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Do guys like strong girls?
I am 13 and I am not muscley and manly at all, but I am like really strong. I beat all my girl friends in arm wrestling and arm things, and I can take pain. Guys always seem so impressed with the fact that I am so strong, and I can even beat some boys, and one guy even said if he had to choose someone to save his life out of all his friends it would be me. But I am wondering, do most guys find that disturbing and like petite weak girls that they can like beat easily? I lift small weights and do little arm exercise things sometimes, but then I think maybe I should stop doing that because it might be unattractive. Thanks!
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it all really depends on the guy. i know some guys dont like it because it scares them because the girl can hit hard and they dont like it when she is stronger then them. it all depends.
♥ Steph
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i'm 15/f and have a lot of upper body strength. i play tenor sax in band at school so i always have to carry around this huge instrument case (i'm only about 5'3"). my guy friends are kind of impressed with my arm wrestling skills. i do intimidate some of my guy friends, but they're weaklings. i used to lift small weights but the only reason i quit was because my arms got so big that some of my shirts didn't fit! lol. but my guy friends are grossed out by really weak girls. and besides, i like being the strong chick because i don't ever need help lifting stuff. actually, i've had some guys offer to carry my saxophone when i've had my hands full and they're always like, "good gravy, how do you carry this?!" anyway, guys still treat me the same but they know that they can't take advantage of me or i'll beat them up.
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Well guys like the happy medium. He likes girls that are weak so the guys can protect us, and then again they like a girl who is independant and can fight her own battles.
So, just go somewhere in the middle.
Good luck
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