcher in the woods
oh yeah, you could go to the movie theaters and see the grudge 2 since its coming out that day..
my boyfriend just broke up with me over email...we've been together for a pretty long time and i thought he would be more considerate then this. also, he didnt tell me why he wanted to break up, so i have no idea...i just dont know what to do
hun, thats going to happen more often then you think. ive been through it. boys are retarted. you never know what they are thinking, when they are lying or when they are telling the truth. if he wont even tell you why he dumped you then your relationship must not have been special to him. guys are jerks when they do that so just email him and be like "okay, we were together for a long time and you meant a lot to me so it would be nice to know why we broke up. so could you just tell me so i dont keep annoying you." and if he tries to pull another dumbass answer hes totally not worth talking to anymore so just forget about him. trust me you can do better, it may be hard to get over him now but in 2 weeks when time has passed you wont even care.
ok im 13 and im a female and im horney and i feel like that ALOT! any time i see somthig thats...... yeah... i feel like that! is that normel and iv NEVER had sex soooo whats rong with me?
hun your normal. im 14 and have the same thing happens to me and it happens to every teenage girl because its just hormones.
Me and my best guy friend talk all the time on AIM. Mainly every night before school. But I have 2 classes with him, and he RARELY talks to me in class. Is there a reason for this? It kind of makes me upset.
hes probably really shy and doesnt know what to say in person. you should be the one to go up to him and start a conversation!!
My aount wont pay me for cleaning and watching her baby for 2 1/2 yeas now she owes me like$2500 so far. i talk to my parents and they talk to her but she says that she will or did. but she never has. what should i say to her wih out being rude. and when a friend calls me on my cell and invites me over and i tell her i am leaving in 20 minutes sh says you are not leaving until everything is done. like shes paying me. what should i say.
hah, i had a problem like this not as bad as yours but i was supposedly getting "paid" for walking my neighbors dog every day and i never did so i just stopped going to her house to pick up the dog. and i called her up and said very nicely and politely "do you still want me to keep walking your dog because the lack of payment makes me feel like im doing something wrong." so just say the same thing but talk about babysitting her baby instead. and if she says she will do it later and doesnt give you the money the next day, just say im sorry but i feel like im just being used so im going to have to stop since your not doing your part of the deal and dont come back. she cant do that to you!!!!
i have itunes right now and im spending so much money
i wanted to download limewire instead...but im scared about getting a virus from it!
idk what to do
a really long time ago i downloaded something like limewire called KAAZA or something, and i got soo much spyware from that
any suggestions???? THANKS!!
my friend has had limewire for over a year and shes never gotten a virus!! so im definitely convinced and i downloaded limewire about a week ago and nothing bad has happened since so im guessing its pretty safe. i say take the risk and use it because most people dont get viruses and its worth it! limewire is great and i heard KAAZA sucks.
I get really REALLY bad cramps on the first day of my period. It's just so bad sometimes I don't know how I don't faint from pain. I've thrown up a couple of times when it's been really bad. I was wondering whether taking the Pill would stop these cramps? Or stop them happening so badly...Anyone with experience??? Thanks.
midol or any pain killer will stop your pain. also i know this sounds weird but light excersising does too.
hey i got a good freind we tell eachother all our secets and 1 time she told me she does things for pleasure so i asked what type of pleasure then she said like fingering and using dildos is she stiil a virgin because im confused
bye
thank you
well if she told you the WHOLE story then yes shes still a virgin. the only way she'll lose her virginity is when she has sex.
I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions?
hi.. i answered the private question you asked me so ill just copy and paste what i said there.
aww hun, ive gone through the same thing 100 times and you have some really good ideas! you should deffinitely go to one of those "jets" games since he loves that team. oh yeah other good suggestions are the movies mall bowling ice skating roller blading, anything fun like that.. if your going with a group go with both boys and girls so hes not outnumbered. flirt with him smile and touch him in a playful way and make sure you show that your funny and sweet and make sure he has a great time. dont be boring or shy because he wont want to do anything with you ever again you have to be outgoing! oh yeah make sure you wear a super cute outfit dont overdo it though.. hope you have fun!!
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