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How do I ask this girl out? Or even impress her.
I am a 16 year old male. My problem is that I met this freshman in my high school named Bria. She's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in my entire life and I've never felt this way about any other crush in my life, normally I would forget about a crush in a matter of 2-3 weeks. But this girl, I've liked for at least 3 months now, and I cannot find the way to ask her to go out with me. Let alone impress her, I feel like I'm not attractive enough for her, not worthy enough, but I know that if she gave me a chance, that I could treat her better than any other guy ALIVE! But, so far she only knows my nickname that I go by, and she only speaks to me rarely and that's when we're in class and she needs something like, "what order are we supposed to staple these papers" and what-not. I feel that it will be nearly impossible MIRACLE if I ever got a chance with her, I've even prayed occasionally, and nothing's happened, I even tried to forget about her, but everytime i say that I'm going to, I only think even harder of me and her and what our future could be like. On a scale of 1 to 10, she's ranked a 10, and I'm like a 6-7. Someone that has my empathy help me with this one.
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i think that you need to build up the confindence to go and ask this girl out because when you build up the confidence then you are going to think that you can take on the world and then you will beable to ask that girl out
just keeping it real
joey
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THIS IS ADORABLE [: when i read this, it really gave me butterflies. seriously this girl would be so lucky to have a guy like you. what you need to do is build up the confidence to start talking to her, i know this might be hard but if you don't take chances, you may never know how amazing something could turn out to be. i notice guys when they say something funny to me, when they can make me laugh. when they can keep a conversation going and not be boring. catch her attention. but like the person said below me, don't be creepy about it because i've had that happen before and really it's just weird. don't try to be overly funny either because sometimes that can just lead to awkwardness and her thinking you are trying too hard. first talk to her, get her attention and then when you do that you can show her how much you care and she will see that you are one of very FEW guys who knows how to treat a lady right. don't move too fast either because that could also freak her out. don't say stuff like i've had a crush on you for so long, or you're perfect when you first start talking to her. when guys tell me i'm perfect i get annoyed because really IM NOT. nobody's perfect. i hope things work out for you, you deserve the best boy. you seem like one amazing person. keep it up ♥ LU
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hey, you know. what you can do usually is be friendly. A friendly that is truly you. when you are looking at her in class and she catches you, smile, in a friendly way. not creepy though, but in the type of friendly that says, I'm interested. start flirting with her, she is already asking you stuff right. so flirting can go a long ways. Complements can go a long ways too, which is a part of flirting. But it sounds like you could have a chance with her. Eye contact! not too much because it could scare her away, but enough. also think about talking more to her, like talk about her. It shows that you are interested in her. no offense to us girls, but we love it when guys wanna know things about us...when they talk about us......anyways...i have a big feeling that you could have a chance with her. goodluck. i hope this helped.
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coming from a girls perspective i think the best way to just get her to notice you is to just be yourself when your around occasionally say hi to her and as she warms up to you invite her to things i wouldnt make it really obvious that you like her but show he your kinda interested
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