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This kiss
So there is this guy. We've been friends for like 3 years, and I've always liked him but never told him. The other day, we were hanging out and he kissed me. Of course, I was really excited. But, I don't really know if he meant anything by it; I mean, we were all alone and he might have just been caught up in the moment. I know the reasonable thing to do would be to ask him about it, but I'm pretty sure he'll just say "oh no, that kiss meant nothing". Like, it was such a good moment that I want to remember it as something sepcial, not as something that didn't mean anything. I know that sounds stupid but I just don't want to ruin that memory...and I'm thinking maybe if I don't say anything and we hung out more, it would happen again, you know? Eh. I really don't know what to do.
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haha this is funny, because the same thing happened to me just last weekend! me and my best friend have been friends for about three and a half years, i've always liked him but i don't think he ever realized it, well until now. what happened is we were both in my room, watching a hockey game and well we started cuddling and me being the kind of person i am, sat in his lap and i looked at him and he then kissed me. i was shocked, i didn't see this coming at all. well then i kind of took it like he had feelings for me so then after that we were flirting more, and "messing around" not exactly doing sexual things but just touching each other and things like that. so you can either approach this two different ways. next time you two hang out, if he starts hard core flirting with you, and touching you then do it back and see what his reaction is. then you could make a move like sit on his lap or something to that sort and see what happens from there. if he does end up kissing you again you could look at him and smile afterwards and be like "where did that come from." the second thing you could do, is ask him. i know that you are afraid of what he might say but you don't want to keep going day by day wondering "what if.." you know? maybe he was caught up in the moment, but i have a strong feeling that he likes you back :) if you need any other help let me know girl ♥ LU
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If you've like him for that long and he finally kissed then I think that it's time you confessed your feelings. If you two can have alone time then that would be when I told him. Start off the conversation with..."I want you to listen to what I have to say before you say anything." Tell him about how the kiss meant a lot to you and then tell him your feelings. At the end of telling him all of this ask him what he feels.
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