okay, i need a song or a few songs that are like decribing a relationship that changed and saying that you want things to be how they used to be
any helppp?
thanks
ohhhhh i LOVE these kind of songs :)
told you so- jesse mccartney
will work for love- usher
right here (departed)- brandy
tshirt- shontelle
mad- ne-yo
relapse- jesse mccartney
runnin- jesse mccartney
IF YOU NEED MORE LET ME KNOW! ♥ LU
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Alright, well i just went to my first gyno appt yesterday. I am 16/f and i am sexually active. My mom wants to put me on birth control. Thing is, i am not sure which one would be good for me. I DO NOT want to do the depo shot, ive heard bad things about it, plus i dont want to gain weight. And i do not want to use the ring, or yaz.
I was thinking about the patch? i want your experiences with different types of birth control. Blood clots run in my family from birth control, but if im on a low dosage it shouldnt matter. Again, i would rather not gain any weight, a little would be okay though.
Let me here your thoughts :]
Thank you very much!
birth control pills are one of the most effective methods for preventing pregnancy. a study of more than 6,000 women in the United States showed that ortho tri cyclen lo is safe and highly effective. i'm on the pill and have been for about two years and i am taking the ortho tri clylen lo. it may reduce cramps and give you shorter, lighter, more predictable periods, with low occurrence of common side effects. you may be less likely to experience unexpected bleeding and spotting than may occur with another leading brand. it is a low-dose birth control pill you take every day. when taken as directed, it delivers a low dose of hormones that works to prevent you from becoming pregnant. it is a triphasic birth control pill, which means that it delivers a different level of hormones for 3 weeks (white, light blue and dark blue pills) and no hormones for 1 week (green pills). now when i first started taking it i had no side effects at all. no weight gain, no spotted bleeding inbetween periods, nothing. my doctor said that this would be the best one for me to take, so she prescribed it to me and i've been taking it ever since. you can also go talk to a doctor. tell him or her that you want to get on it, and see what they recommend. my doctor said that the depo was not good for someone my age, and at that time i was 16 too so you're right about hearing bad things about depo. well i hoped i helped somewhat :) if you need anything else let me know! ♥ LU
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This question is for guys.....if your girlfriend consistently asks you to come to family get-togethers...do you enjoy them or really want to go? Guess the question is do you like or mind hanging out with her family
okay well i'm not a guy but i grew up with guys my whole life so i think i can help you. my brother has been going out with his girlfriend for three years. everytime he has to go to a family birthday party or get together with her side of the family, he never wants to go. he says it's boring haha but guess what? he still goes. he is close with her uncle though, so everytime he does go he just jokes around with him and well her family is very nice but it's just not his thing. all guys are different but most guys i know don't like doing things like this. my best friend is a guy, and he absolutely loves my family though because they are crazy and i guess you could say entertaining and well he is a very outgoing guy so he fits right in. it really does depend on the family, and well your boyfriend. i know you wanted a guys perspective but i think i helped you out somewhat :) if you need anything else let me know ♥ LU
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So there is this guy. We've been friends for like 3 years, and I've always liked him but never told him. The other day, we were hanging out and he kissed me. Of course, I was really excited. But, I don't really know if he meant anything by it; I mean, we were all alone and he might have just been caught up in the moment. I know the reasonable thing to do would be to ask him about it, but I'm pretty sure he'll just say "oh no, that kiss meant nothing". Like, it was such a good moment that I want to remember it as something sepcial, not as something that didn't mean anything. I know that sounds stupid but I just don't want to ruin that memory...and I'm thinking maybe if I don't say anything and we hung out more, it would happen again, you know? Eh. I really don't know what to do.
haha this is funny, because the same thing happened to me just last weekend! me and my best friend have been friends for about three and a half years, i've always liked him but i don't think he ever realized it, well until now. what happened is we were both in my room, watching a hockey game and well we started cuddling and me being the kind of person i am, sat in his lap and i looked at him and he then kissed me. i was shocked, i didn't see this coming at all. well then i kind of took it like he had feelings for me so then after that we were flirting more, and "messing around" not exactly doing sexual things but just touching each other and things like that. so you can either approach this two different ways. next time you two hang out, if he starts hard core flirting with you, and touching you then do it back and see what his reaction is. then you could make a move like sit on his lap or something to that sort and see what happens from there. if he does end up kissing you again you could look at him and smile afterwards and be like "where did that come from." the second thing you could do, is ask him. i know that you are afraid of what he might say but you don't want to keep going day by day wondering "what if.." you know? maybe he was caught up in the moment, but i have a strong feeling that he likes you back :) if you need any other help let me know girl ♥ LU
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I met this guy over the summer. we talked once. I met him on halloween at his big party. he kept flirting with me, he was really sweet. later on a bunch of us (guys from my school who he knew also & my cousins & her friends) all started party hopping. it was fun & he was such a sweetie all nite.
After that night, we talkedd on aim a lot. I was really starting to like him.! so I realized that one of my friends knew him and I asked her about him. she told me; "oh yea. are u guys talking?" I said we were just attracted to each other but weren't talking like that." then she said "oh because you know he has a gf of 10 months!" WOWWWW. I told her I'd confront him & I did. he called me and he admitted he did, but I had reminded him of his 1st love. we talkd on the phone more for about 2hours. I knew I should hav just got off the phone after I asked and been done. he kept flirting & I wuldnt flirt back & he'd say "gosh you remind me of her so much blah." ugggh. its so wrong.
the next week my cousin and I had a house to ourselves & her & him talk as friends & she wanted him to come over. I said ok, so we could all hang out. We watched funny youtube videos. I was really starting to like him unfortunately.! We were watching a movie & got bored & started talking. We were talking TOO much, started kissing, & stuff happened, but not sex. I am NOT the type of girl to do that I don't know why I did that. after we were done. We talked for about an hour. he said he felt really bad & I did too. I asked about his girlfriend and it sounded like she didn't have time for him. she never shows up to any of his football games, she never calls them, they text only after school, and never wants to hang out over the weekend. I can say I didn't believe him at first, but our mutual friend agreed.
The next night he invited us to a party. We got lost & he left the party super far away to meet us. he even took his friends car. But anyways, All of his gf's friends were there except her. We then left with him in different cars & stayed later.
But wow. I feel really bad. He really wants me to his game friday. I want to, but I just want to be done with him. I'm disappointed in myself, I know what it feels like to be cheated on. I don't know how to let him go? wat to say or anything?
holyyyy, i am going through this too girl. my BEST FRIEND has a girlfriend of a year, and wants to hook up with me. of course i like the kid, i would hook up with him but i would feel too guilty. i'm always like you know i want to, but you know whats holding me back and thats your girlfriend. he acts like it's no big deal. well we've been talking and everytime we hang out, he tries to do something sexual with me, i push him away. last weekend, he told me him and his girlfriend were on a break so now i don't know what to do. sorry i went on about myself but i just wanted to show you how i handled it. and so i think you should talk to this kid straight up. tell him that you really like him, but can't do anything while he has a girlfriend. ask him why he stays with her, if he is trying to get with other girls. thats what i said to my best friend. as for the football game, you can go if you want to. it's not like your breaking any rules, you just want to watch "a friend" ;) play. i've realized that i need to move on because i don't want to be inbetween this anymore. if him and his girlfriend broke up i wouldn't want it to be because of me and if me and him did end up going out i think i would have trust issues with him because i would always be worried he is with other girls. hunnie it's extremely hard, trust me i know but if you know it's the right thing to do you have to be strong! there are probably other guys out there dying to be with you, while your caught up in someone who is already taken. you will get through this, you deserve the best. if you need anything i'm always open to talk. ♥ LU
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18 years old, female...
i have the worst luck with guys. i've liked the same guy for like two years now but he's had a girlfriend of seems like forever. me and him are pretty close, and i'm sure that now he knows i like him. i know he is attracted to me too, and wants to get physical but obviously not going to happen since he has a girlfriend. when he says he wants to get with me i say, "you know i want to, but you also know there is always something holding me back.." and he'll be like and what is that i will be like your GIRLFRIEND. well tonight he texted me and we're suppose to hang out tomorrow but he texted me tonight and was like, what are you doing and i was like just with my friends and i was like how bout you and he was just like, with some dudes.. lets hang out. i said, i can't im with my friends AND your with your friends! and he was like i'll leave. and then i was like but i wont, see me tomorrow! and then he was like "fuck you tomorrow" meaning he wants to have sex. but we havent done ANYTHING keep in mind, not even kiss. and then thats when again i was like you know whats holding me back, your girlfriend. and he was like just don't think about it, we're like breaking away kind of anyways its not how it use to be (this is true i've noticed) and then i respond by saying well then please tell me why you're still with her and he said, "i dont know, i feel bad like to break up and im all close to her family and stuff and i would be pissed if she got with another guy" i know that it would be hard, i understand but i just don't get it so then i was kind of upset and was like "well you can have fun with her for the rest of your life" and he was like haha oh yeah. that wouldn't happen. i'm just so confused. don't tell me he's a jerk, not a good friend and everything else that may go through your mind i don't want to hear that. they have been going out for 2 and a half years which is long. they haven't had any other boyfriends or girlfriends except each other. I UNDERSTAND it would be extremely hard but for me, it's even harder. i thought they would end up breaking up, but when i heard what he said i was shattered, heartbroken, everything you could feel at once... if they broke up, of course i would give him alone time, i would give him freedom i wouldn't pressure him to go out with me or anything. i don't see how he can say he doesn't want to break up with her, but doesn't want to be with her forever? i'm so lost you don't even know...i still want to be friends with the kid but i'm completely head over heals for him and nothing or nobody will change that.
i know who this is, baby you will get through this your such a strong girl. you know i'll always be here for you. if you want to talk about this, lets meet up :)
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i made out with 3 guys on saturday.
now im sick with a bad headache, really tired, fever, and my throat hurts really bad.
one of the kids i kissed is a man whore!
he kisses tons of girls apparently, which i found out on sunday! haha.
the other kid i kissed is feeling sick, and so is this girl he kissed after me.
does that basically mean the man whore guy probably gave me mono and i gave it to the other kid, who gave it to the other girl? lol
and is it even possible to get mono only 5 days after i kissed someone or does it take more time to start feeling sick..?
thanks
well when i had mono i was REALLY tired, like i would get enough sleep and i was still so tired. i would take naps and when i woke up from them i felt like i didn't get any sleep. mono is usually spread by person-to-person contact. saliva is the primary method of transmitting mono. infectious mono developed its common name of "kissing disease" from this prevalent form of transmission among teenagers. a person with mono can also pass the disease by coughing or sneezing, causing small droplets of infected saliva and/or mucus to be suspended in the air which can be inhaled by others. sharing food or beverages from the same container or utensil can also transfer the virus from one person to another since contact with infected saliva may result. now symptoms usually begin to appear 4 to 7 weeks after infection with the virus. some signs that you may have mono include: constant fatigue, fever, sore throat, loss of appetite, swollen lymph nodes (commonly called glands, located in your neck, underarms, and groin) headaches, sore muscles, and abdominal pain. Always consult your doctor if you have a fever, sore throat, and swollen glands or are unusually tired for no apparent reason. because the symptoms of mono are so general and can be signs of other illnesses, it's possible to mistake mono for the flu, strep throat, or other diseases. in fact, occasionally some people may have mono and strep throat at the same time. if you are not feeling better within a week, i suggest you go see a doctor! i'm sure you caught some sort of illness. hope you feel better ♥ LU
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I like this guy he is in my Seminary class and I totally like him. He's not exactly hott or pretty. His voice is so amazing. He doesn't sing or anything. He's not very tall, but he has thick black hair and dark skin with dark brown huge eyes. I think i'm in love with him. So he got in a crash and I gave him a note that said Hope things get better, thanks for being a friend. He said it was sweet. I am sixteen and LDS. So I can date and I don't think he'll want to go out with me because I'm fat :( what would you do ?????
email: animalandarts@gmail.com
hiiiii(:
well i don't think you're in love with him but i do think you like him alot. unfortunately right now i think he might only see you as a friend because you haven't given him any hint that you like him more than that. even in the note you wrote him you said, "thanks for being a friend" so you have to let him know you like him more than a friend. don't ever think negatively about yourself girl, LOOKS AREN'T EVERYTHING. it's whats on the inside. people see me and say wow she's hot or pretty, she must be a slut, and stuck up who only likes hot guys which is WRONG. i mean yes there has to be an attraction but i like guys who are funny, who can make me smile and laugh. truth is, alot of the hot guys are just jerks who want sex and i'm not just a piece of meat. so you see, confidence is the key. be outgoing, be funny, be yourself. he will like you for who you are and not just for what you look like. if he is a shallow guy, yeah he will only go for the hot slut who will give a guy whatever he wants but i know you're so much better than that and i hope you respect yourself. if you need anything i'm always here. i know you can do this, i believe in you ♥ LU
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I am a 16 year old male. My problem is that I met this freshman in my high school named Bria. She's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in my entire life and I've never felt this way about any other crush in my life, normally I would forget about a crush in a matter of 2-3 weeks. But this girl, I've liked for at least 3 months now, and I cannot find the way to ask her to go out with me. Let alone impress her, I feel like I'm not attractive enough for her, not worthy enough, but I know that if she gave me a chance, that I could treat her better than any other guy ALIVE! But, so far she only knows my nickname that I go by, and she only speaks to me rarely and that's when we're in class and she needs something like, "what order are we supposed to staple these papers" and what-not. I feel that it will be nearly impossible MIRACLE if I ever got a chance with her, I've even prayed occasionally, and nothing's happened, I even tried to forget about her, but everytime i say that I'm going to, I only think even harder of me and her and what our future could be like. On a scale of 1 to 10, she's ranked a 10, and I'm like a 6-7. Someone that has my empathy help me with this one.
THIS IS ADORABLE [: when i read this, it really gave me butterflies. seriously this girl would be so lucky to have a guy like you. what you need to do is build up the confidence to start talking to her, i know this might be hard but if you don't take chances, you may never know how amazing something could turn out to be. i notice guys when they say something funny to me, when they can make me laugh. when they can keep a conversation going and not be boring. catch her attention. but like the person said below me, don't be creepy about it because i've had that happen before and really it's just weird. don't try to be overly funny either because sometimes that can just lead to awkwardness and her thinking you are trying too hard. first talk to her, get her attention and then when you do that you can show her how much you care and she will see that you are one of very FEW guys who knows how to treat a lady right. don't move too fast either because that could also freak her out. don't say stuff like i've had a crush on you for so long, or you're perfect when you first start talking to her. when guys tell me i'm perfect i get annoyed because really IM NOT. nobody's perfect. i hope things work out for you, you deserve the best boy. you seem like one amazing person. keep it up ♥ LU
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do nose piercings look trashy or slutty?
anyone with a nose piercing-- do they scar if you take them out, and do they get infected easily?
personally, i don't have one but all my friends do and i don't think they look trashy or slutty at all. it's just another piercing [: everyone tell's me that i should get it done but it's just not me. none of my friends got infected. make sure that you DONT use alcohol to clean it though use neo sporen if you have it or certain ear cleaning solution you can buy. make sure you turn it and keep it clean! i know this because i do have 9 piercings! if you get it done without a back on, be sure to put like a band-aid over it for the first couple nights before you go to bed because if it falls out, it's not going to go back in. don't listen to what other people are saying, if you want it you should get it! ♥ LU
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ok i just got off myspace and saw this guy who use to like me ALOT and me alittle him i saw him with his girlfriendf i guess i shouldnt feel bad or sad because i didnt like him that much but it hurt me to see a pic of his new girl should i feel this way i'm confused the only reason i stop talkin to him because we kissed and i didnt feel anything why do u think i feel this way
this always happens to me
i think we feel this way because, when you see someone else is happy with him you think that it could of been you in her place. all these guys like me, but i never have the same feelings in return so when they eventually find a girlfriend, i feel a bit jealous.
it's okay to feel this way, it's completely normal. it just wasn't meant to be for the two of you, and he found someone that is more compatible for him. i think you're feeling so upset because someone really liked you, you feel like someone cared about you but now that he found someone else, you feel like nobody likes you anymore like everyone is better than you.
at least that's how i always feel. i hope you don't let this bring you down by any means. there are plenty of guys out there and one day you will find the one who is right for you. if you need anything else let me know hun ♥ LU
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I was on the phone to my boyfriend last night, and he suggested that I go on the pill, thinking that it would be quite a good idea. Think this is because we had a bit of a scare after the last time we had sex, as when he came out of me, the condom stayed in my vagina, and there was a lot of spillage.
Anyway, we don't live anywhere near each other... I live on an island, a two hour boat ride and two hour car journey away from him, as he lives on Mainland Scotland. We see each other once a month if we're lucky.
But I hadn't even thought about the pill, as we see each other so little, and being 15 is also an issue. He's 17 by the way. I always thought just using a condom was fine... And there is no way that I would be able to get the pill easily here, everybody knows everybody and everybody's business on the island.
Do you think that it would be worth my while to seriously think about it? And if I decided to start on the pill, is it possible for me to ask somebody else to get it for me? Advice would definately be appreciated. Thank you.
well i went on the pill when i was 16 years old, which is two years ago. i didn't do it because i was having sex i took it to regulate my period but when i did become sexually active, it also protected me! i would suggest you start using the pill, it does wonders [: even if your not sexually active everyday. with me, i had no side effects which was awesome but it does vary with different people. talk to your mom about it, and tell her you want to go on it for your period, and it also helps with your cramps. it's really nothing to be embarassed about. i wouldn't have someone go get it for you, get it yourself so you can make sure your going on the right pill, and if you have ANY questions they can help you. please please dont be scared to go get it, it's not a big deal AT ALL, doctors are use to this sorta thing. if you need anything else, let me know girl ♥ LU
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okay, my boyfriend is turning 16. i've already gotten him a shirt, but now i'm looking for some little, inexpensie things to get him to go with it.
I need help asap!
Thanks,
May-Elle.
well when i was going out with my boyfriend i got him..
a hat, a picture frame, with a picture of us two [: his favorite candy, a gas card (if he will be driving anytime soon) and i wrote him a note, just telling him how lucky i was to be with him and how he makes me smile, and makes me feel like the luckiest girl in the world and at the end, i put a quote from our song! if you need any more ideas let me know hun ♥ LU!
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I've been with my boyfriend for 3 & a half years in December. We love each other a lot and have fun when we're together, but sometimes I'm way too insecure about our relationship. Keep in mind these are just small things that don't affect our relationship on a daily basis, and that he is somewhat shy, and is much less mature than I am.
Recently, a friend of ours got engaged to her boyfriend of 5 years or so. So we were talking about it and I asked if he had ever thought about proposing/getting engaged. He answered no. This kind of hurt my feelings, considered we began college this year and I figured some thought of that sort would have at least run through his mind at some point if he was really serious about loving me "more than anything, forever & ever."
Also, his mother drives me insane. She still controls most of his life. His sister plays high school volleyball, and she makes him go to a lot of her games. He's 19 & we're in college- he has many other committments. Thing is, he doesn't oppose this. He is quite a "mommy's boy" and doesn't ever do anything to upset her. It's like neither of them can let go of the fact that he's becoming an adult.
I also am insecure about the way he tells/shows me his feelings. Like, if he says "I love you more than anything forever and ever" (our usual goodbye phrase) too fast, it bothers me. And if we're texting and he just puts "ily!", it also bothers me. And if I kiss him on the cheek and I expect a kiss back and don't get it, I feel kinda of hurt. When I tell him I miss the cute things we used to do, nothing changes that much, or if it does, it only lasts a few days. I can't stand that I'm like this, but I can't help it, either.
Don't get me wrong, I love him. He means the world to me and we have so many amazing memories. But sometimes these things just make me so insecure about our relationship and I can't help but compare us to other couples. Since it's been 3.5 years, we're quite past the 'infatuation phase' and some of the spark is gone, even though he does make an effort now and then to be cutesy. There are a few other things I could name that bother me about him/our relationship, but it all comes down to his personality/just the way he is, which I don't want to change. But I can't help but wonder, would I be happier with a more mature guy? If he doesn't think about marrying me someday, aren't I just wasting my time? I don't even exactly know what I'm asking, haha. I just need some advice.
i think i can help you on this one. my best friend has been going out with his girlfriend for three years, they're only seniors in high school its crazy. he tells me a lot about their relationship, and what he's thinking because he feels i am the only one he can talk to about it and will understand. so this is what he's told me before. he's told me that he doesn't feel the need to be "cute" with her anymore like he use to and doesn't feel like he needs to impress her anymore. he said he doesn't need to be like, "baby you look really cute today" just things like that. he says that he is feeling like he is trapped, and he wants to go out and do other things but his girlfriend always wants to hang out and he feels bad saying no, so he does. i think everyone who has been going out for a while, loses their spark. you need to be the one to spice it up, if you're boyfriend isn't going to. maybe it did freak him out that you started talking about getting married because he feels like he's still young and has stuff to accomplish. i know that my friends brother and his now fiance were going out two years, and he proposed to her but they're not getting married until two more years because she want's to be done with college and everything. ask him what his intentions are. tell him you don't know what you're feeling and tell him you feel like you're putting all the effort into this, and you want to know what the future holds for you two, if anything. sweetie, COMMUNICATION is really important. i'm sure you will have no problem talking to him about it, you have been going out for three and a half years. well i hope i helped at least a little bit, you know i'm always open to help people in any way i can. best of luck to the both of you! ♥ LU
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I cant explain why i dont even know why im just in love with this guy and it causes me so much pain ik he dosen't like me i just needa know how i can get over him. any tips or anything would be great. thanks
love is such a confusing thing, but it can truly be one of the best feelings in the world. i've had my heart broken two times, believe me it's hard to move on. it's like you've been fighting the urge to text him and tell him you miss him, you don't want him to know anymore but you wonder if he misses you at all or if he's just happy you've finally let him go. it's easiest when you don't see him, i won't deny that, but you just want to be able to see him without it hurting, right? you don't want him out of your life forever and you don't want him to forget you so why not TRY being friends with him. that's what i did with my ex boyfriend. we're still best friends [: and i clearly stated we could never be anything more but it's nice knowing i have someone who i can still trust with everything i have. it's like you love it when you see him, but you're better when he's gone. i've been through this too many times. if your positive you don't want to see him anymore, stay busy. focus on school and your friends. go out with your girls and just have a good time. if he's not waiting around for you, you shouldn't waste your time on him right! i know you're strong, and i know you will get through this. need anything else, drop one in the inbox. ♥ LU
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hey you seem lke a good person to ask:D I can't get over this one boy who i've liked for so long. He dosen't even treatt me right and ive told him my feelings. we used to hookup but now hes just turned into a dick. i dont want to hookup iwth him anymore it just hurts me more. ive been in a huge fight with his friends and now i have no guy friends, hes kinda my friend but not really, and i go to no parties. its making me depressed i dont know what to do. o yeah and there girls are all obnoxcious to me since me and the guys fight i only have my best friend(girl)
girl, don't ever bring yourself down. they're not worth it. like i've told people before, i was in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for a little over a year and he just treated me like crap, ask me why i stayed with him? i couldn't tell ya. i've learned the hard way with friends with benefits, i've learned that boys just want you for sex and hooking up and the girl always seems to get attached and the boy absolutely has no feelings for the girl. make new friends, be nice to everyone [: life's too short so don't dwell on things that have happened in the past, look to the future! hang out with your best girl friend, and i'm sure you two can meet new people. hang out with some of her friends! just don't ever bring yourself down to other people's level your so much better than that. show them that you can make new friends and show them you're the bigger person and just ignore them. don't rush into things with guys, let the guy come to you and dont give in with sex because when the right guy comes around, he will wait until whenever your ready. you should throw a party, invite people at school! if you need any more help let me know girl. stay strong, i know you will get through this ♥ LU
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im very inexperienced when it comes to boyfriends, ive only had one which lasted only a week. so can you please tell me what are some cute things to do or say to your boyfriend?
text him at night, and say something like.. good night love you babe (if you're to that level) or you can text him in the morning and say something like.. good morning baby, have a good day at school [: or if you go to the same school you could just say, good morning baby can't wait to see you today. if you just want to text him randomly you can say something corny which i think is cute. to my ex boyfriend i would always tell him how lucky of a girl i was to be with him. tell him how he makes you smile! just give him compliments. it really all depends on how long you have been going out for. i'm not sure what you mean when you say do to your boyfriend so if you could clarify that im sure i could help you! if you want some more things to say let me know how long you've been going out with him because i'm not sure what level you guys are at right now! ♥ LU
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ok umm what should you do if the boy you like goes and asks your friend out?
forget about him. that right there just shows how much of a jerk he is! i know this might sound really shallow, but it's the truth. trust me i've been screwed over too many times and i learned that i need to do what's best for me. you deserve so much better than that. let me know if you need any other boy advice, i've been through pretty much everything. ♥ LU
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Hey, so im 15 and im a female.
i've had sex once like about 6 months ago.
i kinda regret my first time. but im was over that and everything is good. lol.
sooo, what i need some advice on is that im going to homecoming with this guy in which ive known since i was like 11 or 12 and who i trust with just about anythinggg! and hes a good guy i guess you can say that. me and him are really good friends and he thinks im gorgeous and he says he likes me or w.e and i really like him, and we've hooked up before (not sex, but like other sexual things) and stuff like that. and we were talking about homecoming and he was saying that we were gna have sex after, and i just laughed about it and never offically agreed, but do you think i should? i mean i know im ready for sex, but i wanna have a relationship with him and i want him to take me seriously. but i also wanna have sex, its been a pretty long time. lmao.. help?!!!!
thanks everyone!
im same situationnnn girlie! i've been best friends with this guy for five years and just last weekend we were talking about sex. he is the only boy i can trust, the only boy who actually knows everything about me and still loves me for who i am. i really don't know what to do. i've been losing sleep over this. i want to have sex with him obviously because i do love him but i don't want it to mess up our friendship. i'm also scared that if we do have sex i'm going to start really loving him and i'm scared he's just going to think of me as a best friend, with benefits. i would talk to him, tell him how you feel. ask what would happen if you did have sex, tell him your scared because you feel you would develop strong feelings for him and see what his response is to that. ask if he would ever think of you as more than just a friend! communication is the key to any friendship or relationship [: if you do end up having sex remember to be safe! good luck hun, let me know how things go! ♥ LU
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just like the title says. im 17/male. and i guess for a dude, when i find a girl i like, i mean really like. i fall hard for them. then something happens, and it ends. but my problem now is this girl who i've known for about 6 months or so. and around aug. sept. we got serious. but it was wierd b/c, we really wasnt "going out" but we acted liked it. in sept. we went to the fair together, made out, had alot of fun. but we still wasnt "going out".and i asked her out, she said no, and basicly the reason was b/c shes best friends with one of her exs. and that was the reason b/c the dude don't really like me. and me and the girl told each other we loved each other all the time. but still wasnt "going out". and few weeks after we went to the fair, we started drifting apart, and i asked just the other day if she still loved me. she tells me that just as a friend. and basicly she jumped the gun when we went to the fair. so im hurting bad. still love her/like her w/e. and it sucks. can't sleep. don't eat much. and idk what to do really. so just some guideance would be really nice.
hey boy! cheer up [: i've been through this. don't let this girl get away. you found someone who can make you smile, don't ever give up on her! i think it's dumb that she led you on, but girls are confusing sometimes. maybe you can work things out with her ex-boyfriend, maybe she still LOVES her ex-boyfriend and is not telling you because she feels bad. you need to talk to her, ask her what the real reason is. don't go on living your life wondering "what if.." tell her you don't want her out of your life. i thought that if i lost contact with the person i loved, my feelings would fade. turns out the exact opposite happened. i thought about it everyday, and my feelings grew stronger for him. you can't let this stop you from living life, you deserve to be happy. if in the end things just don't work out between you two, still be friends with her. i learned it's better to have someone in your life even if they're just friends than not talking to them at all. i hope things work out, if you need anymore advice let me know. good luck ♥ LU!
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