about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

okay.. im going out with this guy.
he lived in ohio and i live in colorado.
i have never met him
we met on myspace
im 13 and hes 14..
how long do you think we will last?
honestly?

i dont know if this will answer ur question but this is a TRUE story of what is happening to my cousin right now.

my cousin meet a girl Online. he is 17 turning 18 and he was talking to a 15 year old year. the both lived in the same area of the state but they never meet each other. well one day the decide to meet up and when they meet up he got arested because it really was a 40 year old cop. now he is locked up and his parents ahve to pay 40,000 to bail him out.


to answer ur question i wouldnt do this. i mean he can say he is with you but he can also say the samething to other girls. so yea..


♥ Steph

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Alright, I'm perfectly fine with my weight and everything, its just I have this little bit of fat in the front of my stomach, and I want to make my stomach just flat. And I've been doing crunches and everything, but I want to know if there's anything else I can do? Helppp./

belly dancing. think i am crazy but i will prove it to you.

http://fitnessmagazine.com/fitness/story.jhtml?storyid=/templatedata/fitness/story/data/1141664984856.xml&catref=cat5420004

♥ steph

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Okay, there is this new guy at school. He just moved here. He isn't cute at all, and is weird. I talked to him once because he was just sitrting there, and I felt bad. Now, he always stares at me. How do I get him to stop?

telling him to stop. like ask him nicely or otherwise u can get into trouble and he will think your messign him. be seriou and tell him you would appercaite it if he stopped staring at you.

♥ steph

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me and my boyfriend had sex last sunday. we used a spermacidical condom and he pulled out right when he started to cum. 3 days later i started having a lot of dicharge. it smells and looks the same as it normally does there is just a lot more. i also am experiencing headaches and cramps. what does this mean?

my advice is to relax about the problem because when you get stressed out your period becomes late which causes you tothink you are pregnant and etc. so relax and dont think about it.

♥ Steph

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So this guy i met over ayear ago swept me off my feet the first time i laid my eyes on him. Problem is we are only friends after a year. We never hang out and we only talk online and if we see eachother at church he will say hi to me. but thats all i ever get and i hate it. When hes online im always the one to say hey to him and keep the conversation going. But at the end of the conversation when he says hes going to bed i always get teary eyed and feel like ill never have him. Im fallling so hard for someone i think ill never get. Even if i tell myself hes never going to want me i dont want to believe it.

im 17female And hes 19 male

Any advice as to what i should do?
thank you.

try talking to him about. maybe he feels the same way you just dont know because guys have a werid way of showing there feeling. if he doesnt like you the same way i suggest to just forget about him and leave him alone you deserve better. it will be hard to move on but you need to.. dont be scared there are plenty of guys out there for you..


♥ steph

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My boyfriend likes to grab my butt when were standin upp and kissing.. he later told me that it makes me kiss more when he does that.. [ there was a joke involved but you wouldnt understand] anyways.. i sorda wanna get him back.. so where should i touch him that he'll kiss more? =).

i think you should grab his butt and squee it and message.. i hope u get what i am saying..lol..

♥ steph

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I know from scabs and cuts that I get scars all the time.. Is there anything I can use (cream) to put on these cuts/scrapes that will reduce the scarring or hopefully leave no scar at all?

Ill rate high...please respond fast =/

thanks a tonnnn

OMG i was at the skin doctor the other day and he gave these samples and the product that it was is called scar thearpy. it isnt a cream (sorry) it is liek a bandage that you put on your scar it will make the go away faster but what he told the scar is just the skin healing itself. i have them to everytime i get cut. and i asked why does it take so long to heal and named it this long name which i dont remember(sorry) . hope this helps.

♥ Steph

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17 female my exboyfriend told me he wanted to talk to have a talk with me I was just wondering is that bad or good?

i cant rreally tell what it is about because there are so many things it could be about. the only way for you to know is to ask.

♥ Steph

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if my boyfriend was jacking off and then after he fingered me , is there a chance that i could get pregnant?

a very unlikely chance. it depend on a couple things. if he cummed? or had any sperm on his hand? and how long after?

♥ stephanie

p.s
m i wouldnt worry about i dont think it is likely.

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if you have sex and use a condom what are your chances of getting pregnant or std's? is there a certain time during the month where you're more likely to become pregnent?

there will always be a chance that some thing can go wrong with the condom even if you are on birth control.

there is a day that you wont be getting pregnant but i wouldnt depend those days on the days to have sex.

♥ steph

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this question is for both boys and girls.Let;s say you really like someone, and she/he is single.Would you still go out with them even though they have had two or three girl/boy friends in the past?or do people prefer girls/guys that haven't been attached before?
For instance, I prefer girls who haven't had a boyfriend before to girls who have.

personaly it doesnt matter to me. i love to be a guys first but if i am not then it is ok. if i am into him and he is into me that is what matters. i have been with my bf for a year now and still whenever he talks about another girl i get jealous. i question the hell out of him about her and even though i know he loves me i still get jealous.
it is grat to go out with someone who hasnt had past realtionships but then again. it is harder because you gotta make them open up to you and they dont all know what to do. hope thsi helps
♥ Steph

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is it safe 2 masturbate???i mean can you get any thing like aids or something like that from doing it???i masturbate maby once a month and i just want 2 make sure its safe!!

its safe because you cant get pregnant and you no you really cant get aids from it.

♥ Steph

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what's cleavage?

cleavage is when a girl lets her shirt go down so low that you can see between her cheat.
♥ steph

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I am 13 and I am not muscley and manly at all, but I am like really strong. I beat all my girl friends in arm wrestling and arm things, and I can take pain. Guys always seem so impressed with the fact that I am so strong, and I can even beat some boys, and one guy even said if he had to choose someone to save his life out of all his friends it would be me. But I am wondering, do most guys find that disturbing and like petite weak girls that they can like beat easily? I lift small weights and do little arm exercise things sometimes, but then I think maybe I should stop doing that because it might be unattractive. Thanks!

it all really depends on the guy. i know some guys dont like it because it scares them because the girl can hit hard and they dont like it when she is stronger then them. it all depends.

♥ Steph

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i wouldnt think it was lame, no.. but then im a peculiar sort of guy ive been told..=) just depends on what kinda guy your dateing i suppose.. im not reall feminine.. my x actually used to accuse me of being violent and brutish lol.. i dont think i would go that far though.. but i deffinatly have a romantic side.. the braclet idea would be good to me.. but then maybe a necklace would be better.. most guys arent fond of braclets.. i know im not.. but the whole name thing and all that was what i was approving of lol.. my x did somethin kinda like that except she scrathed her initials into my hand with a piece of metal =/ at first i wasnt going to let her but she started putting my initial on her hand and wasnt going to stop till i offered my hand.. kinda crazy and wierd to me but after it was done and healed up i got pretty fond of it. anyways.. yeah go for somethin like that.. its not bad and i know i would like it

i kinda already did that on his birthday. i got him a dogtag that on the front had a picture of me adn on the back it said"no matter what you will always be in my heart" so i dont really want get him another one because he will probably be expecting it.. so yea..


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ok i can help you out with that pretty good.. and i dont really need any info i dont think.. most guys r the same way with this kinda stuff and honestly all we want ( if its a serious relationship witch im sure it is after a year ) is attention.. get your parents out of the house or his if you can.. rent a few movies.. his favorites preferably.. but at least one thats a cuddle movie.. thats somethin that scares you.. makes you cry exc.. anything were he will feel obligated to hold you =)before he comes start makeing his favorite meal for dinner.. if you can cook =). try and have it done about the time he gets there.. share a desert like you went to a fancy resturaunt.. im sure your getting the idea by now.. after dinner you watch those movies.. do the cuddling thing.. and about at the end of that movie.. or until you think he cant stand it no more if you picked a moivie that makes you cry ( im sure he wont be that interested = ) give him the gift you got him. now this is were i cant help you too much.. if you have had sex before..buy yourself some leingerie or however you spell it and just take off your outer clothin infront of him... if you havent had sex before and want to.. maybe put a bow on while he aint looking and very romantically/sexually tell him to unwrap you.. thats a good one =).. if you havent had sex and dont want to.. then your gonna have to buy him somethin.. to be honest.. anything will work really.. my ex bought me colonge she liked one time and i was thrilled just because i wasnt even sure if she would think of me.. plus it actually got her wet when i wore it so that was pretty cool =). if the last option is what you want and need help picking out a gift then tell me a little bit about him.. hope this helps.. oh myspace is shoot2thrill

i wish i could do all of that but i cant. because of the fact my parents dont aprove of a boyfriend and his money wont leave the house unles she is at work which in sunday (2 weeks from now) she will be home so cant do any of that.

i am thinkin about the idea of takin him out to eat and gettin him a gift. do u think it would be lame if i got him like a promise braclet. like one wit my name on it and the day we started going out and i get one for myself that has his name on it??

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Doctors recommend it but yet and still so many Americans turn they nose up at! Why do you think so?

i agree wit the girl that first answered this. sometimes i go out in public to amusement park or even to the mall and i see woman walking around breatfreeding and acting like it is nothing. like it a cool thing to show everyone your breat. i personaly dont know if i would it. it would depend on my Job and how my life is going but i know one thing. sooner or later there will more advance things and people dont like doing what is old anymore they all like the knew.
♥ Steph

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Does it hurt more when you finger yourself, or someone fingers you? Or is it the same? And does it hurt like A LOT or do you barley feel it, or does it feel good the first time? I need to know.

alright i will be happy to be the first to answer your question. at first it feels werid but if you have woren a tampon before it shouldnt hurt as much. it is possible for him to pop ur cherry while he is doing that so it can hurt but it shouldnt hurt as much because it is supposed to feel good.
♥ Steph

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i answerd ya but dont know if u got it.. but yeah of course u can ask a question.. by the way i dont have to worry about her anymore.. the guy she was cheating on me with started talking with me and when he found out about me he got pissed to.. apparently he thought he was the only one in her life.. so now she aint got either of us.. still makes me sad though.. anyways i guess now i just need to learn how to move on.

yea you do sorry bae. sorry i didnt answer u i havent been on lately.

whats ur myspace so i can add you =)

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i will do that.. an of course.. u can ask me anything... shoot.

alright so me and my bf one year annivery is coming up on the 6th and idk what to get him or what to do? keep in my mind i am 15 1/2 and he is 16 1/2 and if u need any infromation abotu him i will gladely help you out

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