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alright, so i really like this kid from my church, and he knows i like him and all..but we never talk when i see him, i guess it is cause i dont know what to say , but whenever were in a group and im there he seems to walk away, or maybe it seems it to me?..i really want to at least have a friendship with him..what do i do?


ill rate high for good answers that help! (link)
Kill him and say happy birthday


is it true a girl can only get pregnant one day out of the month? (link)
I don't know... do you want to test it???


I am reguardimg my last queation that nobody answered. It was titled websites?? My question is does anyone know any websites that teens can learn about sex?? I'm 13/f. *danielle leigh (link)
Too young, NEXT!


me and this kid kissed at my friends b-day party and i liked him a lil bit but now i really lik him since this kiss, it didnt bug me before wen he flirted wit all the girls, but now it makes me upset. bcuz he acts lik we didnt do nething at the party and we did. and it upsets me. he was tellin ppl that we kissed and all but he didnt act lik we did. at first i thought the awkardness was kinda funny. but now its just hard to watch him flirt wit everybody and lik touch them and all and just lik act lik me and him did nothing, wat should i do i mean im just confused and hurt. (link)
Why would you like a guy that hurts you, and brags to his little fuckin* buddies about you guys kissin* but flirts with other bitches. Uh ok I think its denial.


Hi..i performed oral sex to a guy on..friday night but he didn't cum..we didn't use a condom..and today (monday)..i feel like i am sort of about to get a sore throat but i'm not sure..it could just be in my head because i've b een thinking about it. Could this be something i should get checked out, or should i not worry or w/e..and has anyone ever felt like i have after oral sex..? (link)
Stab the guy with a knife in his dick if your throat starts hurting really bad.


me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex last night he pulled out and came.. but he had it all over the head of it and didnt wipe it off. could i have got pregnant from this? or does semen die outside the body??? (link)
No semen does not die when it hits the outside of a body. And when people say don't have unprotected sex unless you want to risk getting pregnant the meaning is that. You can get pregnant while yall are fucking and not even realize that he's pre cumming in you. So yes you can get pregnant and I don't know why you said your boyfriends cum was on the head of his dick but okay.. Yeah so hope I helped, and don't think I'm being a bitch it's just that it's common sense if you don't know that by now you shouldn't be having sex. Go ahead rate me low that just means your a shallow, rude person for giving me a F on my test for not giving you the answer you want. (Not having the best days)

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


Okay well my boyfriend and I have recently been having sex through about 3 months and we have been going out for three years. Not once have I had an orgasm, I always have to fake it and I sort of get tired faking it because I want to experience what an orgasm feels like. And I don't want him to give me oral or finger me or whatever, I want to have an orgasm through intercourse. The sex feels good, but there are times when I cant even feel it in me. Does anyone know how I could achieve this? (link)
It probably means your way to loose (that might be why you can't feel it) or he's small. If you do it everyday I'd hold it off and do it maybe once a month. Trust me if he's big enough** Then you'll be able to feel it after a whole month ro a few weeks. If you finger yourself stop until you have sex. Okay? Oh and tell your boyfriend to jack off more so you can get an orgasm... Sorry it sounds like he barely fucks.. Like he stops after 5 minutes. Hope I helped.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


its my first time ever getting my period...but it comes one day & then the next it doesn't come then the next day it does..so basically its a every other day thing...is that normal??? please help asappppp (link)
For some people it is normal. I'd tell your parents well no your mom and tell her to take you to the doctors and they will give you a pill or give you some suggestions to get it back to normal. Or put you on birth control that always works. Hope I helped.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


what are the symtoms to a yeist infection?
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You itch like crazy. Hope I helped.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


i keep going for a wee the last few days, i've been at least 8-10 times just today i did have unprotected sex just over 2 week ago but he did pull out before he came i know people do get pregnant from the "pull out" method also im 10 days late for a period it isn't unsual for me tho but could i be pregnant? (link)
Yes it is possible. I'd get one of those pregnancy test things. If you are you should tell your parents or a friend. Or you could always just get an abortion for a few bucks. Hope I helped.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


Alright, my friend (literally) is too afraid to post this so I'm doing it for her. She said her boyfriend has fingered her about a week ago and her period had ended a day before that. She said two days ago when she was going to the bathroom she noticed she was bleeding a little on the toilet paper. Then yesterday she said when she was going to the bathroom it stung a little. She also said she doesn't want anyone to know about what happened between her and her boyfriend so she wants to know if a genecologist can tell. Any advice for my friend guys? (link)
Yes, they can tell, and why it stung to go to the bathroom is because she either got a yeast or bladder infection.. Hope I helped.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


Ok..it's a long story, but i'll try adn make it short...I like this guy..lets call him Bob..well bob and i worked at a summer camp for the entire summer and we bonded a lot..at first i didn't like him..we would just flirt..he would flirt with me and fight with me..playing around..and then he dropped me..grabbed my ass massaged me and held my hand..i've never had a bf before and idk wat to expect..so i began to like him..i like his personality a lot..newayz..after summer camp he was acting wierd..but then he was acting normal again and it was ok...he used to pop up and IM me and say hey beautiful..or hey sexy..and stuff like that...now he doesn't really come and try and have a conversation, he wants me to go to his house and just chill with him..but i can't because my mom said i can't unless there is an adult and he doesn't like to go out very often..he goes to skateboarding practice during the weekends and fridays sometimes..he never knos..so i can't make plans..and it's making me all tense all the time..He Knows Exactly How I Feel About ALL of this..i've told him..but i don't a response out of him..he just says i don't know..blah blah blah...he is a flirt...and w/e..he said that i don't have to wait for him..to just find a guy at skool..and i don't want another guy i want him...wat do i do?...how do i get answers out of him?..I'm just confused...plz help...I RATE!
~*Linda*~ (link)
Tell him some what you just typed up. Like that he's your first boyfriend and you really like him you like his personality, like the way he talks, his eyes, his hands, his hair and whatever else you like about him. That you don't want to lose him because you don't want that, and that you don't want any other guy you want him and that you hope he feels the same way and then be like "So how do you feel about me?" If he tells you and it's not what you expected then just think in your head you could do better (that's only if he says something bad). Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't. Please ask me another question about this if you need more help, because I really do think I can help you out a lot if I take my time.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


hi im sam i want to be a acter more than anything im from the uk so can anyone tell me how to get a agent (link)
Tell her (I'm not making this up) that she can get mono and all sorts of other diseases from just by making out or even kissing someone that has it's lips. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


Over the summer I lost a few pounds. I wasn't big before or anything I just kind of toned down. Well, a few guys have noticed and commented to me. My boyfriend gets really jealous when anyone (by one I mean guys. I don't know what to do about it. It isn't that big of a problem to where we need to break up but it upsets me when I see him like this. Today, I saw one of my really good guy friends that I didn't have a chance to see during the summer. We talked for a few min. and he asked me if I lost weight and I said yes and he told me that I looked great. My bf was standing with us and when my friend said what he said, my bf walked away. Does anyone have any idea what I can do/say to him? I'm 17 and he's 18 if that helps. (link)
You need to just straight up and talk to him. I get like that sometimes, and as much as my boyfriend doesn't want to admit it he does it to. But yeah tell him that it bothers you that he get's jealous and that he should know and trust you that you only want him and that you mean so much to him and would never want to break up with him. Tell him he shouldn't have to worry and you don't want to have to see him going through what he's doing (meaning what he does when he gets jealous). He needs to slow his role ha, ha. He should like it when people compliment you by saying good things about you because that means your really pretty, beautiful, hott or whatever. Oh and if you didn't lose that much weight then people wouldn't have really noticed but still. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


1) How do you give a hand job
2) If my boyfriend fingered me could a genecologist tell?
3) My boyfriend fingered me and I am bleeding very slightly, does this mean anything?
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Okay well number one first you grasp his dick with your hand (obviously) and go up and down slow and fast.
Number two, yes they could tell. They can tell when and if you had sex and if you had any sextual contact like those sorts of things.
Number three, yes it means he popped your cherry. A thin sheet of skin that's in your vagina (pussy) or whatever. Hope I helped.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


how would one overcome an addiction to pornography and masturbation?

(i have this friend, see...)

17.male (link)
Would that friend be you... I think you should put yourself out there to other girls and start to flirt and when you get a girlfriend or if you do trust me porn won't be shit then. Hope I helped.

Cyaz,
ShanN*


okay so my friends going out with this guy and i started talking to him, ya kno bein nice and stuff and then we started to talk more and he is saying all this weird stuff that i should like come over cas hes lonely and he thinks his gf is going to break up with him.. but i was like no i wouldnt do that to her and yeah he keeps saying all of this stuff that is like flirting with me and im trying not to back but hes always like your being wierd and texting me and stuff... i dont wanna hurt my friend by telling her this, i just wish he would stop... what should i do please help (link)
If I were you I'd tell your friend that her boyfriend is not loyal to her. That she needs to find better. I mean god he's flirting with you and your her friend or best friend which makes the matter worse. I think you should talk to your friend about her boyfriend doing weird things and saying weird things and just flirting with you every time you all talk. If she doesn't believe you, say I think you should I'm your friend and I've known you longer than this guy ever did and I know you more than he will. I understand you better than almost anyone else that knows you. But if she does believe you and says then stop talking to him then I think you should do so. He's a pig and wants more meaning he's a dickless prick that needs to find some groupies. If you all get into a big fight because of it just let her be for a while. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


i fell realli bad for mi twin sis.. she studys hard and dose all of her homework and dose everything she can to try and keep her grades up...she cant get above a C and then she looks at me i dont do my homework or pay atention in school or study for tets i guess on themm.. and i get straight A's adnd i wish there was something could do you kno.. if you have anyideas or advice pleaseee help i rate well!!!
=] **((hailey))** (link)
I think you should study with her because like you said your getting straight A's so I think that would be a smart idea. Even if your not learning the same type of things still help your sister out. Or you could find her a tutor. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*


i want to get my boyfriend something for his birthday.my problem is that he says he doesnt want anything..so what do i do?

hes turning 15 (link)
He probably doesn't want you getting him anything meaning that cost $money$ guys are weird like that. But um I think you should make him something. For my boyfriend I got him a hat *Miami Dolphins* his favorite team ick yeah. Anyways but for our one year annerversary I got something offline like a certificate saying best kisser (there's other ones best boyfriend happy birthday) it's at www.loveyou.com and I burned a CD of all the songs that remind me of him, took a picture of me then got a picture of him and cut them out and put them together, then I wrote him a note that said all the things I feel about you is blah blah blah, and a poem on the back.


is it absolutely 100% neccessary for a woman to go to a gynocologist at some point in her life? and what do they do, exactly?
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It's not 100% neccessary maybe about 99.9% neccessary. I had to go there for this dickhead to stick his fucking grody fingers in my *busy spot* and let him stick something up me to check for cancer. It's also a place where you can have a baby delivered, check out if you have any signs for any STD's and if so you got to get blood drawn. Hope I helped.

Buh Bye,
ShanN*




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