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i just dont know
my boyfriend has me 9th in his top friends for myspace and like 4 other girls are in front of me. and he never puts me in his AIM away message and it kinda pisses me off. one day he'll be like "i love you soo much i couldn't live without youu." then he'll be like ehh whatever the next day and not as sweet. some days he calls me and some times he doesn't. i just want him to call me every day and put me in his away messages and tell me he loves me all the time. some times he does, but other times he just doesn't. it would be kind of stupid being like "yeah you have to call me every day and always say you love me and put me in your AIM away message." but i don't know how else to get the message across..
he's a very loving boyfriend but sometimes i feel that he likes to play hard to get. =(
every other day he's wicked nice and sweet to me. but how come not EVERY day?
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Hey.
This situation is tricky, but i like to try and answer everything that comes my way, so here goes.
First of all, don't get your self wond up or worried because you will soon make it worse. He is propabably worked up about something and so if you trust him enough then you should talk to him, face to face and ask what is wrong and if anything is buging him, don't be afraid to ask him anything..if he says something bad like 'go away' then he isn't the right guy for you. I have been htrough alot with different guys so i know most of this. Now i think that it is wrong for a guy to have four girl friends before his actuall girl friend (you) so there is no reason why they should be infront of you. Just tell him things. Make him Happy. If this doesn't work then he isn't the right guy for you.
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Good Luck!!
xx SuperDuperJess xx
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Okay. First off, I have never seen a guy put his girlfriend in his away message unless the girl is really pissed at him and he left an apology on there. Maybe take the first steps. Like put him in your away messages when hes on so he sees and is like "oh I'll put her in my away message!". About the myspace thing, either talk to him about it or just get used to it. And same about the rest too. Tell him how you feel, and if hes a good boyfriend then he won't get mad and he'll put more effort into the relationship.
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I think you're overreacting just a bit. He doesn't have to put you in his away messages. He doesn't have to constantly serenade you with "I love you baby" and he doesn't have to call everyday. And it's just MySpace. Top 8's, 14's, 16's, whatever -- they're not that damn important.
If it bothers you, talk to him about it.
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You definately need to talk to him about this. Like any other girl, it would probably make me a bit angry if girls were put infront of me. He should tell you how he feels a lot, but only if its true of course. He shouldn't be off & on with his feelings so quickly & they shouldn't change so frequently. Seriously, sit down & talk to him. Basically mention everything that you just asked. Don't make it a command. Just say "well i was wondering why you do this..". That way it won't seem like you're demanding or controlling him to do things. If he seems distant or even gets mad about you asking, then you might want to reconsider dating him. He should at least treat you evenly with other people in his life, you are his girlfriend. So, just talk to him about it & see how things go.
-hope that helped!♥
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