Question Posted Monday September 12 2005, 11:16 pm
me and this kid kissed at my friends b-day party and i liked him a lil bit but now i really lik him since this kiss, it didnt bug me before wen he flirted wit all the girls, but now it makes me upset. bcuz he acts lik we didnt do nething at the party and we did. and it upsets me. he was tellin ppl that we kissed and all but he didnt act lik we did. at first i thought the awkardness was kinda funny. but now its just hard to watch him flirt wit everybody and lik touch them and all and just lik act lik me and him did nothing, wat should i do i mean im just confused and hurt.
Sassycat911 answered Tuesday September 13 2005, 4:44 am: Okay, it's obvious. He used you to brag to all of his friends that he got action at your friends party.
What is most likely bugging you now is that he got what he wanted and he left you hanging out in the cold.
My advice: Play him at his own game. if he can tell that it bugs you when he "dissed" you, and all of his friends can see that as well, then your going to show them that you get attached too easy.
When people ask you about it just say, "yeah, we kissed, but really...it was no big deal".
It will show him that you can't be phased with his "playa" attitude.
Flirt with other guys and show him that HE WAS NO BIG DEAL. He'll come crawling in about a week when he learns that you don't need him. [ Sassycat911's advice column | Ask Sassycat911 A Question ]
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