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a lot on my mind, i just need to vent....
okay, so, the thing is..theres this guy and he likes me alot..and he has for a while now right, and last year i went out with this other guy and he was really hurt. but now were just as good friends as ever and i know he still likes me. and the truth is, i LIKE him..ive liked him since i met him. and i dont know why i hurt him so much? like i went out with the other guy and that killed him...and the thing is even though i like him, i still dont want to go out with him. im scared but i dont know of what. and all the other relationships ive been in were ones that i knew werent going to last when i started. also, i met him because he is best friends with my first ex boyfriend. i dont know whats wrong with me, but i know im going to lose him soon. also, theres so much going on with me at home (constant fights...my dads LOSING it) i cant deal with anything. my best friend, who i told everything to more than any one in the whole world moved to the other side of the country. i feel abandoned by everyone, and the thing is, the one guy thats actually there for me, im pushing him away. i think i really need a therapist....thanks in advance ..
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Hmm... You say that you knew your past relationships weren't going to last from the get-go. Are you maybe afraid that this one WILL last?
Maybe you can talk to him about your problems at home and such. That will help you bring him closer instead of pushing him away.
If he is a really good guy, you don't want to lose him. You will only cause yourself regrets in the future.
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This is a lot of junk! :( You need to find someone you can vent to - a new friend, a relative, or perhaps a school counselor. Being a teenager is so hard (I assume you are because you still live at home) and you go through a lot. Get a support system.
Sabine
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i am soooooooo sorry to hear about ALL of this, but as it sounds like you need some one to talk to then i am ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU. Look i think you should go out with this guy that REALLY likes you, he might seem different, and it will give you some one to talk to and to share your feelings, because a boyfriend, you will know that they are ALWAYS going to be there for you.
Any more advice-go on to my colum and post a question!
Love Jess
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