i was wondering if anybody had any recommendations for magazines. i already love to read cosmo girl and seventeen, although sometimes, cosmo girl is not on the racks and it's dissapointing. i also read teen, but do you know of any magazines that are for teens, 13-17? i like magazines like seventeen, and hope to find more!
Hey.
Well, i read Mizz and Shout and i am 14. but if you want something more girly or something for young adults then you should read something like...
Red
Glamour
Stlye
Look
There are loads more to choose from so look at all of the magazinges where you buy them and have a quick look through them and see which one takes your fancy!
Good Luck!!
For any more advice.. don't hesitate to ask me.
xx SuperDuperJess xx
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my boyfriend has me 9th in his top friends for myspace and like 4 other girls are in front of me. and he never puts me in his AIM away message and it kinda pisses me off. one day he'll be like "i love you soo much i couldn't live without youu." then he'll be like ehh whatever the next day and not as sweet. some days he calls me and some times he doesn't. i just want him to call me every day and put me in his away messages and tell me he loves me all the time. some times he does, but other times he just doesn't. it would be kind of stupid being like "yeah you have to call me every day and always say you love me and put me in your AIM away message." but i don't know how else to get the message across..
he's a very loving boyfriend but sometimes i feel that he likes to play hard to get. =(
every other day he's wicked nice and sweet to me. but how come not EVERY day?
Hey.
This situation is tricky, but i like to try and answer everything that comes my way, so here goes.
First of all, don't get your self wond up or worried because you will soon make it worse. He is propabably worked up about something and so if you trust him enough then you should talk to him, face to face and ask what is wrong and if anything is buging him, don't be afraid to ask him anything..if he says something bad like 'go away' then he isn't the right guy for you. I have been htrough alot with different guys so i know most of this. Now i think that it is wrong for a guy to have four girl friends before his actuall girl friend (you) so there is no reason why they should be infront of you. Just tell him things. Make him Happy. If this doesn't work then he isn't the right guy for you.
Need any more advice.. don't hesitate to send me a private message or something.
Good Luck!!
xx SuperDuperJess xx
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Okay, so I have a Windows XP Laptop [if that helps]. I wanted to play a DVD on my cpu but it wouldn't let me because it was unable to read DVD stuff or something like that. So I was wondering if anyone knew what sites gives you link/allows you to download a FREE DVD player thinger thing to your cpu. It would be better if you have it yourself...thanks very much =)
Hey.
There is one website inparticular that is very good, that is:
http://www.youtube.com
or you can go on
http://www.google.co.uk or http://www.google.com and type in what you want but not too describtive.
Any more advice..don't hesitate to ask me.
xx SuperDuperJess xx
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Sorry, wasn't sure where to put this.
So I just used some wax strips on my legs. The kind where the wax is already on the strips.
I've never waxed my legs before, just my brows. Anyway, I've got red spots all over my leg. I have some on the other leg too but only in some places and not as much as the other leg.
Is this normal? I know redness is normal but are the spots?
Thanks.
Hey.
I dought they are spots, so dont worry. I personaly think this could be an elergic reaction or a rash. I would ask your mom to take you to see your GP and see what he/she says about it. Dont worry about telling your GP because all of them completly understand and will give alot more advice. Your GP will probably give you some cream or medication that should help.
I hope this goes OK!
For any more advice you may need don't hesitate to ask me.
xx SuperDuperJess xx
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okay My aunt birthday is tommorw but thing is very sad day for her becouse her son had to rush to the hositpail becouse he sick. he pass away last june. he had lukima and was 35. so my aunt had her days bad and good days. thing is i going to call her tommrow and i want to say something make her feel better. she love to lough and have a good lough and good thoughts. other thing is last time i call her on her bday she was saying it wasn't good time.. me and my aunt are very close and i was close to my cousin...
thanks
Hey.
Everyone has good and bad days in there life, i am sure you have and i have too. But in this situation i would try and have a good nights sleep and yes do ring your aunt and get her to think of things (not sure what) possibly like...
ask her what she is doing this week and try and make a friendly convosation. I am sure most of your family do miss your cousin alot but you all need to move on a little and yes i know it is hard and might take some time to get used to and things but it should all be fine. You could tell her a joke or two to cheer her up and things.
Any more advice..don't hesitate to ask me.
I would also love to hear how it goes!
xx SuperDuperJess xx
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I've never given or received oral sex. I am 15/f. People say it is normal to do it at my age and I sort of agree. I am afraid of having a guy go down on me because I don't have this kind of experience and I am shy. I'm sort of afraid of going down on a guy because I don't want to do it wrong.
People always say you're supposed to wait until it feels right but I think it will only feel right when I give it a try.
Any advice??
Hey.
Well the people that say that is right. Don't worry about what the guy thinks..don't worry about doing it wrong. If the guy is very experianced and you can trust the guy then i would tell him that you haven't done it before.
Any more advice...Don't hesitate to ask me.
xx SuperDuperJess xx
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and does any1 have a website were you can watch family guy? l o l i love that show , but i never really get 2 watch it on TV
and are there any other sites like youtube were you can watch video clips?
Hey.
YouTube is a great site and it has lots of videos uploaded. But, if you go on to:
www.google.co.uk or
www.google.com
you can type in what you want like:
video with Family Guy
or something like that but not too describtive.
Need any more help..don't hesitate to ask me.
xx SuperDuperJess xx
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13/f. i loved butterflys 2 years ago and have never had a boyfriend so my mom said i was a lesbian. and she wasnt joking or anything. now i like black and dark colors she says im gothic and she says goths like peircings~i have had both my ears double peirced for about 4 years~and now since she says im gothic which im not she took all my earings and made me take out my earings to make them close up. she reads my diary and makes sure about wat i do or think or anything my friends do or just everything and makes sure i do nothing bad. so one day i wrote in my diary 'mom since your reading this and i no you will leave me alone i hate you i always have u give me no space' i got grounded for a month and she told every1. she doesnt have to read it and espesially not tell my whole family and cusins. its my diary shouldnt it be private? did i do sumthing wrong or what?
Hi,
You haven't done anything wrong at all, i think u did the right thing but sometimes, the right thing is wrong. Now it was very ver very bad of your mum/mom to look into your diary because it is yours and you have the oNLY rights to look at it and to write in it, but you still should've just talked to your mom/mum but still, it was OKAY, don't get all worked up about it because if you do you could make your self ill.
Good Luck!!
Don't hesitate to ask me for any more advice.
Love Jess xxxxx
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i have been trying to lose weight for a little while now and my friends say i dont need to but recently last year i had an eating disorder and i got over it. i cant spot eating unhealthy food and find it hard to get motivated to do excersise. because i know if i dont then it will drive me straight back to the eating disorder i had and i dont want that. how can i stop myself from eating the wrong foods and excersising more so i start to feel good about myself again???
Hi,
Well, why not try eating alot of healthy food, like fruit, smoothies (that have fruit in) try not to eat too much chips (french fries and chips (crisps)) don't eat too much with carbs (carbrohydrates) such as pasta and rice.
Well, if you go to school, then your school always should have the facility of a gym, sports hall or it must be big, so why not use some of those facilities or go to a gym out-side of school. You can also try and go for a walk every night in the evening and then after about 2months of that then you could try running, but the same distance, also with this still try and go to the gym.
These should help. If not try going onto the internet for some extra professional help like
http://www.google.co.uk or http://www.google.com (depending where you live) and put something like:
Ways to lose wieght
something along those linees and you will be OK. But don't lose too much weight because you might end up anerecic (this isn't to scar you) you might aswell go and ask your mom/mum about this problem you seem to have, mums/moms always love helping there daughters/sons.
Good Luck!!!
Don't hesitate to ask me for advice, any time, and I will get right back to you, i promise.
Love Jess
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P.S. I would love to hear how this goes! Keep me posted! xx
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Ok well this alittle long but I just want to write everything down so hopefully I would feel better. Ok so i'm a feshman now in highschool. When I meet my ex I was in the 6th grade. It was like love at first sight seriously. I couldn't stop thinking about him. We went out and I ended up braking up with him because my friend liked him also. So when I started 8th grade I spoke 2 him again and we ended up going out. He told me all these sweet things and I just love him so much.we lasted for 10 months and then he broke up with me for no reason. Then he wanted to try things again but I can't becuase I'm afraid of loving him more then I do. My friend goes to his school and she told me that he flirts a lot with girls and that I don't deserve him I deserve someone better.but I can't forget about him. Its like my heart is attached to him I feel so depressed its like I can't move on. he sends me text messages sometimes telling me that he loves me but I'm just afraid. What should I do?. Should I forget about him if so what are the best ways?. But I love him so much. I jsut don't see my life without him. Please help thanks!
Hi,
To me you have 2 options:
1: You forget about him. You can do this by not replying to his texts or/and say 'just don't text me these things, we are friends, NO MORE' (that is if he sends you texts that are sweet or a little firlty) just try and forget about him, because he is at a different school to you and just stick around with your real friends, weather they are boys or girls.
2: You go out with him. You could go out with him because you love him, but you must like the personality of the person, it isn't about if they are fit hot or sexy ect (and i know you didn't say/ask about that in the question but you need to know that there is more to looks). If you were to go out with him again then i would get your friend (that goes to the same school) to make sure he isn't flirting too much with other girls (a little is OK but just not too much) also, if he goes out with someone else at the same time or flirts too much then you will need her to tell him off because you would be his girlfriend.
Now...This is ALL down to you, you need to make YOUR desion..not ME.... YOU.
Don't hesitate to ask me for more advice-on anything at all.
Good Luck!!
Love
Jess xxxxxxxxx
P.S. Please keep me posted! I would love to hear what happens! xxx
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ok so me and my friend started drinking this summer and even though its fun... it leaves me with a kinda big problem. soo.. our former best friend found out the we drink and has decided that she won't be friends with us anymore just because we do.. i don't really get this because its not like we're forcing her to drink or anything.. its just something we do for fun. we also never get dangerous with it.. then most i've has is 12 shots (and i'm 5' 4" , 95 lbs) soo any advice on how to get her to like us again.. besides quitting drinking? thanks =/
heyya!
Well, it is your chose to drink, so it isn't your falut that your ex-friend doesn't like you. I suggest don't go out to often, and just explain to your friend that you aren't doing anthing silly, and wouldn't think of it. An also explain that you really do want her back as a friend, and that she is more than welcome to come out with you for a SMALL drink.
If this doen't work-go onto my colum and post a question- i will get straight back to you-I PROMISE!
Good Luck!!
Love Jess
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P.S Any more advice-go onto my colum and post a question!! xxx
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This is a wierdd question... but I can't find it anywhere!
Anyways -- I'm 14/f in case that matters, but I was wonering, how do you slap a guy's butt? Do you do it hard or what? And how do you make it not awkward?
this is a tricky question! lol, well i will answer it anyway!! hehe! now i wouldn't slap it hard because you might affend him. Now when you have a boyfriend, you should be able to trust him, now i am sure you do, so you might want to share your feelings with him (i am sure you do already) i know it might seem imbarrising to share this type of feeling! But it MIGHT be worth a go. But, JUST GO WITH IT! Go with YOUR FEELINGS! Don't rush into things, and don't do anything that you feel unconfortable with what you do, always feel CONVERTABLE with what you do!
Good Luck!!
Anymore advice-Go onto my colum, and post a question!!
Love Jess
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I need a job, I'm 14 and i havn't had much experience in a professional job setting. SO im looking to become a caddie. and this is on the golf website "Employment Opportunities, Send all employment inquiries to "email." what exactly should i write. I really want this job and i could really use some advice, thanks.
Dear Job Looking,
You know looking on the internet is a good idea, but why not think about becomeing a babysitter or something like that. Keep it simple at first like sending out fleyers to your neihbours, but don't go too OTT (over the top).
If you need any more advice-go onto my colum and post a question!
Good Luck!!
Love Jess
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I have a singing competition and I have no idea what to sing! Im a 13 year old girl.. and I dont really know how to explain my voice but ive been told its good.. lol bad description, and it sounds a little like mariah carey but i cant get all those super high notes she can. im consiedered to be an alto when i sing.. maybe a little higher or lower sometimes, too. uh dont know how else to describe it.. so any good songs you know that will really get me to be "sanging"? also i need the sheet music, my music teacher says. so if you know where i can get them, then be my guest and show me! lol thanks alot!!!!!!!!!!
Dear Good Singer,
I sing and have been in lots and lots of competitions, so i will help you in as many ways i can. Now it sounds to me as if you will need a song that is faily easy to learn and to sing, so if you go onto the internet i am sure you will find lots of song, if you put 'Easy song lirics' into the search engin (www.google.co.uk or www.google.com) then there will be lots and lots of names of websites. If this doesn't work, then i suggest going into a music shop, and there will be LOADS of vocal books!!
Good Luck in the Competition and choseing a song!!
Love Jess
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okay, so, the thing is..theres this guy and he likes me alot..and he has for a while now right, and last year i went out with this other guy and he was really hurt. but now were just as good friends as ever and i know he still likes me. and the truth is, i LIKE him..ive liked him since i met him. and i dont know why i hurt him so much? like i went out with the other guy and that killed him...and the thing is even though i like him, i still dont want to go out with him. im scared but i dont know of what. and all the other relationships ive been in were ones that i knew werent going to last when i started. also, i met him because he is best friends with my first ex boyfriend. i dont know whats wrong with me, but i know im going to lose him soon. also, theres so much going on with me at home (constant fights...my dads LOSING it) i cant deal with anything. my best friend, who i told everything to more than any one in the whole world moved to the other side of the country. i feel abandoned by everyone, and the thing is, the one guy thats actually there for me, im pushing him away. i think i really need a therapist....thanks in advance ..
i am soooooooo sorry to hear about ALL of this, but as it sounds like you need some one to talk to then i am ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU. Look i think you should go out with this guy that REALLY likes you, he might seem different, and it will give you some one to talk to and to share your feelings, because a boyfriend, you will know that they are ALWAYS going to be there for you.
Any more advice-go on to my colum and post a question!
Love Jess
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can someone tell me where to find cute but not too skanke belly shirts?
Dear Belly Shirt,
If you put 'Belly Shirts' in the search engign (on computer) then there will be lots of websites to chose from.
Need any more advice-go on my colum and post a question!
Love Jess
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I'm making fortune cookies, among other things, for my boyfriend for valentines day, but I can't think of any "fortunes!"
So, any "fortune" ideas? or websites with "fortunes" on them? I'm really stumped!
Thanks!
Dear Fortune,
I think you should go onto www.google.co.uk or www.google.com and put in 'good fortunes' this will come up with LOADS AND LOADS AND LOADS of websites that will have ideas!!
If you have any other problems and need advice-go on my advice colum and post advice for me to answer.
Love Jess
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I've had my cat for 10 years and I love him, but he suddenly started growing this tumor. And the poor thing probably won't live more than a few weeks but we don't want him to be in pain so we're putting him to sleep when he starts showing pain. I don't know if I want to be there when he is. My mom said I could go, but I don't know if I would want to see him then, but I don't know if I'll regret not going? Help?
Dear Cat Lover,
I haven't been in this situation myself, but i know ALOT obout pets. Now i would go, but if it gets too much for you i am sure you can walk out and get some air. This is a good thing to do if you love him (i am sure you do, as you said)
Any more worrys-Go on my colum, and ask
Love Jess
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Ok so.. my boobs have gotten smaller. It sucks. I've always been thin. I'm about 5'6 105 lbs., or something around there. I don't think i really lost any weight though, and nothing else seems to have gotten smaller. I also don't get my periods regularly. I got the first one about 3 1/2 years ago, so they should be regular by now. They skip months and always come at different times of the month. I just finished a period, but it had been the first one in a few months. I'm thinking maybe this has something to with my boobs shrinking? Help! Anyone know what's going on. I want my boobs back.
Dear 'Want Your Boobs Back!'
Well, there is nothing to worry about. It all depends on how old you are, if you are a young teenager, then you body hasn't fully grown up yet, so there is always a chance of your boby changeing alot, so don't worry! If you are an old teenager, then i would egnore it, some adults' body's change as well, ur breasts can get smaller or biger. One thing you must know and fully understand is NOT TO WORRY!!
any more advice-Check out my colum!
Good Luck!!
Love Jess
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about how much a month does one horse cost? without boarding, farriers and all that. and then with farriers, vets, and dentists added in?
thanks!
Daer Horse-Lover,
Well nearly all of my friends have a horse, but i dont, but i DO know alot about them. My next-door neighbour has her own horse, but she used to have a horse on loan. She paid £20.00 a month for this horse, but she had to buy all of the rugs, saddles and such like, but if you live in Americia you will need to find out from what i have told you!
Good Luck!
Love Jess
xxxxx P.S. Feel free to ask me any more questions on horses!! xxx
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