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this was sex right?
i know this may sound stupid, but me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year and tried to have sex for the first time and it was both of ours first time ever last week. it was kind of hard to like get it in ya know so we didn't have like full on sex, but his penis did go in me a few times..so was that sex? i mean i know it probably was but i don't think he cummed from it so i was just wondering
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It's still sex when his penis enters your vagina. It doesn't matter if he didn't cum or for however long you did it for.
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Yes, even a little bit of penetration is still sex. A lot of people's first time doesn't last very long.
You did mention that you don't think he cummed- there is no way for you to know unless he tells you. Even if he didn't come, pre-cum is still chock full of sperm, so you need to use a condom every single time to prevent pregnancy- better yet, if you think you are going to continue having sex from now on, consider also going on birth control.
You should monitor your period to make sure there is no possibility of pregnancy, since precum could still get you pregnant. Not to worry you, but wait a couple weeks and go get a pregnancy test- there are many planned parenthood clinics around the country that offer free testing (plannedparenthood.com).
Next time (and every other time), make sure to use a condom...CORRECTLY. It would be helpful for you to check out condom instructions (w/drawings) online, so you know exactly how to use one. Some people skip on an important step, which could lead to breakage. You can even go practice using one, even on a banana (sounds silly, but is helpful). Planned Parenthood also provides free condoms.
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