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Sex after homecoming?
Hey, so im 15 and im a female.
i've had sex once like about 6 months ago.
i kinda regret my first time. but im was over that and everything is good. lol.
sooo, what i need some advice on is that im going to homecoming with this guy in which ive known since i was like 11 or 12 and who i trust with just about anythinggg! and hes a good guy i guess you can say that. me and him are really good friends and he thinks im gorgeous and he says he likes me or w.e and i really like him, and we've hooked up before (not sex, but like other sexual things) and stuff like that. and we were talking about homecoming and he was saying that we were gna have sex after, and i just laughed about it and never offically agreed, but do you think i should? i mean i know im ready for sex, but i wanna have a relationship with him and i want him to take me seriously. but i also wanna have sex, its been a pretty long time. lmao.. help?!!!!
thanks everyone! <3333
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im same situationnnn girlie! i've been best friends with this guy for five years and just last weekend we were talking about sex. he is the only boy i can trust, the only boy who actually knows everything about me and still loves me for who i am. i really don't know what to do. i've been losing sleep over this. i want to have sex with him obviously because i do love him but i don't want it to mess up our friendship. i'm also scared that if we do have sex i'm going to start really loving him and i'm scared he's just going to think of me as a best friend, with benefits. i would talk to him, tell him how you feel. ask what would happen if you did have sex, tell him your scared because you feel you would develop strong feelings for him and see what his response is to that. ask if he would ever think of you as more than just a friend! communication is the key to any friendship or relationship [: if you do end up having sex remember to be safe! good luck hun, let me know how things go! ♥ LU
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Hi,
I think you have to ask yourself what you want and what you are looking for with this guy. You say the two of you have known each other for a long time and that's all well and good. The question is do you want to risk complicating things with sex?
Good friends are hard to find now days.
He sounds pretty presumptuous to me. Have you all talked about having sex before?
Hey, if all you are looking for is to hook up and have a good time, then by all means go for it! But don't be surprised or disappointed if you are looking for something more serious and that's all he wants. What I'm trying to say is go into it with your eyes wide open and if you can't read him, ask him what he's looking for out of it. Then you can make your decision. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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